A three-year-old child is forced to run naked in the ice and snow, and has to bury his whole body in the snow, is this a moral degradation or a distortion of human nature?
Although parents want their children to become dragons and phoenixes, is this a bit too extreme?
He Yide, a proud son with a wonderful resume at the age of twelve, is now only fifteen years old, and he received a postdoctoral acceptance letter from the University of Cambridge in the United Kingdom.
He Yide's father, He Liesheng, is the chairman of the Tai Oath GroupBefore engaging in this industry, He Liesheng used to be a people's teacher, so He Liesheng was also handy in terms of children's education.
Under He Liesheng's iron hand, his son He Yide also grew up to be what others call "someone else's child".
While other children were still crawling on the ground, He Yide could already walk and keep up with the pace of adults.
A little older, He Liesheng took He Yide to challenge the Purple Mountain in Nanjing, and the two-year-old child was able to walk independently and climbed to the top of the mountain.
In addition, He Liesheng also pays great attention to He Yide's education.
When He Yide was more than two years old, he could already know more than 3,000 words.
When He Yide was three years old, an intelligence test in the United States showed that three-year-old He Yide was already at the level of being able to go to elementary school.
Since He Yide's intelligence level is higher than that of ordinary people, it is natural to cultivate it well, and after that, He Liesheng began to cultivate He Yide's interests and hobbies, hoping that He Yide can develop more.
At the age of four, he was able to operate a sailboat independently, and participated in international sailing competitions, in which he also won a prize.
When he was five years old, He Yide, accompanied by his father, flew a plane around the Beijing Wildlife Park.
Not to mention how much money it takes to fly an airplane on his own, it's a great thing for a five-year-old to be able to fly a plane around the zoo on his own.
When He Yide was six years old, he wrote an autobiography called "I Am a "Naked Running Brother"", which did write about He Yide's experience, but in the author's profile on the cover page of the book, it was a bit exaggerated.
His story has been translated into 65 languages, and his deeds have been reported in 230 countries and regions, with 3,500** reports, 7,700 *** and 12,600 newspapers
These are legendary enough to appear in the same person.
He Yide's most legendary experience is not these, but his admission to Nanjing University at the age of eight.
At that time, He Yide's father, He Liesheng, was preparing for the self-examination exam of Nanjing University, so he asked He Yide to try it too, and the father and son studied together.
In the end, He Yide was successfully admitted to the self-examination college of Nanjing UniversityHe graduated from Nanjing University at the age of 11. At the age of 13, He Yide received a doctoral admission letter from the University of São Paulo in the Philippines
Originally, He Yide could go to a better school to study, but the school hours of other schools were too long, and He Liesheng felt that it would hinder He Yide's future path, so he chose the University of São Paulo, which had a shorter school time.
After graduating with a doctorate, 15-year-old He Yide received a postdoctoral acceptance letter from the University of Cambridge in the United Kingdom, and he still has a long way to go.
He Liesheng is very satisfied with the children who came out of the eagle-style education, but outsiders are feeling sorry for He Yide.
At a young age, he received high-level knowledge, which was like pulling out a seedling to help him burn He Yide's vitality.
Obviously only a teenager, he is very sophisticated in conversation, and when he talks about his life history, he is like a robot that has set up a program, but when others ask about He Yide's dream, he can't say it at all.
He Yide has always been pushed by He Liesheng, and the education he received is unilaterally considered meaningful by He Liesheng, and He Yide is like a puppet doll.
Although the outside world is condemning He Liesheng's approach, his starting point is good, when He Yide was born, he was a premature baby, his body was very weak, and he was even at risk of becoming a child with cerebral palsy.
In order for He Yide not to become a child with cerebral palsy, He Liesheng must be ruthless
When He Yide was born, he was oneOnly seven months of age premature babies, weighs only three pounds and eight taels, and is accompanied by a series of brain diseases.
In the face of He Yide's situation, the doctor has already told He Liesheng to prepare for the worst, this child is likely to become a child with cerebral palsy or dementia in the future.
A moment ago, he was still immersed in the joy of being a first-time father, and after hearing the bad news at this moment, He Liesheng only felt that the sky was about to fall, but as the pillar of the family, he couldn't fall, and after cleaning up his mood, He Liesheng began to think about how to save his child.
After waiting for two months, He Yide's situation stabilized, He Liesheng took his wife and son home, and after returning home, He Liesheng inquired in many ways, and also consulted various materials to find a way to ** his son.
He Yide is congenital malnutrition and low physique, nutrition can be slowly supplemented, but low physique is not easy to say, after all, the child is only a few months old now, and he can't let the child go out to climb.
He Liesheng chose to train in the water, he put the child who was only three months old in the water basin, He Yide was very uncomfortable staying in the water, and began to cry, hoping to awaken He Liesheng's fatherly love.
But for the sake of the child's future, He Liesheng gritted his teeth and persevered, no matter how miserable He Yide cried in the basin, he didn't help, and didn't take the child out until an hour later.
He Liesheng can be ruthless, but He Liesheng's wife can't stand it, He Yide is a piece of meat that fell from her body after all, crying and making trouble like this, but it hurts her heart.
He Liesheng's wife gave He Liesheng an ultimatum, there is only one week, if He Yide still does not adapt to this week, he will not be allowed to arrange this kind of messy training for He Yide in the future.
After a week, He Yide got used to the feeling of being in the water, and was even able to paddle in the water a few times.
He Liesheng began to increase his intensity, and He Yide's time in the water became longer and longer.
By the time He Yide was six months old, he had been able to stay in the water for eight hours, and although this was a huge improvement for He Yide, He Liesheng felt that it was far from enough.
He Liesheng felt that the strength could continue to increase, but it would not work if he soaked in the water for too long, and everyone would have to soak in the buoy.
So He Liesheng began to change the water temperature, and at first, in order for the baby to adapt, the water temperature was the most comfortable temperature a little higher than the body temperature.
He Liesheng decided to lower the water temperature, five degrees at a time, and each section has an adaptation stage. After He Yide's physique improved, He Liesheng took him to climbNanjing's Purple Mountain
He Yide's health is not good for a day, He Liesheng can't let go of his mind for a day, and he will take He Yide to a physical examination regularly.
Under He Liesheng's exercise,The doctor looked at He Yide's physical examination report and was also amazed
With the doctor's affirmation, He Liesheng began to execute his iron wrist again. On Chinese New Year's Eve in 2012, He Liesheng took off the three-year-old He Yide with only one **, and then threw it in the ice and snow.
At that time, the temperature on the streets of the United States was minus thirteen degrees, He Yide was only wearing a pair of ** and a pair of sneakers, he was shivering from the cold, the whole person shrunk together, and a pair of small eyes looked at He Liesheng, he didn't understand why his father wanted him to do this, and he hoped that his father could hug him.
But He Liesheng ignored He Yide's begging, but let He Yide lie down in the snow, although He Yide was crying and unwilling, but he still obeyed his father's words and lay in the snow.
He Yide's ** running naked in the snow was ** on major platforms, and there were many discussions for a while, some were surprised, some were distressed, but they were all unanimously crusading against He Liesheng.
But He Yide's life experience in the back is all telling these netizens that each child is suitable for different education methods, and He Liesheng just wants his child to be a normal child.
He Liesheng succeeded, He Yide is very successful in his life now, and he can be regarded as the youngest among the postdocs。But He Liesheng's later efforts have changed and become more utilitarian.
In 2016, He Liesheng registered a Nanjing Eagle Daddy Education Technology ***, and in the same year, it began to enroll students with an Eagle Daddy Public School.
There are not so many coincidences in the world, Eagle Dad Public School is ostensibly a public welfare organization and a non-profit organization, but the tuition fee of this school is more than 10,000 yuan a month.
The school's class schedule is also the same as He Yide's one, starting from half past five, everything is arranged, and the whole day is full of classes.
The students who signed up were of different grades, and He Liesheng adopted online teaching, allowing students to take relevant courses on their own, and then the teachers in the institution would conduct assessments.
In addition to the basic teaching of the Ten Merchants, He Liesheng also paid special attention to the sense of ceremony, and had to perform a thank-you ceremony before each meal, and also go to the snow to run naked like He Yide.
The advertising pages of Eagle Daddy School are full of words like "genius" and "prodigy", and parents are very excited when they see it, but in 2018, an article came out of nowhere, revealing the true face of Eagle Daddy Public.
The ** of the article "Escape from Eagle Dad" is unknown, but it became popular all over the Internet as soon as it was uploaded, which exposed the dark side of Eagle Dad's Public School, mistreating students, corporal punishment of students and other negative things
This article successfully attracted the attention of the upper **, and after verification, it was found that Eagle Dad Public School did not have the qualifications to run a school, so Eagle Dad Public School was stopped.
After the school refused to let him do it, He Liesheng still said that what he did was a valuable educational experience, and it was not the kind of hype that the outside world said.
A principal once pointed out He Liesheng's problem, what to do at what age, you can't go against the law of personal growth, and people are not robots, and education can't be used for experiments.
But He Liesheng didn't listen to it at all, and still went his own way
Now He Yide is indeed walking on the road he arranged, but he will never know what happiness is like in his life, He Liesheng's obstinate behavior will definitely be projected back in the future.
As a parent, you still have to respect your children, what to do at what time, the story of pulling out seedlings and helping them has always existed, and the ending is tragic, so it is good to "conform to the agricultural time".