There is a sentence in the Yellow Emperor's Neijing:
People are built because of the house, and the house is saved because of the people. People help each other and feel the world. ”
This sentence is to say that the environment of a family not only affects everyone's fortune, but also hides the blessings of the whole family.
From a human point of view, if you want your family to become more and more prosperous, it is important for everyone to do the right thing and work together to run the family warm and harmonious.
On the contrary, family members are always unable to put themselves in the right position and are always doing some wrong things, so as the accumulation will only magnify the mistakes infinitely, bringing great disasters to the family.
Specifically, the most hidden way to abolish a family is the following three sentences.
The Book of Songs reads:
The virtue of the father, the inheritance of the son. ”
This sentence means that a father's virtue directly affects the child's life.
In a family, if the father is short-sighted and passable, in addition to the fact that the family will not have a good future in the future, his children may not have a great future under the influence.
If, on the contrary, the father has a big pattern of doing things, has a keen eye, and can reasonably arrange the direction of the family, the child will also see it in his eyes and keep it in his heart, so that he can become better and better.
Lin Zexu's father was a private school teacher, and someone gave him expensive gifts to help him fake, but he sternly refused.
He said that he can't give his children anything at the moment, but virtue must be established.
In the end, Lin Zexu became a minister of the Imperial Mission, famous all over the world for the sale of cigarettes in Humen, and became a great hero admired by the world.
As the saying goes: the love of parents is far-reaching. ”
The best gift a father gives to his children is never power, wealth and status, but his words and deeds, that is, his correct three views.
If the father of a family has a wrong outlook and has been doing something that harms others and benefits himself, stealing chickens and touching dogs, he thinks that his children don't understand anything when they are young, but they don't know that they will also make his children become the same people as himself.
Franklin said
The man who is in the midst of a rage is riding a crazy horse. When the mother is emotionally unstable and rides this crazy horse, the first person who is hurt is her own child. ”
In the book "Family on a Hot Pot", the hostess Caroline will always lose her temper with her family because of some small things.
Once, when she was preparing dinner, she wanted her husband and son to come over and help.
But the husband and son were playing a game and didn't hear it, only the daughter came out of the room and took the initiative to set up the family's dishes and chopsticks.
Even so, Caroline not only did not praise her daughter, but also accused her of doing too little.
But when her daughter retorted, she raised her hand in anger and slapped her daughter.
When her husband hears her daughter's cry, she tries to dissuade her, and Caroline uses her husband as a punching bag.
was originally a warm and amiable family, because Caroline always lost her temper at random for no reason, and their relationship became more and more strained.
There is a saying: Mother is the soul of a family, the whole family is happy when the mother is happy, and the whole family is anxious when the mother is anxious. ”
Therefore, a mother's emotional state directly determines the happiness of her family.
Because every time you yell, or lose control of your emotions, it will slowly envelop the whole family like a dark cloud, which will cause irreversible damage to the family.
Only when you maintain emotional stability, do not lose your temper at will, and have something to say, will the whole family become warm and harmonious.
There is such a saying:
If the mind is not good, Feng Shui is not beneficial; Parents are disrespectful, and it is useless to serve God. ”
In a family, if a child never knows how to be grateful, no matter how good he is when he grows up, it will not be of any benefit to society and the family.
Seen such a true story.
Mr. Chai from Sichuan saves money on weekdays for his daughter to study.
Finally, her daughter got a chance to study abroad, but something happened that Mr. Chai didn't expect.
The daughter squandered the more than 3 million hard-earned money she had saved for decades abroad under various excuses, compared with others, and in the end there was not much left.
Mr. Chai hoped that his daughter could stop the precipice and hoped that she would not continue to squander, but what he didn't expect was that he was finally blocked by his daughter.
In the face of his daughter's desperation, Mr. Chai thought of suicide, but fortunately he was found by the people around him and did not cause a tragedy.
If a family has children who don't know how to be grateful, even if it is gold and silver, it will be ruined, and it is destined to make the family poorer and poorer.
In this case, in the face of the child's unreasonable demands, do not meet them all, but admonish and correct, otherwise it will only lay the root of the curse for your family.
Many times, some people always think that getting along with each other is just a trivial matter, but they don't know that with the accumulation, it will slowly eat away at the foundation of the family.
If you really want to keep the blessings of your family, you must remain vigilant, prevent the slightest mistakes, and correct the wrong things in time.
May your family be prosperous, prosperous, trust each other, grow together, and make life more and more fulfilling!
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