The problem of singles has not yet been solved, and there are five strange phenomena in the countryside, which is a sentimental analysis
The problem of singleness continues to affect rural areas.
In the fast-paced modern society, people generally advocate progress and a better life. However, the problem of singleness in rural areas is on the rise. My cousin is 39 years old and still single, which makes my aunt anxious. There are currently 40 singles in their 30s in our village. This is a staggering figure, and it also makes the parents in the village feel overwhelmed. They spend their days looking for partners and matchmakers for their children. At the same time, there are five strange phenomena in the countryside, which are really worrying.
Detailed description) The seriousness of the problem of singleness is becoming more and more pronounced in rural areas, where parents are heartbroken about their children's marriages. They run around, ask people to introduce people, and even spend a lot of money to hire matchmakers. However, unfortunately, the solution to this problem did not come as expected, but followed by the emergence of five strange phenomena, which brought more challenges and problems to the rural society.
This year's wax wedding wave caused strange things.
In recent years, there has been an increase in the number of weddings held in rural areas. The reason is that next year is the so-called"There is no spring year", also known as:"Year of the Widow"。According to folklore, this year is not suitable for happy events, especially weddings and moving, so many people hold wedding banquets before the lunar month. Perhaps in the eyes of the city people, this statement is pure superstition, but in the countryside, people are very careful to avoid it. After all, marriage comes only once, but it turns out that marriage is not once and for all. After all, marriage is only once, and people want to start their day in a festive way. Therefore, they prefer to hold wedding receptions in advance to avoid unlucky effects.
For rural residents, getting married on the Lunar New Year is not only a manifestation of superstition, but also a continuation of cultural heritage and values. They believe that getting married in the middle of the year is auspicious and brings good luck and happiness. Therefore, everyone cherishes this opportunity to hold the wedding ceremony in advance. This phenomenon reflects the respect and adherence of rural residents to traditional culture, as well as their yearning and pursuit of a better life.
Curiosity about changes in attitudes towards fertility.
In the past, in order to have more children, rural people hid layer by layer, although in the end they could not escape the framework of family planning and paid a lot of fines. However, with the relaxation of the country's policy to encourage multiple births, people began to choose to have only one child, or even none at all. Nowadays, the cost of raising children is getting higher and higher, and young people are facing huge life pressures and living under extreme constraints. It is difficult for them to provide a good environment for their children to grow up and live in. In addition, some people are worried that children will affect their career development, and young people are generally reluctant to have children for a variety of reasons.
In today's society, young people are facing huge financial and life pressures, and raising children has become a big burden. They need to incur large expenses such as housing prices, education costs, and medical expenses that they cannot afford with their current income. At the same time, young people often need to devote most of their time and energy to work, and it is difficult to have enough time and energy to take care of their children. Therefore, not having children becomes an option for them.
He was not filial in life, and he was a big party after death"A strange phenomenon.
In some rural families, siblings often shirk their responsibilities to support their parents and even quarrel over them. However, when their parents died, they would make a big deal and put on a feast. Many even compete with their neighbors to see who does the best job in the ceremony. This kind of behavior makes people think deeply, we should be filial to our parents when they are alive, give them warmth and companionship, and not wait until we lose our parents to repent.
Behind this strange phenomenon is a reflection of deep problems in family and emotional relationships. In the past, siblings lived closely and harmoniously with each other, and took care of their parents together, but this situation has changed greatly with the changes of the times and economic development. Affection is replaced by endless quarrels and disagreements, and economics and interests become the dominant forces in family relations. Siblings blame each other and quarrel over family property and inheritance. However, when a parent dies, these people will obviously regret their previous anti-family behavior and will show their sincere respect and remembrance for their deceased parents by holding a grand banquet. However, this practice is inherently hypocritical and is more important to give love and affection to parents while they are alive.
The strange attitude of the rural daughter-in-law who is coquettish.
Nowadays, more and more rural daughters-in-law are becoming squeamish. When they enter their in-laws' house, they don't want to do housework anymore, they just want to be taken care of and pampered. They spend their days dressed up to go shopping or play cards. When they got home, they didn't like the grass and trees of their in-laws' house either, and they were not satisfied with everything. They show off their perfumes, shoes and designer clothes, and often travel. In addition to eating, drinking, and having fun, they hardly do housework, and their in-laws can only accommodate and care for them, for fear of offending them.
Detailed description] The status of daughters-in-law in rural families is generally very low, and in the face of the various requirements and expectations of their in-laws, their own rights and status are often ignored. In order to be respected and treated equally, they can only defend their rights and interests through various means. They use their charm to please their husbands and families in order to gain more love and support. Although this is not advisable, daughters-in-law often feel that it is the only way out.
In rural areas, banquets are indiscriminately organized, and the cost is high.
Nowadays, there are more and more banquets in rural areas. In the past, banquets in the countryside were limited to a few simple dishes, but now people generally pursue pomp and pomp, and the scale of the banquet is often very large and luxurious, and even requires the rent of a large tent and the hiring of a professional chef. These banquets cost a lot of money, which not only puts a lot of pressure on the party hosting the banquet, but also makes the wedding a way to show off wealth and compare. Many people even borrow money to hold banquets in order to honor their families, leaving themselves in debt.
Detailed description] The procedure of running a banquet is complex and expensive, and it has become a big burden for rural bachelors. For the sake of image and scenery, people do not hesitate to spend a lot of money, and even borrow money to run a banquet. The burden of this kind of banquet is too much for many people to bear, and they have to give up the idea of getting married. The drawbacks and burdens of running banquets have become an important aspect of the problem of singleness in rural areas, which should arouse the attention of the society.
In conclusion, the problem of rural singleness plagues many families and communities. The emergence of five major phenomena has further aggravated the seriousness of the problem. In the face of these phenomena, we must strengthen our care and assistance for the orphaned in rural areas, actively seek ways to solve problems, and contribute to the happiness of rural marriages and families.