The story behind the gold bracelet of the cleaner Sister Ling is touching, and Sister Ling is a cleaner in my community and a part-time worker in my family. Today she came to my house to help with hygiene, wearing a festive flower cotton jacket, with a golden bracelet on her wrist, I praised her bracelet for its good looks, she said to me happily: "Sister, you are a kind person, I was depressed all night yesterday .......""It turns out that Sister Ling's bracelet still has a story. She is a woman from the countryside, married to a neighboring village, her mother-in-law's surname is Zhang, her husband's family is three brothers, and he is the second in line. The husband's family itself is poor, and when the father-in-law and mother-in-law split the family, they favored the eldest and the eldest child, and gave them less, plus she gave birth to two daughters, and they didn't want to see each other. She and her husband are basically self-reliant, relying on themselves to start a business and raise children. The couple works in the provincial capital all the year round, her husband works as a bricklayer in a decoration company, and she works as a cleaner. The two daughters are in high school, they both live in the school, their academic performance is excellent, they don't have to worry too much about their studies, they just make money. Over the years, the economic conditions have been getting better and better, and the two daughters have saved up for college tuition, and the family house has been overturned.
The day before yesterday was Sister Ling's 45th birthday, she was very simple when she got married, she didn't have three golds, she never wore any gold jewelry, she came to the city, and she was very envious when she saw women wearing gold and silver everywhere. Moreover, many women in neighboring villages now buy gold jewelry, and many of them have gold earrings and gold necklaces. Her two concubines had long since worn gold rings and displayed in front of her for a long time. She discussed with her husband and wanted to buy a piece of gold jewelry, and her husband agreed, saying that he had wronged her for so many years. She posted a circle of friends, her birthday happened to be a Sunday, she went to the Northwest Gold Store with her husband, and her husband said that if she wanted to buy it, she would buy a big one, and insisted on buying her a big gold bracelet, which cost nearly 20,000 yuan. She was very happy, although it was a little expensive, but she finally fulfilled a wish for many years, and she was excited to return home. However, her happiness did not last long, and she began to be ridiculed and criticized by relatives and friends. Some people say that her hands are too rough to wear a gold bracelet, some people say that she bought a fake, and some people suspect that she was a nanny and was given by the master's family. These words made her feel inferior and helpless. However, she did not give up her wish, she firmly believed that it was bought by her and her husband for years of hard work, and she was proud and proud.
I was deeply moved by the story of Sister Ling, she and her husband have worked hard outside for many years, which is not easy, but with their own hands and hard work, they saved the college tuition for their two daughters, and the family house was also overturned. Their hard work and dedication should be recognized and respected by more people. Sister Ling's gold bracelet is not only an ordinary piece of jewelry, but also a testimony of her and her husband's years of hard work, and a symbol of their serious life. I want to tell Sister Ling that the gold bracelet she bought is beautiful, and more importantly, the hard work and sense of family responsibility she represents, which cannot be evaluated and replaced by others. Finally, I would like to say to all hard-working ordinary people like Sister Ling that although your hard work and dedication are not seen and understood by everyone, your efforts and sweat are the cornerstone of this society and are worthy of all of us' respect and gratitude. Jealousy and malice in the comment area: How to keep a low profile and live your life? Recently, an article about women buying gold bracelets has attracted a lot of attention. However, in the comment area, there are a lot of malicious comments and jealousy, with only two likes, one from her mother's family and one from her sister's family.
The reviews were filled with jealousy and resentment, as these reviewers could not afford gold bracelets, only small gold earrings and gold rings. Their comments made the author of the article feel so bad that he couldn't sleep until the night before. How can these people be so bad? I can't see the good of others. This situation is not uncommon, because people want to live well, but they don't want the people around them to live better than themselves, and jealousy often comes from people who are on the same level as themselves. We will not be jealous of Jack Ma and Ma Huateng, because we both understand that our struggles will not be able to catch up with their wealth in several lifetimes. But when the people around him are better off than themselves, it seems to invisibly cause psychological pressure on others, showing his incompetence, so jealousy and malice breed. This is especially true for those who are on the same level as us. The author suggests that when we are going well and the bowl is full, we should keep a low profile and not bask casually. Adults should strengthen self-cultivation, restrain their jealousy, praise and understand the people around them, so that they will live a happier life.