Aunt Zhang sighed and said, "My daughter graduated from 985 University, has a master's degree, and is beautiful, but she is 35 years old, but she has not found the right person, I am really a little unwilling." ”
Aunt Zhang's memories.
My husband and I are both from the 60s of the last century, and we both graduated from college, so we are considered elites in a small county. We worked in the county unit, and my husband was promoted to the position of director because of his excellent work ability. At that time, our family was really lively, especially during the New Year's Festival, when guests came and went.
Our daughter, Xiaoli, is also a smart and clever child. She has performed well since she was a child, and her teachers are optimistic about her, with excellent grades, she is a good student in the school, and she has also served as a cadre of the student union. Her path to growth was full of flowers and applause.
The guests praised Xiaoli, saying that she was beautiful and intelligent, like a fragrant peony, worthy of the director's daughter. These words are as sweet as honey, which makes me feel happy, and my family life is smooth and warm.
Xiaoli graduated from university and was directly recommended by the teacher without taking the exam. Watching other children face the pressure of going to graduate school, I felt that my life paths cannot be compared. Xiaoli has a noble background and is talented, and she does not have to go through the twists and turns of the postgraduate entrance examination, which is incomparable.
However, all variables came after my wife retired. With the retirement of her wife from the unit, Xiaoli also successfully completed her studies. I thought it would be a happy event for my retirement and graduation, and I thought that I could hold a grand banquet for this, inviting my wife's colleagues, relatives and friends, as well as school leaders, and even hoping that my daughter would stay in school to become a teacher, so I also greeted the school leaders in advance.
For this feast, I personally invited relatives and friends to invite warmly. Considering that there might not be enough seats, I also booked two extra tables, although my wife is very popular, and she can be greeted from a distance when she walks on the road.
However, unexpectedly, the actual number of people attending the banquet was only a dozen tables. Many of the people I had notified in advance and said that they would definitely participate did not show up, and most of them were family members, my husband's subordinates, close friends of the deputy director, and even Lao Bai, who had become a regular member, did not come. The banquet was deserted, and I was especially disappointed that the leaders of Xiaoli School were unable to attend the appointment on the grounds that there was something temporary.
After the banquet, we went home, my husband was silent all the way, and when he came home, he lay on the bed and sighed. I knew that he must have felt a sense of loss in his heart.
After retiring, the scenery at home gradually dissipated, and the singleness of her daughter Xiaoli became a pain in Aunt Zhang's heart. As a 985 master's graduate, Xiaoli has excellent quality and outstanding appearance, but she has not married at the age of 35, which makes Aunt Zhang unwilling.
Aunt Zhang and her wife were both college elites in the 60s, both of them worked in the system, and her wife was even more meritorious and promoted to the position of director. Their lives used to be prosperous, especially during holidays, when there was an endless stream of guests and a lively home.
Their daughter, Xiaoli, has shown a smart and well-behaved character since she was a child, and has won many awards in school, and has been praised by teachers and classmates. When family and friends visited, they all praised Xiaoli, calling her a fragrant peony, the director's daughter, which made Aunt Zhang feel very pleased.
Xiaoli successfully completed her university studies without going through the hardships of the graduate school entrance examination, and was directly recommended by the teacher to study for graduate school. Compared with other children who are under the pressure of going to graduate school, Xiaoli is much more relaxed due to her family background and intelligence.
However, with the retirement of his wife, the atmosphere at home gradually became colder. The originally enthusiastic relatives and friends gradually became estranged, and even the habit of honorific titles for his wife at the beginning became a casual call for Lao Li. What's even more outrageous is that Xiaoli was supposed to stay in school to teach after graduation, but she was turned away for various policy reasons.
Although Xiaoli's job was found, it was only an easy clerical job. The little princess, who has been carefully cared for since she was a child, has no concept of housework, and even finds it troublesome to wash a pair of socks. And now, her singleness has become a big worry at home.
Aunt Zhang looked for several blind dates for Xiaoli, but they all failed. Xiaoli was not satisfied with the family conditions of these men, and the man's parents also retreated because of Xiaoli's excellence, feeling that their son was not worthy of her.
This situation made Aunt Zhang feel helpless, she once thought that a girl as good as Xiaoli should have many suitors, but the reality cruelly told her that even if she was excellent, she might face difficulties in marriage.
I really don't understand, are excellent girls destined to become leftover women? That day, my heart was full of unwillingness, so I complained to the introducer about my daughter's marital problems. However, to my surprise, the introducer told me bluntly and untactfully that my daughter was spoiled and always wanted someone to serve her.
And those who are in the right family, and the young masters who also have the same idea, how could they choose my daughter? If you want your daughter to marry as soon as possible, you have to lower your standards and find someone with worse conditions, maybe he will be more industrious, and he won't mind that his daughter is not very competent.
When I heard this, I was so angry, how could I say that? Our family's Xiaoli is a famous family, how can she be successful? We would rather have more than abundant, but with the passage of time, my daughter is 35 years old, but she is still alone. It's really unexpected, after my wife retired, everything changed, the original scenery was no longer there, and it was difficult for an excellent daughter to find a satisfactory partner, why is this? List of high-quality authors