Can two people still maintain a peaceful relationship after they are divorced?
Chen ** must have something to say about this issue.
Three marriages and two failures, but his ex-wife did not hate him in the end, but shook hands and became friends.
Especially the second wife Liu Xiaoqing, more than 20 years after the two divorced, Chen ** still said it on the show"The person I love and hate the most in my life is Liu Xiaoqing".That's the way it goes.
Although, at that time he already had a third wife.
It can be seen from these emotional experiencesChen's life must be extraordinary.
So, what kind of story happened to him?
In 1986, after many obstacles, Chen ** finally came together with Liu Xiaoqing.
The two have known each other for five years, and although they are both in their thirties, they are still very impulsive for love.
However, what Chen ** didn't expect was that Liu Xiaoqing had a "new love" in the second year.
When they first got married, the two did not have the same status.
Chen ** has already become famous, and has also transformed into a director, and his roots are very popular.
And Liu Xiaoqing has not been able to become popular, and even her Beijing hukou is still obtained by marrying her first husband.
In the second year of marriage with Chen**,She won the Golden Rooster Award and the Hundred Flowers Award for "Furong Town", and only then did she begin to become famous in the film industry.
However, when filming "Spring Peach", she had an ambiguous relationship with the rival actor Jiang Wen.
At that time, Jiang Wen was a good seedling who had just graduated from Chinese opera a few years ago, and he was the best student recognized by all teachers.
And Liu Xiaoqing is also an actress, and the two certainly have a lot of common topics in art.
They joined forces and won many awards for the films they filmed.
And in the process, they also have some strange feelings.
Although Liu Xiaoqing is thirteen years older than Jiang Wen, her mentality is always young.
And Jiang Wen is also a very mature man who takes good care of her.
Liu Xiaoqing is on the rise in his career, he is in the crew all day long, and he doesn't go home often, so his relationship with Chen ** naturally fades.
At the same time, the pink bubble between her and Jiang Wen became more and more obvious.
Finally, one day he crossed the ethics and developed a deformed relationship.
Later, when mentioning this relationship, the host asked Liu Xiaoqing:
"Did you foresee at the time that, under the so-called moral norms, this relationship was destined to cause you great trouble? ”
And Liu Xiaoqing's answer was also quite surprising.
"It didn't cause any trouble, just trouble for my husband," she said. ”It can be seen from here that Liu Xiaoqing never cares about other people's opinions, and only pays attention to his inner feelings.
She did the same back then, regardless of her married status, and Jiang Wen seemed to be a real couple.
But paper can't hold the fire, they can act as if Chen ** does not exist, but Chen ** and his relatives and friends can't turn a blind eye to this "green hat".
Under the reminder of a friend, Chen ** finally knew the relationship between the two.
He was very painful in his heart, because he still loved Liu Xiaoqing in his heart, and he didn't know what to do.
They confronted each other face-to-face, and Jiang Wen also confessed his love for Liu Xiaoqing under persecution.
Chen ** was angry and hateful, at this time, his marriage with Liu Xiaoqing was difficult to maintain after all.
In 1988, they went to court and divorced.
Eventually, after completing all the formalities, their marriage came to an end.
However, the two agreed to get together and disperse, but in the end they failed to abide by it.
Liu Xiaoqing published a confession, in which he portrayed Chen ** as a domestic violence man.
And Chen ** was not to be outdone, and also wrote a book to reveal the unknown secret between him and Liu Xiaoqing.
This book is extremely detrimental to Liu Xiaoqing's reputation, and the two of them have completely torn their faces.
It wasn't until they were on the same stage again in 2015 that they met with a smile and a grudge, apologize to each other, and explain the misunderstanding of the year.
Their romance was too dramatic.
Not only is there such a farce when they are separated, but they are also vigorous when they are together.
Chen **'s family background is very good, he grew up in the army compound, and he has never suffered much since he was a child.
If you want to say that the most difficult time, it may be to go to the countryside to cut the queue and need to work.
He was very talented in art and interested in acting, and was admitted to Changchun Film Studio in 1975.
Chen ** has excellent appearance, and his acting skills are also very good, and he has made a name for himself on the screen.
's career is starting slowly, and I'm very proud in love.
Zhao Yamin entered the studio in the same year as him, both of them are actors, and they are also young, so it is easy to spark.
But in fact, this is Zhao Yamin's unrequited love.
Because Chen ** doesn't love her, just to find a suitable marriage partner.
He happened to see Zhao Yamin's thoughts about him, so he pushed the boat down the river and proposed to her.
Zhao Yamin was immersed in love, and she couldn't see that this man had no feelings for her.
In 1979, they had their wedding, colleagues and family members are very optimistic about this pair of golden boys and girls.
Everyone thinks they are a good match, but Chen ** can't afford to be a husband at this time.
In 1981, their son Chen He was born.
Of course, this Chen He is not the one who later played "Zeng Xiaoxian", but he has the same name.
Zhao Yamin became a mother, and she also put down her career to concentrate on taking care of the family.
When her son cries, she coaxes her, she contracts all the housework, and she also cares about the elderly on both sides.
Chen ** can be a hands-off shopkeeper with peace of mind, and he doesn't have to worry about anything at home.
He just needs to film well and make money to support his family.
But when a man is always outside, his heart is easy to be wild.
No, he met Liu Xiaoqing, wasn't he just "fascinated"?
At that time, she was busy dealing with a divorce with her husband, and there were no moral constraints.
But Chen ** has a wife and children, and his leaders and colleagues know about it.
Looking at him and Liu Xiaoqing's eyebrows, the relationship between the two is obviously not normal.
But no matter how everyone persuades him, Chen ** is the same, and he will still find Liu Xiaoqing for a private meeting on weekends.
When the two were not in the same city, he was still thereI deliberately took the train to find her.
Once it happened that Liu Xiaoqing went to another place to film, and Chen ** couldn't see her, so he played ** for a long time and paid 8 yuan **.
He didn't even have the money to buy a ticket back, so he borrowed money from other actors to buy a ticket.
The two are so arrogant, and gossip is also spread all over the world.
finally reached Zhao Yamin's ears, and she also chose to quit.
divorced Chen ** and got custody of his son.
It's just that I didn't expect that Liu Xiaoqing and him would part ways within a few years.
Because of the relationship with Liu Xiaoqing back then, Chen's image in the eyes of the audience was greatly reduced.
If there is a problem with the work style, the unit leaders cannot tolerate it.
He was transferred to the Beijing Film Studio, and began to study to be a director, turning to behind-the-scenes work.
In this way, the impact of marital infidelity can be minimized.
He also has a certain strength in directingshowed his talent, a number of excellent films were born in his hands.
His ex-wife, Zhao Yamin, later lived in Japan and became a fashion designer.
Her son was educated well by her, and became a director after returning from studying abroad.
Zhao Yamin is a gentle and kind woman who has not complained anything in front of her son.
She is still trying her best to maintain the relationship between father and son, and she does not prevent them from meeting.
Therefore, although Chen ** is not by his son's side, he still has feelings with him.
Chen He inherited his father's mantle, grew into an excellent director, and became a talent in the film and television industry under the leadership of his father.
Chen ** regarded him as his pride, and the father and son also cooperated in filming to create the film "High-speed Rail Testimony".
In terms of personal life, Chen ** also formed his own family.
In 2002, he married Fu Liyun, who was 16 years younger, and had a second son.
The family was happy, and the rest of his life was finally stable.
Life is like a play, and the entanglement between him and Liu Xiaoqing is like being written in the script, which is quite "bloody".
However, since the parties have let go of the grievances of the year and choose to live well, that is the best result.
Chen **'s life is really legendary, and Liu Xiaoqing is even better.
It is undeniable that they are all capable people who can succeed in their field.
Their personalities are also similar, they are both bold and unafraid of the eyes of the world.
I hope that Chen ** can grow old with Fu Liyun and be happy in his old age.
I also hope that Chen He's career will continue to progress and strive to surpass his father.