Feelings are a matter of two people, but when it comes to marriage, it is a matter of two families, and you will inevitably have to meet your parents and prepare for marriage.
However, there is a lot of attention to in the process of meeting parents, and now that the Spring Festival is approaching, many young couples will choose to go to their boyfriend's house to celebrate the New Year on this festive day.
So, when you go to your boyfriend's house for the New Year, how can you make a good impression on your future in-laws, and what are the precautions?
01 Be particular about dressing
When I meet my parents for the first time, the main thing that comes to my first impression is my appearance, so I must pay special attention to my outfit, and this is the basic requirement for a dignified atmosphere.
In terms of makeup, the older generation often doesn't like overly bright makeup, so they can choose light makeup to highlight the natural and fresh feeling.
At the same time, pay attention to the processing of details, such as the modification of eyebrows, the thickness of eyelashes, which can make the overall makeup more layered.
As for the wearing of clothes, jeans + long trench coat + turtleneck sweater is a classic and generous match, which not only looks decent, but also shows intellectual charm.
In addition, a red sweater + black skirt is also a gentle and elegant choice, which is very suitable for such a family occasion, and the overall principle is to avoid too bright colors, so as not to give people a frivolous feeling.
02 Chat and communicate with each other and understand etiquette.
The etiquette of the first meeting must be in place, it is better to be troublesome than too casual, for example, the man's family wants to cook for you, and you can appropriately ask for help.
Even if your in-laws don't let you do it in the end, you still have to have the politeness you should have, this is not cumbersome, but respect for both parties.
If you ask about your family background and the experience of meeting your boyfriend, remember to be realistic and don't exaggerate too much for the sake of vanity and romance.
After all, we have to live together in the future to this point, and the in-laws will know the truth of the matter sooner or later, so as not to cause embarrassment in the future.
03 Prepare your gifts in advance
The first time I went to see my in-laws, it was still on a happy day like the Spring Festival, and it was obviously not appropriate to go empty-handed, and the gifts should be prepared as soon as possible.
In addition to the gifts from the in-laws, if the man has brothers and sisters at home, he should also prepare more, and he can choose some local specialties.
When I arrived at the place, while giving gifts, I introduced local specialties, and the other party was not easy to refuse, even if he wanted to give you a dismount and received a gift, he was embarrassed to mention it again.
Of course, you can ask the man in advance and buy according to his opinion, but it is best to have your own ideas in it, so as to reflect your intentions.
In short, a girl who has a positive attitude towards life, knows how to respect her elders, and is willing to integrate into each other's family is often more likely to leave a good impression in the hearts of her in-laws.
I wish you a happy Spring Festival and a smooth and pleasant first meeting with your boyfriend's family.