The well-behaved and obedient son participated in military training in Jinan, and when he came back, he didn't like to laugh in the past few days, lying in the bed all day long, sometimes chatting on WeChat, sometimes distracted.
The day before yesterday, I walked over and told him to wake up for dinner. The son said that one of his classmates applied not to join the army because he was reluctant to have his first girlfriend who had been in love for three years. The son has been comforting him for the past few days.
I said, in fact, it can be regarded as persuading myself in disguise, right?
The son nodded and didn't speak, because he also had a first love, and he had been talking for four years.
The son suddenly asked, what should I do, Dad, I really like her, and she really likes me.
I brought the food and let him eat it while he explained it.
The girl met in high school, and was the representative of the English class in the class, and when the son saw her for the first time, he had a good impression, and the son tried his best to learn English, desperately looking for opportunities to get close to the girl, and the girl liked him a lot. The eldest son's English score was the first in the class.
I said, no wonder your English is suddenly better, it turns out that this is the case, and other subjects are not very good.
The eldest prince went on to say that if she insisted on joining the army this time, she would inevitably have no other suitors in the next few years.
If you don't join the army, you can't find a good job, and your family has no money and can't get married.
I asked the girl about her strengths, and the eldest son said that she was beautiful, gentle, and good at studying.
I said, in fact, it doesn't matter, there are many girls like this.
The eldest prince said, but I really like her.
I said, no matter how important your emotions are, it's not as important as your career, right?
He stopped talking, bowed his head to eat, and when he was done, he went to read the easy study book that I had thrown into the corner for many years.
I went to wash the dishes and chopsticks.
The son suddenly came over and asked, Dad, the numerology book says that there will be no result between me and her. Is it true, is it really predestined?
I said, is there any other way? Don't think about it.
The son was speechless. Back in my room, I opened my notebook and continued to write the headline article that we snuffed out our son's love.
After a while, my wife came over and asked, what did you just say to your son? He cried with his head covered.
I told the truth. She listened, sighed for a long time and said, my son is really sad, first love, do you know first love, he has no heart all day long, and he is not good to persuade him.
I got up, excused myself to smoke a cigarette, and walked out of the yard.
My first love was called Reiko.
That year, the movie Shaolin Temple was a big hit. Jet Li in his teens, thin and bareheaded, I was also a teenager at the time, thin and bareheaded, and I felt that I was a little monk Jueyuan. Automatically looking for the white flawless around him, with big eyes, love to smile, and herding sheep, which happens to be the appearance of Reiko.
Every day Reiko goes to herd sheep for a while after school, I think the house is too noisy, I want to go outside to read, the schoolbag is full of all kinds of snacks and candy, every time I am very surprised to meet her who is herding sheep, talking, eating.
The sky is blue and the wind is light, and everything is so pleasing to the eye.
One day, she said that she would study seriously in the future, because her father said that she would not study hard and be admitted to university, and she would not be worthy of me in the future, because my second uncle was the leader of the township supply and marketing cooperative, and he would definitely have an iron job in the future.
She loves to learn, and I love to learn.
Together we were successfully admitted to the township junior high school. Still in the same class.
Every day, we cycle to school seven miles away and go home after school.
Those dozens of minutes on the road were the happiest times for her and me.
On that road, it was raining, we were all wet, looking for a place to shelter from the rain, I found for the first time that her lips were red, and there was a curve between her arms, and my heartbeat would rise and fall with the curve.
She also noticed that there were mustache tips around my lips, which were quite piercing.
After that rain, she and I both caught a cold.
My mother looked for the second uncle, and despite my objections, I let me live in the courtyard of the supply and marketing cooperative.
Then I strongly disagreed, but not submissively.
It didn't take long for the second uncle to take a few ** and say, you don't have to go to school in the coming year, you have you in this batch of recruitment.
I said, I'm going to go to university. The second uncle said that it is not important to go to college, and after graduating in the future, will it not be the same as entering the supply and marketing cooperative?
I said I liked a girl and couldn't bear her.
The second uncle said that there are more good girls, and there will be better ones in the future.
When the recruitment procedures were completed, the second aunt entrusted someone to introduce a girl who had just entered the supply and marketing cooperative, she was like a white swan in the movie, and compared with other girls, it looked a lot rustic.
The important thing is that the uncle and aunt said that the iron rice bowl cannot find a mud rice bowl, so that the offspring can only dig in the soil and eat.
Soon, I heard a classmate say that Ling dropped out of school, and her grades were very good, but for some reason her grades suddenly dropped and she couldn't study anymore. Her father and mother didn't pay the tuition and dropped out of school.
Soon I heard that she was engaged to a self-employed man in the county, who was very wealthy. Treat her well.
I can't forget her in my life, but I can't hate my second uncle, because my second uncle is really for my good, what he said is right, everything is for my consideration.
At this time, I realized that I had received an invisible whip from my second uncle, sensible, ruthless, called listen to me, I am for your good. I snuffed out my first love, and now I take it over, and I will snuff out my son's first love.
And the first love is the purest and free of impurities because it is not mixed with money and power. Frozen in a corner of the mind, it refuses to melt, it refuses to disappear. Occasionally move, touching the heart hurts.
I'm sorry, kid, I know I hurt you, but I'm really doing you good.
Because I really love you.