Older leftover women, a term that seems to be gradually eliminated by the times. Yet, there are those who remain in this position and are unwilling to compromise. A 37-year-old leftover girl went on three blind dates during the Chinese New Year holiday, but all of them ended in failure. She bluntly expressed her disappointment with the blind date introduced by her relatives, which triggered people's thinking about the concept of blind date and marriage.
In traditional China, marriage and having children are the only way to go in life, especially for women. However, with the change of times, more and more women choose to live single, they pursue freedom and independence, and do not want to be bound by marriage. The 37-year-old leftover woman is one of them, who has experienced three failures in blind dates and is extremely disappointed with the blind date introduced by her relatives.
During the Chinese New Year holiday, the 37-year-old woman went on three blind dates. For her, this is not only a blind date again and again, but also a blow again and again.
The first blind date was for a middle-aged man, divorced and childless. After the two met, the man began to complain about his ex-wife's wrongdoing, and his words were full of disrespect for women. This female ** was very unhappy, and the blind date naturally ended in failure.
The object of the second blind date is an employee of a state-owned enterprise with a stable job and income. However, during the conversation, he constantly mentioned his work and income, but did not know anything about the woman's occupation and income. This obvious sense of superiority made the woman unbearable, and finally chose to leave.
The third blind date was a freelancer with his own studio. However, during the exchange, he showed dissatisfaction with the woman's age, believing that the woman was too old to have children. This kind of straightforward remarks made the woman feel embarrassed and helpless.
The experience of three failed blind dates made the woman reflect on the meaning and value of blind dates. She believes that although blind date, as a traditional way of marriage and love, has its meaning and value, it has gradually exposed its disadvantages in modern society.
Blind dates are often based on superficial factors such as family background and work income, while ignoring the compatibility of the personalities, interests, and values of both parties. At the same time, blind dates are also easy for people to have a utilitarian mentality towards marriage, and see marriage as a transaction rather than an emotional union.
The woman's experience also reflects a shift in the perception of marriage in modern society. With the improvement of women's status and the emancipation of their minds, more and more women have begun to pay attention to self-realization and free life. They are unwilling to compromise their views and values of happiness under the pressure of traditional beliefs.
At the same time, modern society has provided more opportunities and choices for women, allowing them to balance their career, family, and personal growth.
Although the blind date experience of this 37-year-old leftover woman is full of frustration and disappointment, it also reflects the changing concept of marriage and love in modern society. We should respect everyone's choices and lifestyles, and not bind them with traditional ideas.
At the same time, we should also actively advocate a healthy outlook on marriage and love, so that everyone can find their own happiness and home. In the future, let us look forward to a more open, inclusive and pluralistic society.