"It's appalling! "Korean parents kill 17 teachers every year! If we let it go, will we also come to this point!
According to a report by Global Network: According to incomplete statistics, there will be 347 cases of "student bullying teachers" in South Korea in 2022. Since 2018, more than 100 teachers have committed suicide due to depression!
In the past 6 years, an average of nearly 17 people per year! And this is all because the teacher is unbearable to the bullying complaints of the students' parents! Parents' self-righteousness about education!
And this contradiction has intensified this year:
On this day in September this year, 200,000 Korean teachers participated in the public festival! The reason is that the teacher committed suicide because of the student's parents who maliciously complained about bullying!
On October 28, another 120,000 South Korean teachers called for changes to their Child Welfare Act because his rules provided an excuse for students or parents to falsely accuse teachers.
The school was complained about the "Nanjing ** Documentary".
Teachers punish students for being complained.
If the student's homework is not completed, the penalty for copying will be complained.
The homework was not completed, and the student was criticized in public and had to complain.
Yes, it's the self-righteousness of parents!
Some people say: these methods are easy to cause children's psychological problems!
But judging from the data of China's 2022 Mental Health Blue Book,Teacher-student conflict is not the main cause of students' psychological problems! On the contrary, family is one of the major causes of psychological depression.
This pot teacher does not carry it!
Some people also say: Self-education is all about encouragement and guidance, and there is never a way to deter and punish!
But this is just the parent's own way, but it does not mean that this is the only correct way to educate, not to mention, the parents are facing one or two children, and the teachers are facing one or two hundred children! It is impossible for teachers to adapt to each parent's education style, only parents can adapt to the teacher's education!
Furthermore, if the teacher can't do these management movements, then what else can the teacher do? How do teachers manage students!
So in my opinion, these are just the differences in the educational philosophy of teachers and parents! It's not the teacher's fault!
I have always believed that home-school co-education is about cooperationOne beats, and the other is channeled！This is exactly the same as the education of two parents for their children! Parents need a white face and a red face for their children's education! The same goes for homeschooling!
If we think of schools and parents as a husband and wife educating their children, the people have long told us the method.
Don't interfere with each other's education! Otherwise, no matter how good your score is, it can only be negative!
A good way is to cooperate with both parents and schools to channel students' emotions and maintain each other's authority when there are conflicts! Otherwise, the child will only be at a loss!
More of our parents now either only beat and have no grooming to lead to their childrenWell-behaved and weak
Or only encouragement, no beating! lead to childrenJust and crispy!
So I hope that parents can give more trust to teachers and more trust to children! Children are not as fragile as they think, and teachers are not as irresponsible as they think!
After all, out of 10 million primary and secondary school teachers out of 18.8 million, less than 100 teachers reported corporal punishment last yearThe probability is lower than 1 14000 car accidents!