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In the spring of 1993, Kang Hui, who was only 47 years old, secretly held a wedding with his college classmate and CCTV close comrade-in-arms Liu Yajie in his hometown of Shijiazhuang City, Hebei Province, and officially entered the sacred hall of marriage! The two have formed a deep love and friendship as early as their college life, touching the heavens and the earth, the love is as deep as the sea, and the relationship is extraordinary.
In the early days of their marriage, Kang Hui and Liu Yajie made a respectable and unique decision after careful consideration - to postpone the birth of offspring and choose the Dink family model. At that time, Kang Hui's career was thriving, his work was complicated and complicated, his work pressure was extremely high, and he was unwilling to be disturbed by his children's problems.
As a virtuous and virtuous wife, Liu Yajie deeply understands and respects her husband's decision, and she believes that the couple's current priority is to run the existing warm family together, and the matter of childbirth can be postponed a little.
However, Liu Yajie's parents have always been eager to hold their grandchildren as soon as possible and continue the family bloodline, but Kang Hui has repeatedly resigned for various reasons. He was well aware that his current situation was not suitable for raising children, and that every child needed the dedicated care of their parents, and he felt that he could not afford to take on this great responsibility.
Liu Yajie, the wife who is Kang Hui's solid backing, also fully supports her husband's decision, and she does not want her husband to sacrifice his career for the sake of his children. Therefore, the husband and wife firmly chose the Dink family model, repeatedly delaying the possibility of becoming parents.
Time flies, time flies. Although Liu Yajie missed the best age to get pregnant, she never complained, and only hoped that Kang Hui could devote himself to the cause she loved without distraction.
During this period, Kang Hui gradually became an irreplaceable pillar of CCTV with his excellent talent and hard work, enjoying the reputation of "CCTV's first brother", and his professionalism and outstanding performance have won wide praise from audiences across the country. However, behind this dazzling success lies a huge regret that cannot be recovered.
When his dear parents both passed away, Kang Hui finally realized what precious things he had missed. He regretted it and hated that if he had the opportunity to choose again, he would have patiently listened to his parents and given them the joy of the birth of their relatives when they were in their prime.
In the blink of an eye, more than 10 years have passed in a hurry, and Liu Yajie has also entered the stage of middle-aged infertility, and the road to childbirth is becoming more and more difficult. However, at this time, Kang Hui's father died suddenly of lung cancer.
That night, Kang Hui stuck to his post until late at night, and failed to return home in time to say his father's final goodbye. By the time he hurried home, his father had closed his eyes peacefully and walked away with endless regrets.
Faced with this heavy blow, Kang Hui fell into the abyss of extreme grief. He failed to fulfill his father's unfulfilled long-cherished wish and was unable to be by his beloved father's side at the last moment. And the father's only wish when he was dying was his expectation: to see his beloved little grandson.
In the face of this heavy responsibility and guilt, Kang Hui deeply reflected and asked himself bitterly: Why did you firmly choose the Dink family model in the first place? Why did he miss the prologue of life that gave him happiness in the world when his father was still alive?
After three years of spring and autumn, the loving mother also returned to the west in many regrets. It is deeply regrettable that she was unable to witness the moment when her son raised offspring and built a stable family. Even when she was dying, the mother was still concerned about her son's failure to conceive an heir, and lamented her inability to persuade her son to give birth.
The flowers are gone, seeing his loved ones leave, and Kang Hui, who has entered the ranks of middle-aged, blames himself like a tide in his heart. He was annoyed that if he had turned back the clock, he would have decided to abandon the self that had been self-contained in order to repay the joy of life that his parents had given him while they were alive.
It is enough to have only one child, so that parents can have the company of their children and grandchildren in their twilight years, and die happily and peacefully. However, there is no regret medicine in the world, and Kang Hui has no chance to make up for the endless regrets left in this life. He began to deeply reflect on the decision-making mistakes of his youth, and regretted his original obstinacy.
He finally understood the sincerity of his parents, but he had missed the opportunity and could only silently apologize to them in the depths of his heart. Time never stops, and the most suitable age for childbirth in life quietly disappeared inadvertently in Kang Hui. Now 52-year-old Kang Hui suddenly realized the responsibility of being a child, but it was too early.
Facing the old husband and wife Liu Yajie, Kang Hui sighed and cherished in his heart. Holding his lover's hands, he thanked her for her warmth, tolerance and understanding. The two looked back on the time they spent together, every inch of time, every bond, deeply imprinted the chapter of love they built together.
Kang Hui is determined that whether it is sunny or stormy, he will cherish the time in front of him and do his best to give his wife endless affection. Although it is difficult to make up for the guilt he feels for his parents, he can at least mourn them in his own way. As a result, Kang Hui created "Kang Hui Love**" to help families who have lost both parents and children due to illness.
He hopes that through the power of this selfless dedication, he will continue the deep love of his parents for him. When the vicissitudes of time and the frost stains the temples, Kang Hui will definitely welcome the end of his life with gratitude rather than regret. Because he really lived, loved affectionately, even when he committed irreparable mistakes in his youth.
Today, Kang Hui and Liu Yajie are still in love as before, cherishing the dull and warm day.
He resolutely founded the "Kanghui Love Association" to sponsor those unfortunate children and bereaved families. He visits the hospital regularly to listen to the heartfelt feelings of the sick children.
This piece of human suffering made him deeply feel his own value and importance, and the regret in his heart turned into strength, inspiring him to keep moving forward!
In the same way, Liu Yajie devotes herself to volunteer service with her sincerity, accompanying the lonely elderly through lonely times, bringing them laughter and hope. Whenever the sun sets, the old people will always hold her hand tightly and whisper, but what is evoked is the deepest miss in Liu Yajie's heart - her mother.
Tears rolled down her face, and she felt as if her mother was beside her, and the joy and warmth were heartwarming. Although they could no longer do anything about their deceased parents, they learned to remember them in another way – by giving back to the community and giving love, so as to remember the endless love that their loved ones once gave them.
This method has become a new meaning of Kang Hui's life, allowing him to get rid of the pain of regret and face life bravely.
As time passed, the white hair quietly climbed up Kang Hui's temples, but he had long since ceased to be obsessed with the regrets in his life. Because he has worked hard to live, has truly loved, and is more willing to pass on this deep affection. In the face of death, he will accept the arrangement of fate with gratitude, as open and fearless as autumn leaves cast to the earth.
The story of Kang Hui and Liu Yajie reminds us that there is never a perfect option in life for us to refer to, and everyone will inevitably make mistakes in the midst of hesitation. However, we must never let our mistakes easily determine our lives, but learn to forgive ourselves and enjoy the moment.
When we look back, we all regret it, but be sure to hold on to your existing happiness and joy and not let them become irreparable regrets. Know that, even if you don't realize it, loving and being loved is always around you, just fleetingly. Cherish the people in front of you, be kind to what you have, and don't wait until you miss out on how much you regret it.
Although time is short, we still have many regrets that may not be filled. But we can spread love and care from this moment on, so that when we are old, we can proudly say: our life is full of love and no regrets!
Please express your gratitude to those who have helped you in difficult times, care about those around you who need care, and let your warmth be passed on to more corners. That's what our existence is really all about!
From the touching stories of Kang Hui and Liu Yajie, we have learned the inspiration of life, to live every day responsibly and leave no regrets. Cherish the moment, love life, and be grateful for what we have. When the end comes, we can leave with a lot of gratitude, without any regrets or fears.
Time flies, the chapters of life are picturesque, but their twists and turns are always fascinating. During this long journey, people are often confused about the pursuit of the truth, or become obsessed with their own beliefs, but eventually at some point they suddenly realize the true value of life.
Let us be grateful, cherish what we have, be grateful to those who have helped and support us to grow, and take care of every living life around us. Spreading this warmth is the grand mission of life.
The love story of Kang Hui and Liu Yajie makes us deeply realize that we should not regret it until we lose that preciousness. We should cherish the time in front of us, live in the moment with all our heart, and seize every opportunity to convey warmth and care to the people we love.
Life is too short to make mistakes that we haven't had time to correct. For this reason, let us from this moment on, let life be free from regrets and erase the dusty memories in our hearts. Let the desire and determination dilute those irreparable mistakes, let'Memories'Transformed into pieces of grateful petals floating in the long river of life.
When gray hair creeps in, we can walk towards the ultimate stage of life with gratitude and confidence without regrets. Because our lives have been so colorful, and our love has been so passionate and unrestrained, it has made life perfect.