Author: Wen Qiusheng.
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Marriage, like a strong house, withstands all crises from the outside.
Some marriages seem to be the right and glamorous, but in fact, the husband and wife have already been separated.
And some marriages, although not very conspicuous and not vigorous, can stay together in ordinary days and manage each other's feelings together.
Whether your marriage is good or not can be seen from the money spent
In marriage, people who are not loved will also be very passive when spending money, restrained, and always concerned about each other's attitude.
My colleague and her husband have been married for six or seven years, and their faces are always very sad, and they don't seem to be doing well in their marriage.
Once, when she heard that she and her husband were talking**, and after hanging up**, she couldn't help crying.
The reason is that last week on her mother's birthday, she transferred a thousand yuan to her mother on that day to show a little affection for her and her husband.
But when her husband found out, he lost his temper with her, saying that she spent money indiscriminately and didn't pay attention to the family of two people. Then she began to complain, saying that her mother's family couldn't help them at all, and they were always robbing them of their money ......
She cried that she was not treated well in her marriage, and that she earned money, but she did not have the right to spend money independently.
Every time I wanted to buy something for myself or some clothes for my parents, I had to discuss it with my husband in a low voice.
What she doesn't realize is that money is far more important to her than in her husband's heart.
In marriage, if a person is not loved, then what she does will cause the other party to be disgusted, and her feelings will not be taken seriously.
It's easy to get blamed by the other party for spending your own money.
When two people are together, it is easy to cause conflicts and quarrels between the two because of spending money.
In terms of spending money, he is very passive, he needs to consult the other party's opinions everywhere, obtain the permission of the other party, and do not have the freedom to spend money, which means that his family status is low.
In "Thirty Only", Zhong Xiaoqin relied on herself to write ** and got more than one million copyright fees. Overnight, he became a winner in life.
She went to the mall with her husband and spent tens of thousands of yuan to buy a massage chair for her husband, saying that if her husband worked in the future, he would not always have back pain.
She knew that her husband had always been relieved of her mother-in-law, so she bought the homestay that her mother-in-law was renting, so that her mother-in-law had a fixed economy and a better guarantee for her later life.
She loves her husband and hopes to relieve all the worries in his heart, hoping that he can focus on his career without distractions and do what he wants to do.
People who love you will take the initiative to spend money for you and try to bear the pressure of life for you.
Tonghua said: "If you really love someone, even if you give her the whole world, you still worry that you don't give enough and are not good enough." ”The more you love, the more you want to give for you. Even if you have nothing, as long as you are happy, you feel that it is worth it.
As long as it can make you feel happy, he is willing to do everything he can.
In marriage, the person who is willing to spend money for you actually really puts you at the top of his heart.
A good marriage is when two people respect each other, tolerate each other, and plan each other's future together.
Two people who love each other know how to manage money together and work together to strive for an ideal happy life.
In getting along, two people have a common goal, have the same vision and expectation for the future, and can go all out to struggle.
Each other has always been consistent in the concept of managing money.
In life, save money in a planned way, spend it reasonably, and constantly improve the quality of life.
Two people's money is together, their hearts are also together, they know how to consider their lover's feelings, respect his ideas, and strive to bring him the greatest happiness and stability.
The better the relationship, the more tacit understanding there will be in the management of money.
Willing to work together, save money together, spend money together, and live a hopeful and steamy life.
In married life, don't ignore the role of money.
Efficient use of money can better enhance each other's feelings and create more happiness for each other.
When two people are together, they must learn to manage money together and spend money together.
Through money, express love, manage love, and let each other harvest a full happy life.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, who makes a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.