A 4-year-old boy in kindergarten had red scratches on his cheeks, and a parent accused that a boy in kindergarten who was in kindergarten accidentally scratched his classmate's face, but he didn't expect the child caregiver to scratch his child. The reason turned out to be in order to let the boy experience the feeling of being arrested, and the parents were refused to report the case directly to the kindergarten.
Scratched a classmate, but was scratched by the teacher in the face.
Although the kindergarten said that the personal behavior of the child care worker has been reported to the Education Bureau as soon as possible, and the teacher is currently suspended for investigation. However, the irrationality of the teacher actually hides the helplessness and powerlessness of campus discipline! Parents who learned of this incident also raised different views, this boy had bullied other classmates, including his own child, and if the teacher did not discipline and blindly tolerated him, would it cause the lives of other students to be in danger?
Mistreatment will be punished according to the severity of the circumstances.
Regarding this matter, Guo Mingzhou, secretary of the Taichung City Education Bureau, mentioned that the Education Bureau will actively investigate the case, and if the result comes out that it involves illegal and improper treatment of young children, it will be fined depending on the severity of the circumstances.
3 steps to help you protect your child.
When encountering an unreasonable situation on campus, how should parents help their children and themselves? Generally speaking, when anyone encounters unreasonable treatment of their children, their hearts must be in turmoil, and the first thing to do is to sort out the cause and effect of the matter.
Step 1: Sort out the facts and ideas.
First of all, what is my opinion? I don't think a child can be beaten if he doesn't make a mistake? What action do I most want to take right now? How do I want to communicate, and what is the outcome of the afternoon communication?
Step 2: Listen to your child.
Your child's feelings are the most important thing! At this time, you can encourage your child to tell what happened and how she feels, so that your child has the opportunity to vent the grievances in her heart, and at the same time accompany your child to clarify the grievances of the matter. Including what happened at that time, why did the teacher deal with it like this, and what thoughts did it have?
In the process, he chooses to think and face, rather than escape. Children can also learn to deal with things and grow up with their parents.
Step 3: Communicate fully with the teacher.
Communicate with the teacher concerned first, so that the teacher and parents can think about better ways to deal with it.
This not only gives the teacher a clear idea of the parents' reaction, but also gives the teacher an opportunity to explain. The content of the communication is suggested as follows:
1.Confirm the incident with the teacher and ask why the teacher did this way.
2.Expressing gratitude to the teacher for their concern for the child's behaviour makes the teacher more willing to seek change because they are understood. Gently and firmly express your own opinions, show why the teacher's way is inappropriate, and how you hope the teacher will change.
3.If the teacher has difficulty communicating with the child, or if the child is more demanding in the future, you can prepare to respond to the school or transfer to another school.