Marriage is an important journey in life.
However, not every marriage can be smooth sailing, and some couples may encounter various problems that lead to a state of "having a bad time and not wanting to leave".
If you're facing this dilemma, here are a few ways to consider how to deal with it.
First of all, it is necessary to face up to the problems in the marriage and accept the reality.
Don't expect too much and don't try to change the other person.
Everyone has their own personalities and habits, and these cannot be easily changed.
Instead of trying to change each other, learn to accept and respect each other's differences.
Lowering expectations can help reduce disappointment and dissatisfaction, making it easier for both partners to face problems in their marriage.
It's easy to get caught up in negativity when you have problems in your marriage.
To get out of this state, you can try to shift your focus and improve yourself.
Cultivate your hobbies, participate in social activities, and expand your social circle.
This will not only allow you to take a break from marital problems, but also make you more independent and confident.
When you become more attractive, your partner will also regain interest in you, helping to improve the marital relationship.
In marriage, don't grieve yourself in order to cater to the other person.
Everyone has their own needs and feelings, and if you blindly wronged yourself, you will not only make yourself feel unhappy, but also make the other person feel that you have lost yourself.
Therefore, in marriage learn to express your needs and feelings, communicate with your partner and find solutions that are acceptable to both parties.
If you feel that wronging yourself will have a negative impact on your physical and mental health, then you should consider separating from your partner.
Remember, marriage is something that needs to be managed, and everyone has their own growth and changes. As long as both partners are willing to put in the effort to improve the marital relationship, it is possible to bring the marriage back to life.