Title:"The wife of the deputy minister dislikes the husband of the officer to be retired? The truth is confusing"."
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My name is Li Li, I am 45 years old, a regimental officer, and I plan to retire at the end of the year.
My wife, Lin Xiao, is 42 years old and the deputy director of the Organization Department of the Municipal Party Committee.
We have been married for 20 years and the relationship has always been good.
In my opinion, we are the quintessential successful couple.
Recently I noticed that my wife was not right with me.
Usually we kiss each other goodbye every morning before going out, but lately she has been rushing out of the house and ignoring me at all.
At first I thought she was just busy with work, so I didn't pay much attention to it.
But this has been going on for more than a week, and I can't help but ask her, "Honey, have you been busy at work lately?" You always seem to be out early and in a hurry. ”
The wife replied, "It's nothing particularly busy, it's just a daily job." ”
Then why didn't you say goodbye to me lately? Did you encounter something that didn't go your way at work? I asked with concern.
Nothing, just want to go to work in the company early. ”
The wife showed a hint of impatience.
Seeing the change in her attitude, I began to feel that something was wrong.
In the past, even when she was busy, she would find time to communicate with me and express the feelings between husband and wife.
And now she seems to treat me like an outsider.
My dear, have you been unhappy with me lately? I asked tentatively.
You're thinking too much, and I don't have any opinion on you. ”
The wife still said perfunctorily.
Then why do you always avoid talking to me? It feels like you're running away from me. ”
I said with some anxiety.
I'm just busy, can you give me some time and space? The wife seemed impatient.
Well, you're busy with yours. ”
That's all I can say.
After that, I took a closer look and confirmed that my wife's attitude was deliberately avoiding me.
She leaves early and returns late, and even at home she tries to avoid communicating with me.
I feel very lost and painful, what is wrong with our relationship as a couple? Finally, one weekend morning, my wife took the initiative to talk to me.
Lili, we need to talk about it. ”
My wife looked at me with a serious face.
Okay, you say it. ”
I waited nervously.
The wife blurted out.
I was speechless and felt like the whole world had collapsed.
There was a crack in our marriage, and I had to find a way to save it.
Wife, what are you talking about? We have been married for so many years and have always had a good relationship, why did we suddenly say that we were going to divorce? "I tried to calm her down.
I just feel that we are not suitable, and there is no need to be reluctant to be together. ”
The wife's tone was calm, but it revealed an unshakable determination.
Wife, we have been married for so many years, how can you say such a thing as divorce? Is it that I am not doing well, you tell me, am I correcting it? I said eagerly.
The wife said coldly: "The problem is not with you, it is me who has changed."
I am no longer satisfied with my current life and want to pursue a better development. ”
What does it mean to be no longer satisfied? Aren't our lives good enough? You are the deputy minister of the municipal party committee, and I am about to retire, our conditions are already very good, do you still want a higher position? I said with some emotion.
His wife said dismissively, "I want greater achievements in life, and more people know my name."
With your current status, how can you possibly help me achieve my ideals? Besides, you're going to retire, and you're only going to hold me back in the future. ”
I was silent, for my wife's mind was no longer worth as much as it used to be, that she was eager to climb higher social classes, and that my retirement would only be a burden to her.
It made my heart cool by half.
Wife, I know you are excellent and ambitious.
But family happiness is also important.
Did you just decide to give up our relationship? "I'm still not going to give up.
Feelings are important to me, but they have to be based on mutual fulfillment. ”
The wife said mercilessly.
I was so depressed that the change in my wife was too much for me to expect.
Looking back on our acquaintance and the process of getting to know each other, I feel even more confused and painful.
My wife and I were college classmates and were assigned to work in the same city after graduation.
We came together naturally, probably because of our similar educational backgrounds, and there weren't many insights at the time.
In the beginning, my wife would still care for me and help me with the housework.
But over the years, she has focused on her career, and our lives have drifted apart.
Now it seems that she has seen me as a burden.
Wife, I understand your feelings, but feelings and family should not be a transaction.
You shouldn't abandon me just because I'm retired. ”
I fought hard.
My mind has been decided and will not change. ”
The wife showed no mercy.
I looked at my wife's indifferent face and finally realized that the woman who once loved me deeply had become a stranger.
Her heart had long since flown away from this little home, and she would no longer be moved by my pleas.
Since you have decided to divorce, it is inconvenient for me to force you to stay.
It's just that the feelings of these years have been erased like this, have you ever regretted our marriage? I asked.
The wife was silent for a while before she said slowly: "I don't regret our marriage, but everything has changed.
I have to plan for my future, and the gap between you and me cannot be crossed. ”
Well, since you have decided so, I respect your choice. ”
I took a deep breath, "How do you plan to arrange the division of property after the divorce?" "According to the law, I won't fight for your things, and you don't covet my position." ”
Don't worry, I won't want you.
I only hope that after the divorce, you can take good care of yourself and don't waste your body in pursuit of the so-called ideals. ”
Got it, you have to take care too. ”
The wife nodded.
In this way, we quickly completed the divorce process.
I left the house with my wife and moved to my hometown by myself.
The wife threw herself into her work and continued to strive for progress.
When I returned to my hometown, I suddenly realized that I had grown old.
Most of my childhood playmates have started families, and their parents have passed away one after another.
I'm the only one left in the empty old house.
I began to reflect, what was the change that caused my wife to get tired of me? Maybe it's because I've been too complacent over the years and haven't continued to forge ahead, so I've been left behind by my wife.
I could have worked hard for a bigger political future and accompanied my wife to the top of the ladder.
But I was too satisfied with the status quo to end up watching her fly higher.
Maybe I shouldn't blame my wife, people always have to fight for their ideals.
It's just that this hard-won relationship has been shattered like this, which really hurts me.
Life is a long road, and I also thought that I could spend my old age with my wife.
Now I'm dealing with a long life of solitude.
Just as I was thinking about it, a ** suddenly interrupted me.
Hey, Lili, I'm Xiaoxiao. ”
* The wife's familiar voice came from the other end.
Xiaoxiao? Do you have something to do with me? "I was amazed.
I'm sorry, I was too anxious to succeed before, and I said a lot of things that hurt your heart.
I've thought about it these days and felt that divorce was a mistake. ”
The wife said in **.
What do you mean by that? We all signed the divorce and regretted it so quickly? "I was a little surprised.
yes, I figured it out, you shouldn't abandon the relationship just because you're retired. ”
And what about your previous ambitions? Didn't you say you were going to keep climbing? I asked, confused.
The wife sighed: "I was carried away by success, and now I finally realize that no matter how successful my career is, I can't replace family happiness."
Living alone these days, I realized how lonely it is to be without you by my side. ”
When I heard this, I had mixed feelings.
My wife's capriciousness made me both delighted and hesitant.
I know it's unfair to you.
But I really realized my mistake and wanted to start over. ”
The wife pleaded, "Can you give me a chance?" "Strength, human nature, I also have times of guilt.
When we fell in love and got married, I did it from the bottom of my heart.
Only then will I lose my way for a while. ”
The wife softened her tone, "Give me a chance to make amends." ”
I was silent.
Indeed, years of affection are not so easy to erase.
Moreover, my wife may have just experienced a successful overdrive, and I can understand her mental journey.
Okay, since you said that, let's start over. ”
I finally decided to give my wife a chance.
That's great! I promise to cherish you even more in the future. ”
It's just that I have one condition. ”
I said seriously.
From now on, you can no longer focus on your career, you have to learn to balance work and family. ”
I uttered the request that had been in my heart.
I really know this time.
I will put you and my family first. ”
The wife solemnly promised.
So, after a short divorce, we came together again.
The wife let go of part of her career and learned to care for her family.
Husband, I made your favorite fish-flavored shredded pork! One night, his wife said with a smile.
Is it? Then I'll have to try it. ”
I said happily.
After dinner, my wife leaned on my shoulder and whispered, "Husband, I really regret that I almost lost you."
I will cherish you well in this life. ”
I squeezed my wife's hand, "In the future we must 'I promise!'" The wife nodded solemnly.
Since then, the wife has kept her promise and truly learned to balance family and career.
She doesn't work as hard as she used to, and often finds time to go for walks and movies with me.
Sometimes I joke that she "doesn't work hard enough", but my wife just laughs and says that me and my family are her motivation.
I also regained the joy of life, often participated in some senior activities, and made a lot of friends.
I once excitedly said to my wife, "When we retire, we can travel around the world together and see the customs of various countries!" "Yes! The wife said happily, "I will accompany you on a tour of the world when the time comes." ”
I was so happy to finally see my wife smile with happiness on her face again, and that was more important than anything else.
In this way, we spent a few years of warm life.
Until one day, his wife suddenly fainted in the company and was rushed to the hospital.
Doctor, what's wrong with my wife? I asked nervously.
Upon examination, your wife has a disease related to hardening of the arteries, possibly caused by long-term overwork. ”
My heart tugged.
It turned out that his wife had worked hard for many years and had invisibly hurt her body.
Doctor, will she be able to continue working in the future? I asked apprehensively.
I advised her to recuperate, as too much work pressure is not conducive to recovery. ”
I gently shook my wife's hand, filled with remorse.
If I had discouraged her more in the first place, maybe I wouldn't have come this far.
When my wife woke up, I said to her gently, "Wife, you don't have to work in the future, and you can take care of yourself at home."
We'll spend the rest of our lives together. ”
The wife nodded weakly, perhaps she had finally realized that success was no substitute for health.
I began to devote myself to taking care of my wife, who was seriously ill.
To make her happy, I would take her for a walk in the park and tell her funny stories to amuse her.
Slowly, my wife's condition improved, and we regained our previous sweetness.
Thank you for taking care of me all these years, my dear. ”
One night, my wife said to me out of the blue.
This is what I should do. ”
I replied, holding her hand.
I was so blind that I almost lost my most precious thing. ”
His wife's eyes filled with tears, "From now on, I will cherish you and our family." ”
I couldn't help but burst into tears.
We've been through a lot of ups and downs, and now we can finally get back started.
I believe that the rest of the years will be even happier.
My wife's condition is gradually improving, and I take good care of her every day and do my best to make her happy.
My dear, the sun is shining so well today, let's go for a walk in the garden. ”
One day at noon, my wife said to me.
So we went to the garden of the community, spread out the blankets, and sat on the grass.
The wife admired the flowers with a happy smile on her face.
I also feel warmth in my heart, the sun that I haven't seen for a long time shines on us, like the light in our lives.
My dear, thank you for taking care of me and accommodating me all these years. ”
It's all my responsibility. ”
I replied, holding her hand.
I want to promise you that I will always be with you for the rest of my life and never have any thoughts of divorce again. ”
The wife's tone was very serious.
Me too. I nodded, "I will always love you and always be good to you." ”
Come, let's pull the hook as an appointment. ”
The wife smiled and held out her little thumb.
At this moment, I felt that our hearts were once again tightly connected.
After experiencing the haze of divorce and illness, my wife finally found the sunshine in her heart, and that sunshine was me.
After that, we went back to a good life.
I continued to pursue my old age hobbies, while my wife spent her days at home.
We would go to the supermarket together to buy groceries and watch TV and chat in the evening.
A simple life, but a source of happiness.
Honey, let's get a cat, it's too quiet in the house. ”
One day after dinner, my wife said to me.
Okay, just right to accompany us. ”
I smiled and nodded.
Let's call it Xiaobai. ”
Well, Xiaobai is a good name. ”
I was also teasing Xiaobai.
In the quiet night, my wife would snuggle up in my arms, teasing Xiaobai while being warm with me.
I feel that this is the true meaning of life, simple but happy.
My wife and I supported each other and finally retired on a sunny morning.
Happy retirement, dear! "My wife prepared a hearty breakfast for me.
Wife, we are retired and can travel the world together in the future! I said happily.
Yes, I already have a plan to go to Japan to see the cherry blossoms, and then go to Europe to visit various countries. ”
The wife replied with a smile.