In the red dust, everyone longs to have a love that can be talked about for a lifetime. This kind of love, like a spring breeze, like a long stream of water, even if the years change, it can still hold hands and go to the gray hair.
But it is not easy to achieve such a wish. There are too many disturbances, too many changes, and too many ** in the world, which can easily make people tired and emotionally alienated. If we can do the following four things, perhaps, we can have a relationship without breaking up.
Don't be cold-warned, communicate openly.
The most feared thing in love is the cold war. When two people are together, it is inevitable that there will be bumps and bumps, and there will be times when there is a disagreement. At this time, we can quarrel, but we must not have a cold war.
quarrel, at least you can hear each other's voices and know each other's thoughts; The Cold War, on the other hand, was a silent torture that made people feel cold.
Quarrels are not about winning or losing, but about solving problems and going on better.
Therefore, when arguing, we must learn to control our emotions and not say hurtful words. Be on the facts, don't go over old accounts.
After the quarrel, it is necessary to reconcile in time and not let the conflict stay overnight.
In this way, our feelings can become deeper in the quarrels again and again.
Be blunt and don't have to be suspicious.
In love, the most taboo thing is to let the other party guess their own thoughts. Sometimes, we may feel that our mind is elusive and the other person should be able to guess it.
But in fact, no one is a roundworm in your stomach, and if you don't say it, how will the other party know?
Therefore, if there is anything unhappy, you must say it in time and don't hold it in your heart. Say it, and maybe the problem is half solved.
Moreover, speaking up can also avoid a lot of misunderstandings and suspicions. You must know that suspicion is the poison of feelings, and once it grows, it is difficult to **.
Therefore, we must be honest with each other and not let suspicion ruin our love.
Give to each other and take turns to bow your head.
Love is a matter of two people, and it needs to be paid by both parties. If one person is always taking and the other is always giving, then sooner or later the relationship will be unbalanced.
Therefore, we must know how to give to each other, and we must learn to care for each other and be considerate of each other. Give support and help when the other person needs it.
At the same time, we must also learn to take turns bowing our heads. In love, there is no absolute right or wrong. Many times, the cause of a quarrel is just a trivial matter.
At this time, if we can take the initiative to bow our heads and admit our mistakes, we can resolve the conflict and make the relationship more harmonious.
Remember, love is not a battlefield, and there is no need to distinguish between winners and losers.
As long as we can tolerate and understand each other, we can walk through every spring, summer, autumn and winter hand in hand.
Keep the sense and refuse to be ambiguous.
In love, a sense of proportion is very important. Now that we have an object, we need to keep a certain distance from other people.
Don't be ambiguous with someone, as this will make the other person feel upset and hurt.
We have to understand that love is exclusive and selfish.
We can't fall in love with two people at the same time, so when we are in contact with others, we must grasp the balance and don't let the other party misunderstand.
At the same time, we must also trust each other and not be suspicious of each other.
It is not an easy thing to talk about a love without breaking up, and it takes two people to work together.
I hope everyone can find the person who is willing to fall in love with them for a lifetime;
May everyone be able to move forward bravely on the road of love, not afraid of wind and rain, not afraid of difficulties;
May everyone's love be as picturesque and beautiful as ever.