As we all know, if you want to run a marriage well, you need two people to work together, and you must be faithful to the marriage on the basis of mutual trust, so that you can go to the end.
If one of the spouses insists on the divorce, it is nothing more than being disappointed in their partner or that they have fallen in love with someone else. Almost every divorced couple has a story behind it, and sometimes the story reveals endless heartache.
In 2010, a woman lived with her son but left her husband alone in an empty house. After the woman filed for divorce, her husband bluntly said: "I might as well die!" "What happened between them? Why would my husband say such things?
Zhang was born in an ordinary family, and he came out to work after finishing high school, so he didn't have any academic qualifications. Seeing that he was at the age when he should get married, he met Li, who had similar conditions to himself, under the introduction of the matchmaker.
In Zhang's opinion, they are the right person, but in Li's opinion, they have suffered a loss. She always felt that Zhang was a little weak and incompetent, and she was not worthy of herself at all.
However, she couldn't find a more suitable partner for a long time, so she could only make do with Zhang. After all, Zhang is quite honest, as long as he can make money steadily.
In this way, they decided to get married. After marriage, Li gave birth to two sons one after another, and the family's financial situation plummeted. Originally, they could only rely on farming to support themselves, but after having a son, the income from farming was not enough.
In order to solve the economic problem, Zhang decided to drag his family out to work. On weekdays, Zhang works in a factory, and Li sets up a stall in the vegetable market near the rental house to do business.
Their family of four is crammed into a 30-square-meter rental house, and life is a little tight. Seeing that his sons were about to enter junior high school, Zhang actually asked them to drop out of school and go out to work.
In his opinion, his sons' grades are not too good, and they need so much money to study, so it is better to work early to help relieve their pressure. Fortunately, the sons were more obedient, and under Zhang's persuasion, they decided to go to the big city to have a look.
After their son left, Zhang and Li's living conditions gradually improved, at least they no longer had to be fed and clothed. As a result, in 2009, the eldest son Zhang Moujun came back.
It turned out that Zhang Moujun had worked hard outside for so many years, not only did he not make any money, but he also lost all confidence. Every time he goes out for an interview, people will think that he has no education and no ability, and he will be said to be useless.
After several failed interviews, he decided to go home and become a gnawing old man before thinking about the future. When Zhang Moujun came back, Li was very happy, because she hadn't seen her son for too long.
Zhang watched his son come back, and the only feeling in his heart was that he hated iron and steel. Moreover, the 22-year-old Zhang soldier is tall and big, and it is a little difficult to live in this rental house.
Since there was only one bed at home, Zhang decided to let Zhang Moujun and Li sleep on the bed that night, and make a bunk on the floor first. When sleeping, Li held Zhang Moujun in his arms as before, and gently patted Zhang Moujun's back.
In Li's arms, Zhang Moujun gradually forgot those unpleasant experiences, and his inner dissatisfaction with life disappeared. Perhaps because the experience of this night was too warm, Zhang Moujun began to covet his mother's arms.
Usually, when Zhang was working the night shift outside, he would run to the bed and sleep with Li hugging. Li has always felt that Zhang Moujun is a child who doesn't grow up, but unfortunately she forgot that as a 22-year-old boy, she naturally has some physiological reactions.
One day, Zhang Moujun reacted again in Li's arms, this time he failed to control himself, and pressed Li underneath as soon as he turned around. Zhang Moujun's actions surprised Li, she never expected Zhang Moujun to do such a thing.
However, for some reason, Li did not push Zhang Moujun away, but let him finish that thing. From that day on, the relationship between their mother and son became a little strange, and they often communicated behind Zhang's back.
As the relationship between the two gradually warmed up, Li could no longer face Zhang. So she simply kicked Zhang out of the house and refused to see Zhang again.
The moment he was kicked out of the house, Zhang realized that the relationship between Li and Zhang may not be simple. He couldn't accept this kind of thing, he sat at the door of the rental house and broke down and shouted: "My wife and son are together, how can I live if it is spread out?" ”
It's a pity that no matter what Zhang says, Li and Zhang Moujun don't plan to end the relationship, and Li even has to divorce Zhang. Overnight, this originally happy family became fragmented, and Zhang didn't know where to go.
In my opinion, parents of the opposite sex should always keep an appropriate distance from their children, otherwise similar tragedies will occur. As the so-called children avoid their mothers, and daughters avoid their fathers, the real family affection is not to get along day and night, but to pay for each other in the right position. I hope everyone can figure this out and don't become Li or Zhang.