When a spark first flashed in my heart, I felt like I was surrounded by sweet magic, and even when I was eating, drinking, or sleeping, my mind was filled with thoughts of my loved ones. 。
At this point I was immersed in a quiet crush and woke up anxious to share some good times with him.
Passion is in the air. This is the embryonic period of crushes.
When you first step into love, you will have a wonderful and sweet time with the person you love. You communicate frequently every day and seem to have become an integral part of each other's lives.
When you can't share your feelings with your loved ones one day, you feel like you're missing something, and you go through a sweet period of love.
However, as time goes on, the frequent communication and excitement gradually decreases, and it falls into the boring period of love.
At this time, if there is a conflict between two people, the other person may become suspicious and worry that there will be problems in the relationship.
They begin to think on their own whether the other person no longer loves them or if the relationship is over.
Actually, it's not that your relationship has faded, it's that you've invested too much time in love.
No one can stay in the same state of enthusiasm forever. The erosion of time can drain our emotions. This is a normal psychological change.
When you are in love, you will secrete a lot of dopamine, which gives people a pleasant feeling, but as time goes by, the relationship between the two becomes closer and closer, and the secretion of dopamine gradually decreases.
At this time, we need to extend the validity period of dopamine and rejuvenate love.
The important thing is not to spend your whole life in love, but to allocate your time well.
In addition to love, there are other aspects that need to be filled, such as studying, making friends, sports, and work.
In this way, you will be able to maintain a healthy and beautiful relationship, because distance will dissipate the passion in your heart even more.
Of course, it's not a good idea to be too far away. Daily communication is necessary, but choose your time carefully.
Everyone has a separate, personal, and private space, so managing your time well can keep your dopamine flowing and keep your love fresh for longer.
Love is like fine wine, it needs to be cared for and blended properly.
In this glass of wine, love is just a taste, but other flavors such as study, making friends, sports, and work come together to form a wonderful taste of life.
Only with the right proportions, the fragrance of love will last and will not lose its original style even when it is boring.
Instead of drowning all your thoughts in the whirlpool of love, learn how to build a strong bridge on the long river of love and let your world intersect.
Experience every moment with your heart, feel each other's company, let dopamine bloom at the right time, and write a more beautiful chapter of love.
In this wonderful and fulfilling journey, we can find our own chords of love and let our hearts ripple with the brilliance of love.