Children are tired of school, which makes many parents feel very headaches. So, how to correctly guide children to overcome school boredom?
First of all, as parents, we should understand that sometimes, learning is not a pleasant thing, thinking back, when we were young, who wanted to be a citizen in the classroom, to pick birds in trees, to catch fish in the river, to climb mountains, to pick fruits, that thing is not more fun than sitting in the classroom.
Therefore, as parents, it really takes a lot of effort to guide our children to like school. The following methods are used for reference.
1. Parents self-reflect
First of all, we must admit that we have made mistakes in education, failed to cultivate good study habits in children from an early age, and our past educational attitudes and methods were rigid. This requires us to have in-depth conversations with children on the basis of self-reflection, examine our own shortcomings, listen to children's voices, and work out effective improvement plans together. In this process, we must face the education of our children with a more mature and rational attitude, rather than simply repeating the mistakes of the past.
Second, we need to ask the teacher for advice
Ask the teacher for advice and have an in-depth discussion with the child to pinpoint the main problems in the child's learning. This requires a detailed analysis of the child's learning, especially for the worst subjects, and we need to have an in-depth understanding of their learning attitudes, learning methods, and specific learning content. Only when we pinpoint exactly what the problem is, can we take targeted measures to help the child.
3. Play the role of role models
We can consider "pairing" with children who are learning well in order to provide a positive learning environment for the child. When choosing a primary teacher, we need to communicate fully with the teacher to ensure that the selected child can not only help our child, but also have a good foundation of interaction with our child. At the same time, we also need to express our gratitude to each other's parents. Of course, we also need to understand that "pairing" does not completely depend on others, and our children also need to show their own enthusiasm and initiative in learning. Only then will they be able to truly grow in their new learning environment.
4. Find a governess.
When children encounter difficulties in certain subjects, we should give priority to breaking through one or two subjects. When choosing a home tutor, we need to look for experienced teachers who can make up lessons for our children on weekends. Before hiring a tutor, the child needs to be fully mentally prepared, abandon the dependency mentality, and work hard to adjust the relationship with the teacher.
5. Parents and children learn together.
The situation of a child's boredom in school may be related to the parents' lack of love for knowledge. In order to change this phenomenon, parents should change their mindset and study carefully, whether it is their child's curriculum or some other subject. Parents and children should arrange study time together and supervise and check with each other.
6. Strengthen the contact with the class teacher.
Parents should keep in close contact with the class teacher if they find that their child is absent from school or truancy. On the one hand, according to the characteristics of the child, ask the teacher to arrange suitable tasks for the child in the class to improve the child's status in the class. You can prepare a home-school contact book and let the child, parents and teachers record the contact content together. Suggestions are child-centered, and teachers and parents can write down analysis, praise, and suggestions. Primary school students should record daily, and secondary school students should record two to three times a week.
7. Common progress
If several children are absent from school or skipping school together, several parents should work together to discuss countermeasures and work with the class teacher to discuss how to help. For example, we can jointly hire tutors, develop mutual promotion plans, organize cultural and sports activities, and set up common progress groups to mobilize children's enthusiasm.
Dear parents and friends, hello, what other good ways to do it. Welcome to share in the comment area.