Editor: Fan Liping.
Xiao Ming quotes:
Children's play in the natural world is **.
The case of the third generation of the camp
A 180-degree transformation of a bone-fighting boy
Right in the 3rd generation camp
Cheng Cheng (pseudonym) is an only child, 10 years old, no hobbies such as playing games and brushing short**, parents uphold the laws of natural real-world growth in family upbringing, and have enough time for outdoor activities, but because they can't find many companions, most of them play by themselves or with 1 friend. Medium grades, like most average-grade children, do not have a strong presence in school. Personality, thoughtful, likes to read and history, and has its own distinct principles for making friends and doing things.
On the way to the Northeast Camp, the life teacher saw Cheng Cheng's maverick, and asked for the opinions of more than a dozen children at lunch. I'll arrange it myself".
The train arrived at the end of Harbin West Railway Station, a group of children were very excited, and finally came to the legendary Northeast, the tour guide warmly invited everyone to take a group photo, Cheng Cheng walked away directly, refused to take pictures, and refused anyone's lobbying. The camp teacher communicated with his parents, and it turned out that Cheng Cheng didn't like to take pictures since he was a child, and there were almost no ** records from childhood to adulthood.
After learning about this situation, the camp teacher and the photographer gave feedback information, and several teachers had the same opinions when they reviewed after the first day of activities, jokingly calling Cheng Cheng a "backbone" boy, thoughtful, love to think, and not easy to be group** is a significant feature of Cheng Cheng, how to make him more collective attributes, integrate into the collective, and increase altruism is the direction of the next camp work.
Cheng Cheng is also very good at playing, which is an advantage that his peers do not have, he can always quickly find interesting places, the camp tutor quietly wrote these down, saw, and affirmed at the summary meeting, love to play, will play is an important criterion for the evaluation of young people in the third generation of camps, and people who love to play have the most important creativity in the future AI era.
To explain it in Lacan's theory: children have a driving force in the real world, and children can find a corresponding position in the symbolic world from those instincts they like. In fact, all our instincts have a corresponding position in the symbolic world, for example, I like to go down to the river to fish, and there must be a corresponding job here, but it is not called going down the river to fish, and anything instinctive actually has a corresponding place in the symbolic world.
The gaze from the big one gave Cheng Cheng the affirmation of the group, gradually, Cheng Cheng no longer came with the teacher, on the 5th day of the camp, the heart partner and the third generation of the camp special course --- the juvenile court**, Cheng Cheng, who mingled with everyone, was warmly invited by the friends to be a lawyer, and Cheng Cheng this night is undoubtedly the brightest star. Whether it is the plaintiff or the defendant's lawyer, Cheng Cheng is generous, his eyes are sharp, his logic is clear, and he cites classics, which makes junior high school students shake their heads helplessly. The camp teacher gave comments in time, the juvenile court ended, and Cheng Cheng found his place in the collective. After that, Cheng Cheng changed many of his appearances in the camp: he spoke politely to the teacher, went in and out with the dormitory people, and could gently accept the opinions of the teacher's team.
On the 7th day of the camp, returning to the hotel from the 731 exhibition hall, the photographer arranged for everyone to take a group photo with their certificates, the teacher saw Cheng Cheng and asked him if he wanted to take pictures, but Cheng Cheng said with a proud face: I have already taken pictures, and today I am the first to take **. ”
From refusing to take pictures to taking the initiative to take the first photo, the changes of Cheng Cheng surprised the teachers very much, the children's hearts have completed a leap and transformation in 8 days and 7 nights, and Cheng Cheng's emotions have been greatly satisfied by the group, and he has become more and more mature psychologically, and he can accept things that he can't accept before, and his personality has become fuller and more mature, with higher and higher socialization ability.
There are many kinds of human attributes, such as individual attributes, collective attributes, group attributes, family attributes, ......Cheng Cheng's personal attributes are well developed, and he is assertive, thoughtful, and determined, which is lacking in his peers. Adding more collective altruism can broaden his horizons and make his life thicker.
The ultimate goal of the 3rd Generation Children's Psychological Service is to change the children's personality, let them enter the society, generate motivation and self-confidence through social identity, and reduce the learned helplessness and low desire generated in learning.