I am a young man born in the 90s, I work as an operator in an Internet company, I am very busy at work, and my life is also very rich. I like to share my work experience, life insights, travel**, hobbies, etc. in the circle of friends, I think this is a way to show myself and communicate feelings.
However, I never let my parents see my circle of friends, I feel that my parents do not understand my life and preferences, and I don't want my parents to interfere too much in my private affairs. I feel that my parents are people of the previous generation, their thoughts and values are different from mine, they are always worried about me, they always educate me, they always put pressure on me, they will not understand me, they will not support me, they will only cause me trouble and trouble.
Therefore, I have been blocking my parents from the circle of friends, I think this is good for both parties, I can maintain my independence and freedom, parents can also worry less, they only need to say some homely things in the **, greetings to the body, it's okay, I think this relationship is very normal and reasonable.
However, one day, I had a dream that I was on a trip with my parents, we were in a beautiful city, enjoying the scenery, tasting the food, taking pictures, we talked happily, we laughed sweetly, we were like friends, we understood each other, supported each other, appreciated each other, I felt like this was a feeling I had never felt before, I felt like this was the feeling I have always longed for.
When I woke up, I was surprised and moved, and I suddenly realized that I actually love my parents very much, I actually want to have more communication and interaction with them, I actually really want them to know my real thoughts and feelings, I actually want them to see my real life and state, I actually want them to be my friends and not my enemies.
I decided not to block my parents anymore and I felt it was an important decision and the right one.
After I stopped shielding my parents, I started a new life. I no longer hide my circle of friends, but let my parents see all my dynamics, whether it is good or bad, whether it is happy or sad, whether it is success or failure, I show them unreservedly, I also take the initiative to communicate with them, tell them my thoughts and feelings, listen to their opinions and suggestions, I also pay attention to their circle of friends, understand their lives and preferences, give them likes and comments, I also invite them to hang out with me, eat together, chat together, I also give them gifts, give them hugs, and say I love you。
The circle of friends no longer blocks my parents, I have found a better self, I have also found a better parent, I have also discovered a better world, and I have also found a better life. I am grateful for the love of my parents, I am grateful for my choice, I am grateful for this dream, I am grateful for this decision. decided that the circle of friends would no longer block parents