In the early morning, college students emerged at the gate of the factory during the winter vacation, and the post-zero generation could also endure hardships
The best education is to make children realize that life is not easy.
Rumor has it that the children of the post-millennial generation are pampered and demanding, but a recent piece of news has upended my prejudices about this group.
At 6 a.m., the wind was bitterly cold, and the gate of a factory in Hebei Province was crowded with people looking for job opportunities.
At first glance, you might think that he is a migrant worker from the countryside, with elderly people in his family, or a person who can barely make ends meet"Sanhe Okami"。
Actually, they are all college students in their 20s who have just gone on winter break. They didn't go out with their friends to play, nor did they play games all night, but chose to go to work in factories and enter the ** society, just to make some extra money.
Their reason is very touching: one more month of work can make parents work one month less, which is also a kind of consideration for parents when they grow up.
Seeing such a scene, you would also think that the younger generation after the millennium is pampered"The Beat Generation"Is it?
This group of young people is willing to work hard for their families, are willing to accept hardships, and are willing to help their families share the burdens of life, which is precisely the greatest wealth of a family type.
Now, let's talk about the story of two student workers.
The first is Lin Shujie of Fudan University.
Jeremy Lin comes from an ordinary family, and his parents run a contract processing shop.
After graduating from high school, he would help out in the workshop every weekend and actively participate in various tasks.
Observing the hard work of his parents for a long time, Jeremy Lin is more sensible than ordinary children.
During the winter vacation, he did not choose to go to Internet cafes for entertainment or travel like other young people, but did not hesitate to return to his parents' processing shop to help with heavy work, and even take on some dirty and heavy labor, but he never complained or felt monotonous.
Until the day he received the admission letter from Fudan University, he stayed in his parents' contract processing shop, silently hammering screws for them.
He also didn't let his parents worry about his and his sister's schooling.
Not only did he make a detailed study plan for himself, including when to memorize English, when to read, and when to practice words, but he also planned each item very precisely.
At the same time, he is also in charge of his sister's studies and often helps her answer her questions.
To this, he just said modestly:"My parents are so busy with work that I just want to do my best to share their worries"。
Another example is Zhong Pengcheng of Peking University.
After the college entrance examination, she did not travel like other peers, nor did she organize a college party, inviting relatives and friends to celebrate, but accompanied her mother to clean the room.
He said:"I was finally able to settle down and help my mom properly.
No matter how hot or cold, Zhong Pengcheng always tries to clean the outdoor environment so that his mother can work indoors.
Knowing the hard work of his parents, Zhong Pengcheng also put a lot of effort into his studies, and began to read and study at half past four in the morning every day.
As a result, he was admitted to Peking University with a high score of 652.
Why are these two scholars mentioned?
What they all have in common is the ability to work hard.
They realize how difficult it is to survive and how difficult it is for their parents.
Dou Guimei, principal of Tsinghua University Primary School"Calcium, sugar, salts"In theory, the two students showed it vividly"Calcium"The trait of knowing how to be self-reliant and self-reliant.
This type of education may vary from person to person, but no matter which way is adopted, hardship is essential. Children who endure hardships not only excel in their studies, but also have better character.
So we often hear the phrase:"No matter how poor you are, you can't be poor in education, and no matter how hard you are, you can't be miserable for children"。However, a closer look reveals that children who endure hardships do not have bad grades and even better moral character.
How to awaken children's inner motivation has always been a topic of great concern. @弄疏影, a middle school homeroom teacher in Gansu Province, has successfully stimulated students' motivation to learn through a unique approach that brings parents and teachers together.
At this parent-teacher conference, Get Shady and some parents agreed on a unique activity: parents take their children on a tour of their workplace. Some of these parents are porters, often carrying heavy equipment, climbing old buildings without elevators, and struggling to complete tasks. Still others are miners who have to go into dark mines and face dusty environments. This immersive experience has had a huge impact on many students' attitudes towards learning.
Realizing that life is not easy, students begin to cherish every moment of learning in the classroom. They have a deep understanding of the difficulties and challenges that life can bring, and realize what a valuable opportunity to learn in the classroom. This experience made the children realize that if they didn't study hard, they would have to repeat the same path as the previous generation, living in a narrow ravine, unchanged.
This kind of education is also reminiscent of the experiences of some successful people. For example, Huang Guoping, due to his poor family, used to catch yellow eels at night and fish on weekends for a living. This difficult life made him realize that learning was the best way to change his fate, and eventually he became a senior researcher at Tencent's AI Lab. and Lin Wandong, who used to move bricks at construction sites to save for tuition, but he realized the value of learning opportunities and was eventually admitted to Tsinghua University.
This educational philosophy is also reflected in the "Chinese Children's Financial Quotient Education". Many times, children only know that money is a piece of paper, New Year's money is New Year's money, and birthday is red envelopes, but they don't understand that money is the fruit of labor and is to be exchanged for hard work and sweat. Allowing children to experience the hardships of life first-hand can give them a deeper understanding of money and develop a sense of thinking about others.
Once upon a time, Liu Siqi, a girl from a wealthy family, was experiencing"Metamorphosis plan"After that, it feels refreshed. Living in a simple environment in the mountains, she experienced first-hand the hardships of life. Seeing her uncles and aunts working hard, in rags, and with coarse tea and light food, she tried to work on the construction site to earn money, and understood the value of hard work and sweat. After returning home, she cared more about and honored her parents, and truly learned to be grateful. This experience made her realize that the ups and downs of life make pure water sweet.
In general, allowing children to experience life's difficulties and stimulate their inner motivation through special activities is an effective form of education. This approach allows children to better understand the realities of life and develop a sense of gratitude for their studies and efforts. At the same time, parents should also demonstrate parenting"Kids"On the one hand, give children the opportunity to take on some responsibilities and become independent, responsible adults.