In China, children are like bright stars, lighting up every corner of the family. The son is the hope of the family, inheriting the incense; The daughter is the intimate little padded jacket of the parents, warming their hearts. However, with the evolution of the times, this traditional concept of family has had a subtle collision with the values of modern society.
In ancient traditions, family property and power were often vested in sons, and daughters were treated as outsiders when they married. This concept makes parents more dependent on their sons and daughters-in-law when providing for the elderly, while daughters may be burdened with a heavy psychological burden due to various pressures. However, modern society advocates the equality of children and equal rights and duties, regardless of gender.
But in real life, this equality is not fully achieved. Especially in terms of property inheritance, parents and sons and daughters-in-law often think that their daughters have no share, which leads to conflicts and disputes within the family. When families are faced with the issue of providing for the elderly, these contradictions may become more acute. Daughters may feel excluded and neglected, while sons and daughters-in-law may exacerbate conflicts by caring for their daughters' contributions.
Therefore, for parents who have both children, how to balance the relationship with their children has become an important task. They need to abandon traditional prejudices and stubbornness, and understand and accept every family member with an open mind. When it comes to the distribution of property and pension, parents should uphold the principles of fairness and justice to ensure that every child receives the respect and care they deserve.
In this era of diversity and inclusiveness, let us abandon outdated family concepts and work together to create a harmonious and happy family environment in the name of equality, respect and love. Let every family member feel each other's love and support, and write their own chapter of happiness together.