Over the past decade, revisiting Aaron Kwok's current wife, Fang Yuan, I have come to realise how different she is from his previous wife, Xiong Dailin, and that the difference goes far beyond her appearance or fame.
There are so many handsome men and beautiful women in the entertainment circle, and stories between couples have long been commonplace. When one of the couples breaks up, it often arouses everyone's resonance and attention. However, there is a pair of exes, whenever they mention it, people will sigh: "They broke up really right." ”
This pair of high-profile predecessors are Xiong Dailin and Aaron Kwok. They ended their relationship ten years ago and each had a new family. When they were together, the outside world generally believed that Xiong Dailin "climbed" Aaron Kwok. But now, people agree that breaking up is the wisest choice Xiong Dailin has made.
Time has passed like flowing water, and in the past ten years, not only people and things have changed, but even the evaluation of the predecessor has undergone earth-shaking changes. Looking back now, I understand who is more "wise" between Xiong Dailin and Fang Yuan.
When it comes to what kind of predecessor qualifies as "qualified", perhaps Venus's words are the most appropriate: "A qualified predecessor should be like a raindrop falling into the sea, leaving no trace." And Xiong Dailin and Aaron Kwok just meet this standard.
In the seven years since their breakup, they have completely cut off public contact, so much so that many netizens have the conjecture of "never getting along".
However, people are always full of wonderful contradictions. On the one hand, I want to cut it completely, and on the other hand, I hope that I can live a better life. In this relationship, Xiong Dailin is obviously at a disadvantage, so many people believe that she has been secretly competing with Aaron Kwok after the breakup.
In April 2013, their relationship came to an end. Two years later, on December 1, 2015, Aaron Kwok announced a new relationship on social platforms. The experience also became the focus of the conversation, sparking widespread speculation and discussion.
On the second day, Xiong Dailin happily shared a set of high-profile "happy moments" on social **, which recorded the unforgettable moment when she and Tianwang celebrated the birth of her second daughter on April 18, 2019.
The next day, Xiong Dailin unabashedly celebrated her baby's birthday in public, and carefully arranged a small celebration. Such a coincidence made some netizens mistakenly think that Xiong Dailin still couldn't let go of his past feelings.
Despite parting ways, she seems to be quietly fighting with her ex in private. However, such speculation and speculation are just wishful thinking on the part of the outside world. In the face of these remarks, Xiong Dailin finally couldn't bear it anymore and resolutely responded publicly: "It's actually you who can't let go, not me." This firm statement completely left those who were too talkative to speak.
In fact, if you think about it, you will understand that Xiong Dailin does not need to be entangled with his ex at all. At the beginning, when the two fell in love, he was a high-profile "Heavenly King", peerless, talented, and the dream lover in the hearts of countless girls. However, in recent years, his reputation has not been as good as it used to be.
Now, when it comes to Aaron Kwok, the most prominent label on his body has changed from "king" to "stingy". When other rich people are in love, they send cars and houses, but he only sends daily necessities.
The reputation of this "stingy" spread all over the streets and alleys, and his current wife Fang Yuan became the biggest "victim" of this **. Therefore, countless netizens have expressed sympathy and distress for her.
This kind of ** lasted until the two got married, and Fang Yuan also responded by publicly participating in variety shows in 2024. At the beginning of the new year, Fang Yuan appeared in a variety show called "Open Mic Tonight" in the mainland.
The show invited several celebrity wives to share some family anecdotes. And Fang Yuan's performance has consolidated her "unpretentious" image, and in just five minutes of stage time, she almost never leaves her husband who accompanies her.
In the eyes of the audience, although this show is advertised as a show, it is actually more like an excuse for the past.
Before getting married, people knew a lot about the love life of the king, and the richness and variety could not be more obvious. After breaking up with Xiong Dailin, his love life has always attracted people's attention, and scandals have continued.
However, in the show, Fang Yuan said without hesitation: "He is a very family-loving person. ”
Of course, this may mean that the Celestial King's attitude towards the family has changed after marriage. However, it is undeniable that his image of "slamming the door" has endured. In this regard, Fang Yuan explained: "It is easy to spend money, but spending time with us is the most important thing. ”
It is true that the measure of affection cannot be calculated in terms of money alone.
But for people like the Celestial King, money is also an important measure to some extent.
Tianwang loves sports cars, and even does not hesitate to invest large sums of money for the sake of his beloved car. He also likes to ride horses, and the cost of raising them is not insignificant. To himself, the king of heaven is never stingy.
But to others, especially to his wife, he always gives people a sense of stinginess.
Their wedding consisted of only 10 tables and two chocolates.
Compared to the million-dollar luxury weddings of other stars, their weddings are a bit stingy in terms of scale and gifts.
During the epidemic, his wife and daughter went to see him, but they could only fly economy class.
Is all this what Fang Yuan said "easy to spend money"? In order to prove that she is not in a passive position in the relationship, the other party does love her very much. She also mentioned that in order not to make her miss her parents too much, the king deliberately brought her parents to Hong Kong to live with them.
Fang Yuan's speech undoubtedly conveyed a concept: my marriage has always been full of happiness, but this happiness seems to be a "tranquilizer" that makes people unconsciously intoxicated.
After in-depth observation of Fang Yuan's married life, I better understand why Xiong Dailin didn't have any nostalgia for this relationship back then, and her choice seemed so wise and sober.
When she first entered the entertainment industry, Xiong Dailin was just an unknown little model. However, in 2005, she co-starred with Chen Kun in the MTV of "Half a Bend", at this time.
Chen Kun has become a well-known actor with works such as "Like Fog, Like Rain and Like Wind" and "The Family of Gold Powder".
Xiong Dailin herself is not only delicate and beautiful, but with Chen Kun's fame, her popularity has soared rapidly. It was through this collaboration that she managed to attract the attention of the Heavenly King.
In the following year, she successfully starred in the MV of Tianwang's "Son of the Wind", and the two fell in love with a kiss, and their relationship quickly heated up. Although **soon photographed the date of the two**, it caused heated discussions.
People have said that the woman does not seem to be a good match for the man, one is the famous "dancing king" in Asia, and the other is a little-known little model. There has been a lot of discussion about whether the two are compatible.
Even though they have been photographed together many times, the two protagonists have never officially acknowledged this relationship. This also led to Xiong Dailin being labeled as "humble". In an interview, he was asked if the king had ever given him a gift, but he replied that he had never given it.
What's even more surprising is that he explained that the reason for this is that since falling in love with Xiong Dailin, the woman's reputation as "Tianwang's sister-in-law" has soared, and her career has also reached a higher level, so there is no need to give gifts.
This episode makes one wonder whether fame and fortune can really be the masters of feelings, and whether there are more complex emotional entanglements hidden behind the glamour.
So, there's no need to bother picking out a special gift. As soon as this remark came out, it aroused the dissatisfaction of many netizens and felt that it was quite out of line.
Sensing that ** was not good, the king of heaven suddenly became arrogant and generously gave away a luxury car worth millions. However, when many netizens thought that he was misunderstood, the king of heaven personally proved the statement that "nature is difficult to change".
It was later learned that the luxury car was not really "gifted" to the other party. The woman was only granted the right to ride, but not the ownership of the vehicle.
Despite all the talk from the outside world, she guarded this relationship without hesitation. Clearly, this persistence has not been rewarded accordingly.
Seven years later, we can only reach the end. Generally speaking, the breakup of public figures is handled decently. However, it is clear that the Heavenly King has a different view.
After the breakup, in an interview, his words showed his contempt for Xiong Dailin.
He simply compares feelings to shoes, and if he thinks it is not suitable, he will not hesitate to change it. This statement is truly ironic.
It's like buying a pair of shoes, only to say they no longer fit after seven years and ask for a return, which is unrealistic in a relationship.
The girl's seven years of youth came to an abrupt end because of an inappropriate reason. Although everyone was feeling sorry for Xiong Dailin, she responded with a chic gesture: "Bless yourself and get back on the road." ”
There are many choices in life, and Xiong Dailin has made a wise choice at this moment.
She did not choose to fall into entanglement and nostalgia, but left without hesitation.
As the song goes, "Saying goodbye to mistakes is the only way to meet right." After the breakup, she met her current husband Guo Kesong through the introduction of a friend.
What was missing in the previous relationship, it was all compensated for in this relationship. There was never a clear definition of a relationship in the first seven years of the relationship, and this relationship was unabashedly made public in the second year of the relationship.
In the third year, he proposed to her, and in the fourth year, the two had a grand wedding. Their married life was full of laughter and joy, and they had two lovely daughters, and the family of four was happy.
In the previous relationship, there was never a gift, and in this relationship, the gift kept coming. Kwok Kesong is an authentic Hong Kong wealthy family, and he is obviously a better marriage partner than the king.
Fang Yuan, on the other hand, chose the Heavenly King, who was 22 years older than him. But is happiness really attained? Although there is a proverb that says that marriage is like drinking water, and you know your own warmth and coldness, she has been troubled by ** for many years.
If the other party really loves her, how can she not show love in the face of her being troubled by **? Fang Yuan and Xiong Dailin clearly illustrate the importance of choice.
Judging from the news released by the two on Valentine's Day this year, they can feel the true state of the two in their marriage. On Valentine's Day, Guo Kesong released a set of **, a family of four playing in the amusement park, and you can feel the happiness of the family from **.
And Fang Yuan released the two-person world with the king of heaven**, the two of them sat in a luxury car, and they looked full of happiness. However, now every time Fang Yuan appears and every time she speaks, she seems to be trying to prove her happiness. But a truly happy person doesn't need to be proven countless times.
A trace of relaxation on Xiong Dailin's body could not be observed in Fang Yuan. As she says in "Open Mic Tonight", "* does not represent the whole truth. ”
Under these seemingly happy **, what kind of mood and story are hidden? She knows it. Now, the two have each established a new family, and the bits and pieces of the past, whether it is tribulation or joy, have become a thing of the past.
Now Xiong Dailin no longer argues about trivial matters in the past, and there is no need to bother fighting. She is living her life because the best way to deal with the past is to live the present to the fullest.
And all this is not only her own experience, but also what she shared in "Open Mic Tonight" and "Very Quiet Distance".