Jiang Jie, a poet of the Song Dynasty, wrote in "A Cut of Plum Blossoms and a Boat Crossing the Wujiang River":
The streamer is easy to throw people, red cherries, green plantains. ”
Time flies, the cherries are just ripe, the plantains are green again, and spring is going to summer again.
Behind this sentence, it is revealed that the passage of time never stands still, but quietly slips away unconsciously, never to return.
Some women are tired in the journey of time, obviously not very old, but they are prematurely old, and their eyes are dull and haggard.
Some women can multiply their charm along the way, even if they have long passed the age of flowers, they still live a radiant life, walk with wind and confidence.
Since the different destinations in life are all caused by the accumulation of one's own living habits.
A woman who really lives and looks better knows how to cultivate both inside and outside, and she can't do without 5 good habits from beginning to end, and I hope you also have it.
There is a saying: everyone is a unique individual, no one can replace you, only when you appreciate yourself, the whole world will love you more. ”
The world is impermanent, no one is born to be a representative of excellence and power, flaws and deficiencies are the normal state of life.
It's just that too many women always forget to treat themselves well, because they don't do a good job, they start to deny themselves constantly, and let themselves fall into a humble predicament.
There are also some women who obviously did nothing wrong, but they are worried that others will be angry, so they begin to apologize habitually, completely ignoring their own feelings.
In fact, the more you don't know how to appreciate yourself, the more miserable your life will become; The less you know how to treat yourself, the less people will take you seriously.
Those women who live more and more beautifully will appreciate themselves at any time, affirm their self-worth, and understand their differences, so that they can live with confidence and let themselves go more and more smoothly.
Only when you appreciate yourself will you recognize every effort, and you will make yourself steady, not easily defined by others, but let yourself live more and more beautifully.
There is a book that says:
Progress is always born out of difficult situations, but the feeling of climbing out of the quagmire and gaining a new lease of life is really wonderful! ”
To be honest, life is a process of not advancing or retreating, especially for a woman.
But if a woman reveals enviable elegance and self-confidence, then it is definitely the result of self-appreciation, they make up for their shortcomings through continuous improvement, let themselves continue to move forward, and gain a lot.
In this case, don't let yourself be held back easily, but through learning and practice, let yourself add value, under the slow fermentation of time, when you look back again, suddenly find that a seed has become a towering tree.
The real self-improvement can start from a little bit of good habits, read books every day, exercise, as long as it is not three days of fishing and two days of drying nets, after a period of time you will find that the harvest is very rich.
Maintain self-improvement, or keep yourself awake at all times, gain experience by reflecting on one thing, and slowly become a smart person.
Please believe that as long as you are always on the road of self-appreciation, then you will definitely usher in a bright future.
Do you know what kind of effects bad emotions can have on the body?
I've read a note that if a woman is always impatient, irritable, sighing, and keeps herself on both ends of the emotional instability, then she can easily suffer from liver depression.
The direct impact of liver depression is the state of one's own **, which is easy to pigmentation, wrinkles, dull face, and the whole person also highlights an old appearance.
This is the reason why some women are obviously not very old, but they look very old on the outside.
Even if your own conditions are good, you will be far from being good-looking.
There is a saying: If the atmosphere is calm, the spirit is leisure, and if the spirit is idle, the sex is quiet. ”
At any time, you should restrain your emotions, don't let yourself become a person who is prone to temper tantrums, and having peace is the greatest charm.
If you can't stabilize your emotions, you will only make your ** worse and worse, and it is easier to do too many wrong things under impulse, and the gains outweigh the losses.
Life is originally stumbling, don't be angry with unworthy people, spend energy on unworthy things, keep yourself calm and calm, and the road of life will become wider and wider.
Carnegie said: There is nothing like worry that makes a woman age faster and ruin her countenance. ”
Life is not as good as it should be, if you always care about everything, you will only make yourself more and more tired, physically and mentally exhausted.
Everyone's living environment is different, and natural cognitions and concepts will not be the same, and if you have to compete with others, there is no point at all, and you will only let yourself be bound by trivial things.
A woman's joy and happiness, at a deeper level, is not that she has more, but that she cares less.
If you don't care about everything, you will make your heart more open-minded, and you will not embarrass yourself because of the mistakes of others, and you can make your life more peaceful and tranquil.
Women who don't like to worry often have an optimistic attitude, so that they don't have to worry about idle things, but focus on their own growth, and they will get better and better.
If you think about it carefully, not everything in this world is worth worrying about, only when you can really let go, it actually means that your mentality is becoming more and more mature.
Life is like this, the more you don't like to care, the more you will be able to truly feel the beauty of the world.
In my opinion, the more a woman lives, the better she looks, it is definitely not only the charm of her appearance, but also the maturity of her person.
The most important thing is that you can keep yourself awake, no matter what stage of life you are in, know what you want, and not fall into a panic and be overwhelmed, nor be stuck in the quagmire and sigh.
Only a woman who can stay awake at all times will make her life shine, and she can move forward steadily every time, and she will never become stagnant because of sudden wind and rain.
Life is never smooth sailing, but full of variables, and the strength of one's heart represents the courage to face the impact of life and still face it with a smile.
This is not a kind of self-deception, but soberness to let yourself really understand one thing, that is, whether you have cried or suffered, you still have to continue to hurry, only when you are braver, life will treat you kindly.
A woman who remains sober is able to accept the reality of the moment, and still keeps moving forward with hope, and never becomes decadent.
The more sober a woman is, the less sophisticated and sleek she is, but her heart is clear, because she has seen widely enough to truly understand the true meaning of life, and she is more willing to spend her life in the way she likes.
Writer Yang Jiang said:
A woman's best appearance is a talent that can withstand the baptism of time. ”
The years have never defeated the beauty, which is the harvest from her internal and external cultivation, so that she can walk with charm, elegance and happiness at different ages, and have her own colorful and wonderful life!
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