The leftover female ** bride price will eventually become a laughing stock
In this society, there are many people who are susceptible to the influence of the environment, and it is not terrible for a person to be unknown to others, but it is terrible to not be able to recognize himself. I don't think it's just a matter of compromise or not, but some people only live in their own little world, rejecting any different voices, they want to find the ideal object, but their own conditions are not satisfactory.
People often have the mentality of striving for perfection, but they must not be overly obsessed and lose themselves. Some women may only have three points of beauty, but with the help of filters and beautification, they look like they have seven points of beauty, but this is not their true self.
Confident leftover women often think that men with nine points are worthy of their three points, and this is their reality. Some people feel that they are the mainstay of society even though they are at the bottom of society, and they should first look at their strengths and weaknesses while demanding others.
Finally, let's take a look at those older leftover women who have overconfidence, what will happen to them?
Title: The confident leftover queen Yun, the mate selection conditions are frighteningly high Text: Wang Yun, a confident leftover woman who has worked in Shanghai for more than ten years, has her own views on marriage.
Looking at the married life of her friends, she wants to enjoy her youth even more. However, the pressure of the family to urge marriage made Wang Yun have to face the problem of finding a partner.
Wang Yun has strict mate selection conditions for blind dates. First of all, she required the man's income to be more than 30,000 yuan, because her own salary was not high, and she often used Huabei to borrow money to buy luxury goods.
Secondly, she doesn't look down on the honest and simple appearance of rural men, and thinks that trendy men in the city are the type she likes. In the end, she thinks that men in the city are humorous and temperamental, while men in the countryside are informal and vulgar.
Although Wang Yun has a good appearance, her mind is still stuck in her youth, and she has blind confidence in her noble temperament. Although there were many people who pursued her, she rejected quite a few because she felt she deserved better.
Wang Yun has been in the big city for so long that he has formed the illusion that he is a Shanghainese and looks down on the countryside where he grew up. What she didn't know, however, was that her thoughts and actions would make those she thought she was worthy of her feel ashamed and disappointed.
02."The village is a hot item, and the bride price of 180,000 yuan will be married! Can a confident leftover girl find true love? Watching her classmates get married and have children one by one, she was not in a hurry.
Suddenly, Dad's ** called: "Yunyun, there is a blind date, the conditions are good, the garage is available, 30,000 yuan a month!" Yunyun disagreed: "Oh?
30,000 yuan a month? That's okay, let him wait and see him again at the end of the year when I have time. Dad persuaded: "Good goods don't wait for people, and by the end of the year, it is estimated that everyone will be married." ”
The matchmaker took it**: Don't wait for anyone, don't wait for anyone, the guy is really in demand, and there are still many people waiting behind! You ......The confident leftover girl said: "Okay, then you can let him give it to others, I still want to play again, and when I get tired of playing, I will go back to the village to find someone to take over, and I want 180,000 dowries to marry." ”
When the matchmaker heard this, she left in a huff. At the end of the year, as my father said, everyone got married.
The confident leftover girl finally became a joke, and Wang Yun was blamed by her father, saying that she was robbed by others, and she saw that she was going to be one more year old. Wang Yun's friend's child is already in junior high school, and when the twelve-year-old boy called Wang Yun Auntie, Wang Yun knew that the years were urging people to grow old!
Before I knew it, I was already an old aunt. Looking at the teenage child, Wang Yun finally figured it out, and she decided to find a blind date. I've been playing more than ten years more than others, and it's time to stop now.
Wang Yun confidently believes that the person who comes to propose marriage will definitely be able to step on the threshold of the family, but the reality is very cruel, and no one wants to come. Over the years, the number of blind dates for Wang Yun has not been few, and it is estimated that half of a village has been together.
In the past, Wang Yun always looked down on people very much, so her reputation in the village was not good, and even the matchmaker was reluctant to take Wang Yun's blind date. People in the countryside always gather together to chat about their parents' shortcomings, on this day, Wang Yun passed by the path behind the house, a few grandmothers sat there to enjoy the shade, Wang Yun just turned the corner and heard them talking about themselves.
Wang Yun eventually became the joke of the village, because of her high requirements for her own conditions and the experience of living in Shanghai, the villagers felt that she was an example of a pheasant turning into a phoenix, and she was also a poor and refined person.
As the years go by, so does the desire to find that person to be with you for the rest of your life and spend the lonely moments. It's not that being single is a marginal person, but having the persistence of finding the person who is compatible with you.
Many single women are in excellent condition and even beautiful, but they are unwilling to compromise and insist on finding the right person. They understand their limitations, but they also know that they deserve better.
Self-confidence is a charm, but overconfidence can make others feel arrogant, and self-confidence needs to be moderate, otherwise it will turn into pride. Confident people understand others and tolerate others, while people who are blindly confident and proud are often unhealthy.
Don't be blindly confident, have a heart of tolerance and understanding, in order to find true happiness.
Your conditions and abilities determine what kind of people you can find, and if you dream of becoming the mistress of a wealthy family, you must have the corresponding capital. When choosing a marriage partner, you must find the right person for you, and don't compromise, because this is the major event of your life.
However, we can't resist all people introducing blind dates, because we can't ignore our strengths and weaknesses, and self-knowledge is our worst enemy. Marriage is a man and a woman's picture of being beautiful and young, young is capital, and missing it is a lifetime.
Therefore, we must seize the opportunity and cherish every opportunity. Everyone is unique, and we're all limited editions, so when looking for a partner, make sure your conditions match the other person's.
Although we all want to find a good partner, we need to have the right qualifications, and not everyone can do it.