Venerable Hongyi said, "People are very painful before they are exchanged and transferred, everything is not going well, everything is bumpy everywhere, and they have to go through a period of suffering. Whatever makes a man miserable, he is here to cross him. ”
When life slaps you in the face, how do you deal with it skillfully!
Have you ever had such an experience? I was happy, and life suddenly gave you a small episode, for example, the plan you worked so hard to prepare, the boss took a look at it and said: "This doesn't work, start again." Or, on a well-planned date, the other party will disappear with a "something". At this time, do you feel that you are particularly unlucky?
Venerable Hongyi once said that before you can get lucky, you have to go through some hardships. It's like you're jumping from one mountain to another, and you're going to have to figure out how to cross that clearing in the middle. This process may hurt from falling, but it is these beatings that make you learn how to fly higher.
My friend Xiaoyan is a programmer. She messed up a project in October last year, and was criticized by her boss so badly that she almost couldn't even keep her job. But I think she is still in a very good mood, and she has started to work overtime to learn new skills and improve her working methods. Now, she has not only kept her job, but has also been promoted and raised because of her outstanding performance. Life gave her a slap in the face, and she in turn gave life a nice roundhouse kick.
As the old saying goes, "If you lose your horse, you won't know if you're blessed." Every setback is an opportunity to grow. It's like those little episodes, although they made you angry at the time, but looking back, it's quite interesting. Life has to have a little twists and turns to be interesting.
When things don't go your way, don't complain. Take a deep breath and tell yourself, "This is an opportunity to grow." "Then, be brave and make positive changes. Remember, every time you fall, it's all about getting you on your feet.
I hope that all of us can tide over the difficulties, and from now on, all poisons will not invade, all diseases will be eliminated, and all diseases will be eliminated, and all things will come true.