"Xunzi" said: "Flying with the phoenix, you will be a handsome bird, and if you walk with a tiger and wolf, you will be a fierce beast." ”Get along with good people, achieve each other, walk with the wrong people, consume each other. There is such a story, when a hemp rope is tied to the cabbage, it is the cabbage's**, and if it is tied with the cabbage, it is**'s**. What kind of person you are with determines your life status and destiny trajectory. This is especially true of learning, as a student, we must learn to absorb the essence from excellent people and improve ourselves. 1. Walk with excellent people
Jin Fu Xuan said in "The Prince and Young Fu Zhen": "Those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black." ”The influence of the environment on people is silent, and the influence of the people around them on themselves is subtle. With people who work hard and are motivated, you will do your best, and with people who are negative and decadent, you will also become muddy and have nothing to do. The fastest way for a person to grow is to surround themselves with great people, and over time, you will also unconsciously change drastically. There is a student, the grades are low-class, the enthusiasm for learning is not high, and then a seat adjustment, he is surrounded by students with a very positive attitude towards learning, whenever he wants to relax, the result is to look at the classmates around him, has completed the homework assigned by the teacher, and carry out extracurricular exercises, which makes him feel very decadent, a little out of place with other classmates, so, he also calmed down, studied hard, and now his grades have jumped to the top ten in the class.
Zeng Guofan said: "Choosing friends is the first priority in life." ”Excellent people, motivated, optimistic, full of wisdom and enthusiasm. With excellent people, you will unconsciously spur yourself, exercise yourself, improve yourself, not satisfied with your mediocrity and not want to forge ahead, over time, regardless of conduct, cultivation, ability and vision will become outstanding. Only by being with excellent people can we go more steadily and further, meet a better self and have a better life. 2. Work with optimistic people
The Tao Te Ching says: "Laugh at the wind and clouds, and sit on the clouds." Optimistic people are warm, kind, and positive, and do not complain or give up in the face of setbacks, and at the same time, they can also nourish those around them, even on bleak days, they will bring warmth to people. Working with optimistic people is like walking with the light, and the heart will be illuminated. When encountering difficulties in learning, pessimistic people often think, "Why am I so stupid, what else can I learn!" Positive and optimistic people will advise you like this: "It doesn't matter, it is by solving these difficulties that we can make breakthroughs in learning." When they fail an exam, a pessimistic person will say, "I'm so stupid, I've failed the exam again, and I have no hope of going to university." Positive and optimistic people will tell you: "This is precisely a kind of exposure of the problems in our learning, and it is a good opportunity for us to fill in the gaps." ”There is a saying in "Caigen Tan": "Everyone is happy in good times, and gentlemen are happy in adversity." ”Working with positive and optimistic people will make you open-minded, cheerful, and strong-willed. Calm and calm, live elegantly and transparently. 
Zeng Guofan said: "Life or failure is all related to the merit of friends, and you must not be careless." "In this life, we will meet a lot of people, but not everyone can make friends. To choose a friend is to choose destiny. For the rest of my life, I will walk with great people and work with optimistic people. Being close to the people who nourish you is the highest standard of making friends. May you meet your lover in this life, accompany him, gain good friends, forge ahead, and have a happy and abundant life.