February** Dynamic Incentive Program
In this fast-paced, high-stress society, communication has become an integral part of everyone's life. We communicate with people every day, whether it's face-to-face conversations, or through **, networking, etc. However, have you ever regretted your inappropriate words? Are you missing out on many opportunities because you don't know how to communicate with people? Recently, I read Pan Hongsheng's "Don't Let Not Be Able to Speak Hurt You", which gave me a deeper understanding of communication and the power and importance of words.
I've always thought I'm pretty good at interacting with people, but after reading this book, I realized that I still have a lot to do with communication. Many of the situations mentioned in the book are often encountered in my daily life, but often due to the lack of appropriate coping methods, the communication effect is not effective, and even misunderstandings occur.
For example, the fact that "I have been suppressed by some kind of authority or irresistibility in the cultivation of my personal character since childhood" in the book made me deeply reflect on my own upbringing. Indeed, in the process of growing up, we will be more or less influenced by the family, school and other environments, and form some fixed thinking patterns and behavioral habits. These habits and patterns often affect the way we communicate, causing us to appear less confident and less relaxed when interacting with people.
And the concept of "one minute on stage and ten years of work off the stage" advocated in the book inspired me deeply. Whether it's a presentation, a negotiation, or a day-to-day communication, it takes a lot of effort and time to prepare. Only after long-term accumulation and tempering can we show our demeanor at critical moments, so that what we say is true and reasonable.
Communication is not just a skill, it's an art. In our daily lives, we often meet a variety of people with different personalities, backgrounds, and experiences. How to communicate effectively with different people has become a big problem in front of us. Through vivid cases and in-depth analysis, the book made me realize that the key to communication is to understand the other party and think from the other party's point of view, so as to better achieve the purpose of communication.
In the workplace, a person who is good at communication is often more likely to gain the trust and support of others, and it is easier for him to stand out in the team. In life, good communication can make our relationship with family and friends more harmonious, and avoid many unnecessary misunderstandings and conflicts.
In addition to this, the book also mentions many practical communication skills, such as how to express one's own opinions effectively, how to listen to others, how to deal with conflicts, etc. These tips have not only benefited me a lot in my work, but also helped me a lot in my daily life.
In the process of reading this book, I also deeply realized the importance of inner strength for communication. A person with a strong heart is often able to face various challenges and difficulties more confidently, and is also more likely to dominate communication. And the inner strength comes from the recognition and affirmation of oneself, from the love and pursuit of life.
Don't let not being able to speak hurt you" has given me a deeper understanding of communication, and also made me understand the power and importance of words. In my future life, I will continue to work hard to improve my communication skills and make myself a better listener and expresser. At the same time, I will also pay more attention to cultivating my inner strength, so that I can be more calm and confident in the face of various challenges and difficulties. I believe that as long as we continue to work hard and explore, we will be able to overcome all kinds of obstacles in communication and make the relationship between ourselves and others more harmonious and harmonious.