February** Dynamic Incentive Program
After two days of stopping, I wanted to give up
Yes, you read that right, it's been two days since the last update, and more often than not, I didn't think to update it in those two days.
In other words, I've forgotten about it for the past two days. So much so that there were periods when I really felt like I had to give up.
After all, a lot of things don't always go your way.
It's like working on your own while doing your own **. In fact, sometimes I feel really tired. Especially for a long time recently, the daily state of work can be said to be saturated.
Although I also have time to rest, I still feel that my ability to learn is getting weaker and weaker, and I have not made any progress. As a result, there are more and more thoughts of wanting to give up.
Sometimes you really just want to be here! It's like stopping the shift for two days. Actually, I had a feeling of sudden relaxation.
If after all, the plan of the past year is the company's work, computer, WeChat, and then after work, the computer and mobile phone at home, and then on the way to work.
In fact, I sometimes feel overwhelmed by this. So sometimes I started to slack off. Especially after this stoppage. I really thought about giving up.
Because there was a question in my heart, do I still need to keep going about this? Does it still make sense to stick with it?
That's probably the question I've asked myself the most during this time. But in my heart, there was another voice asking me, "Do you really regret giving up like this?" ”
In fact, when this problem arises, I know that I have made a choice, that is, I will definitely regret it after giving up. So after two days of hiatus, I started again.
Perhaps, as Haruki Murakami wrote in "1Q84": "Life is a fork in the road where there is nothing to do, and when there is no experience, no one can judge that those choices must be the best path to the end." ”
Oh, yes! It's all possible in our lives that we come together in the morning and remember that we have a bunch of unfinished tasks to do today. I don't want to get out of bed at all, I don't want to go to work.
So, sometimes we really envy people who achieve financial freedom, or who can walk on their own terms. So under the influence of these problems, we start to become anxious.
So that sometimes I will invisibly put pressure on myself. So, in the face of this situation, there are times when I need to allow myself to be lazy.
After all, not all people in this world can be full of vitality every day, and there will always be a period of relaxation. It's like a string, if it's too tight, it's easy to break, and then we need to loosen it.
Allow yourself a few days to sit in front of the window in a daze, drink tea, and experience the mood of basking in the sun. And the biggest benefit of this is that it can rejuvenate us.
Secondly, it is to change our plan from the original list of goals to what we need to do every day, that is, the results.
In this way, we are more aware of what we need to do and free ourselves from the tasks we are planning.
It is not to produce a kind of thing, this thing is my own plan, but I still have a lot of plans that have not been completed, so I fall into the pressure of not being able to complete it.
Because after turning the plan into a list of results, we can clearly understand what we should do, and we just need to stick to it.
Finally, and very important, you allow yourself to make excuses, but you can't keep making excuses for yourself. Occasional laziness allows us to gain better mental abilities.
Also able to be less demanding on yourself. Oh, yes! People always have to learn to make excuses for themselves. It's like "I want to give up after two days of stopping" is my excuse.
But I don't really want to give up, I just need to take a short break from myself so that I can move forward better. Persist when you should persevere, and rest when it is time to rest.
Because, stopping is to move forward better.
Text|Ming Fusheng.
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