Trust is the most important element in interpersonal relationships. In the unit, the leader gives you a job to trust you; In society, when a friend entrusts you with something, it is a trust in you. During the Chinese Agrarian Revolution, the funds of the revolution were entrusted to a certain comrade for safekeeping. Trust is the main determinant of the formation of a social organization and social organism, and is the prerequisite for the formation of a social contract. If society loses trust, then no matter what kind of society it is, it must beMoral loss,Sycophancy, incessant dumping.
I have a friend who is a senior reporter at a county TV station in Xuzhou, and he encountered a strange thing. A few years ago, he suddenly received a notice asking him to refill the assessment of a certain year, and he saw that the assessment results that had entered the file and made him dare not believe - basically qualified.
My friend clearly remembers that he did all the work well that year, in addition to completing the special publicity task, he also helped the two young people to complete the annual income generation task. What's the problem? He suddenly remembered, I see.
This starts much earlier. At that time, the editorial department transferred a slightly older teacher from a certain school, and it didn't take long for him to become the deputy director. The mountains don't turn around, the water doesn't turn people, no, this leader has become the leader of the department, and he has fallen into his hands, and he doesn't dare to make a big move, waiting for you secretly! This friend of mine said that during the assessment that year, his leader who was waiting for him said: "In this year's annual assessment, the superior does not need to fill in the assessment results, but signs his name and writes 'agree' in the personal opinion column of the assessment results." "I didn't expect this person who had been a teacher and used to be a role model for others to do such a bad thing!
Afterwards, my friend thought for a long time and sighed:How can you easily believe in a so-called leader, the so-called superior requirements in the mouth of a so-called leader. Trust is a two-way street, and it cannot be followed blindly. Rawls's assertion that "fairness is justice, and justice is fairness" proved in his book A Theory of Justice still seems to have profound practical significance today. Fortunately, the so-called leader Mr. WXC failed to cover the sky with one hand, and will always cover the sky!
Is there still such a so-called leader in society, such a treacherous person who secretly does some "indiscriminate" things? I think there will be. My friend said to me self-deprecatingly that he had been demerited with a third-class meritorious service and had been rated as an advanced worker of the year in the (county) district, but he was not an advanced individual in the unit, and the only annual assessment of "excellent" was won by finding a real leader. Sad, not sad?!
Although friends have encounters, if I were asked to choose whether to trust others or not to trust others, I would still choose - "trust"!