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Every time the topic of resignation is mentioned, how many people will be like me, and they can't help but think of the female teacher in Henan. Reminds me of the resignation letter that once swiped the whole network:"The world is so big, I want to see it. ”
The length of only 10 words pulls many people to poetry and distant longing. Recently, when the female teacher and her story rushed to the hot search again, I suddenly realized that the years had gone through another 8 years. In the past 8 years, Gu Shaoqiang has not gone further and further, and has already returned to Zhengzhou, the origin of his departure. What happened? What's wrong with her?
The year is back in 2015. On April 10th, that day was Gu Shaoqiang's last psychology class, and the theme was: Writing a Letter to the Future. A group of children in the first year of junior high school had to write a letter to themselves in two years. This kind of communication across time and space is a common way in the classroom. But that day, not only the students sitting in the classroom, but also Gu Shaoqiang, who was standing in the lecture hall, couldn't help but think about this topic. It's just that what she wants to answer is not herself two years later. But what will happen to yourself in 10 years, 20 years, or even beyond? She loves her job and can describe her attitude towards work as desperate. But when I think about it, it's still terrible to be confined to a three-foot podium all my life. Because she was 35 years old at the time, she still had too many dreams to come true. She still remembers the conversation she had with a boy in her class that day. "Teacher, after two years, you can't hand us the letter on time.""No, because I'm quitting, I'm quitting." 
Under the podium, the students in the fryer asked, "Teacher, where are you going?" On the podium, Gu Shaoqiang has never been so sober as at this moment. She didn't know the exact destination. She didn't know that three days later, she would become famous overnight and become popular all over the country. On April 13, Gu Shaoqiang submitted his resignation letter, and then posted it on the circle of friends. 
The above 10 words are only because of fear of trouble. The phrase "goodbye to the past" is to give yourself a formal farewell. But she underestimated any magic that "comes from the heart". I was woken up in my sleep by a series of **. First the circle of friends is crazy**, then social**, and then the major **dominates the screen. "The world is so big, I want to see it. ”It was Gu Shaoqiang who resigned from the iron rice bowl, but it touched the hearts of hundreds of millions of netizens.
With "the most sentimental resignation letter in history", Gu Shaoqiang's new life began in that spring season. The decisiveness to go has always been her style of acting. Pull up a suitcase and bring 10,000 yuan of savings. Three months after her resignation, she walked through the streets of Chengdu, stepped on the bluestone slabs of Wuzhen, and smelled the smell of Jiangnan......In the days when she plunged into the distance, the outside world did not stop looking for her. Someone saw the right time and planned to fund her round-the-world travel for free. An online game offered her an annual salary of one million to endorse her. 
The prime minister of an island country wanted to invite her to visit the island. Even, a travel program she likes also threw an olive branch to her. But what made her decide to stop was not these "good things" that fell from the sky. Instead, she met a like-minded other half. In a small town at the foot of Qingcheng Mountain in Sichuan, they decided to realize their dream of a homestay that had been buried in their hearts for many years. The name "Far Home" means that no matter how far you go, you can find your way back. It's just that at that time, she didn't expect that this place that brought her into her dreams was also the existence that pulled her back to reality. The 1 million yuan for opening a homestay was borrowed by all parties. The follow-up operation is not as easy as imagined. Business is good and bad, mixed with too many unpredictable accidents. Every time the water pipe breaks, and the whole ancient town is full of guests, it suddenly breaks, which makes people exhausted. The hostess of the B&B is not the imaginary poetry hop tea companion. The most wrapped in daily life are the sheets that can't be washed and the beds that can't be made. Gu Shaoqiang, who can pursue life in tossing, enjoys such unknown life challenges. From a novice in life, these experiences have also taught her to face the real life and then optimistically attribute everything to wealth. 
And what really brought her back to square one was actually her mother and her daughter. My mother has always had a hard time getting used to life in Sichuan. When she is older, she often has joint pain, and when she returns to Zhengzhou, she can see a doctor in time, and she needs someone to accompany her. The older my daughter gets, the better the educational environment she needs. The scenery under Qingcheng Mountain is very beautiful, and it can't carry all the needs after allNo matter how brave and free a heart is, there will always be corners that are difficult to give up.
The beginning of the story is always vigorous, but the end is so silent.
Rao Yes, it has caused a sensation all over the country. Eight years is enough time to change a lot. No longer blindly chasing the distance, Gu Shaoqiang has a lover, a daughter, and more concerns. When she stopped, some people thought that she had finally slapped herself in the face. Some people lament that romance is no match for the disillusionment of reality. Some people even feel that they have been cheated. 
After all, how many people replaced the sentence "The world is so big, I want to see it" with a personal signature. How many young people have placed their expectations on this female teacher who they have never met, but they can't reach it. Gu Shaoqiang has always understood:"The outside world will mold me as an idol of feelings, see the world instead of them, and pile words like bravery, perseverance, and willfulness on me. “Therefore, later, when she went to open an inn, get married and have children, she could not escape doubts and disappointment. But what she knows better is that whether it was her resignation at that time or her return now, it was just a personal choice, and she never regretted it. Eight years ago, the departure at the moment of spring was the result she wanted most at the moment. 8 years later, being by the side of her favorite is also the result she wants most at the moment. She gave her daughter a nickname: Little Yu'er. She wants her daughter to always understand that children are not fishes, and they know the joy of fish. Being able to follow one's heart and dare to break through the circle that has been drawn is already braver than many people. It took 8 years, and it seemed to be back to square one. But on the huge circle drawn these days, every point unfolds the narrative, which is a different life and a different excitement that I have personally experienced. They are all indelible footprints that can only be left by bravely setting off.
Gu Shaoqiang is in her 40s this year, and she is dressed exquisitely and neatly in front of the camera. The year of confusion, because I have traveled to more places. She has completed the long process of reading herself, crossing herself, and pleasing herself again. It's just that she is no longer walking on the road, and she is still full of infinite enthusiasm for life. 
Learn guqin, participate in talk shows, do **, and regain the ...... of psychological counselingAt every intersection of life, she is choosing what she likes and trying new things. After recognizing the truth of life, he is still brave and sincere, and loves seriously. The world aspires to a good job, a decent job, and she has never had a fixed concept. "As long as you think it's good, your own happiness doesn't need to be defined by others." At this point, I think back and think about it. Only then did I realize that our understanding was too shallow. It's that our perception of "I want to see" is too narrow. The world you want to explore, the world you want to see. It's never just somewhere, somewhere on the planet. It's the courage to be proud of life. It's the courage not to trap youth in regret. It's a meaning that exists when the first step is taken. What does it mean to live a successful life? Wealthy family, counted? No matter how much wealth you have, you can also have health and love that you can't buy. Traveling around the world, count? But the world is so big, there are always places that our feet can't reach. I like Wang Xiaobo's interpretation very much:"I have very low requirements for myself, I live in the world just to understand some truths and meet some interesting things. If I can do it, my life will be considered a success. ”On the road of 8 years, it is obvious that Gu Shaoqiang has got his wish. And as she herself said,"Leaving is not tired, going home is not a compromise, and the exploration of life never stops. ”Life is not a set track, but an endless wilderness. No matter which path you take, the most important thing is to have a good time. February** Dynamic Incentive Program