Looking back on the 34 year old woman who was paralyzed and divorced, she married her best friend s

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-02-17

Isn't it abrupt to let your best friend marry her son?

Huang Junping of Yichang City, Hubei Province, is one such person, her best friend Yin Houping was paralyzed by an accident, and her husband also left her.

Seeing her once happy and lively best friend suffer like this, Huang Junping was heartbroken, and taking care of her best friend became her responsibility, and what was even more unexpected was that she actually matched her son to marry a paralyzed best friend, and they changed from friends to mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

To say thisYin Houping's fate is also very bumpyBorn in 1988 in the family of an ordinary farmer in Wufeng Tujia, Yichang City, Hubei Province, her simple folk customs cultivated her cheerful character.

After graduating from junior high school, he met a boy he liked while working in Shenzhen, and the two soon entered the palace of marriage, and in the second year of marriage, that is, in 2009, they gave birth to a boy.

In order to make more money, the two discussed resigning from their jobs in Shenzhen and returning to their hometown Yichang to start a business.

In 2013, they returned to their hometown with a beautiful dream for the future, in order to let them have no worries, grandparents took the initiative to stand up and say: "You young people let go and break through, we will watch the children." ”

Thinking about it, it was really inconvenient to take the child by their side, so they gave the child to their grandparents with confidence, but they didn't expect this decision to change their lives.

Every time she thinks of that day, Yin Houping always bursts into tears and suffers, it is the nightmare of her life, the winter of that year is particularly cold, dripping into ice, grandparents are working, and her three-year-old son actually ran to the pond behind to skate.

Suddenly, the ice cracked, and the child gradually submerged in the pond, When the grandparents found out that their grandson was gone, it was too late, holding the child's cold body, Yin Houping cried so much that her liver and intestines were broken.

She hopes that time can come back, she must watch the children by herself, and her grandparents are full of self-blame, but no amount of sadness can save the reality.

Seeing Yin Houping wash her face with tears every day, not thinking about tea and dinner, becoming more and more haggard, her husband was also distressed, and said helplessly and painfully: "Let's leave this sad place and start over, the baby doesn't want to see you like this." ”

After the New Year, they came to Yichang City, the matter is irreparable, but life has to go on, it is here that she met a warm-hearted and kind eldest sister Huang Junping, and they became lifelong confidants.

This Huang Junping is a full 17 years older than Yin Houping, and the reason why they can become good girlfriends may be related to the fate of the two, only two equally kind people can cherish each other so much.

Huang Junping was born in 1971 in the Changyang Tujia family of Yichang, Hubei Province, and when he was 20 years old, he was introduced by the village and married Zhao Jiuyi from a neighboring village, and gave birth to his son Zhao Yingfeng not long after marriage.

The birth of the child made the originally happy family more fireworks, and the husband and wife worked harder, but they didn't expect the accident to come quietly.

That day, Huang Junping came home from work and saw her son holding his hands and crying darkly, his voice was hoarse, and what scared her even more was that the child's side was covered with blood on his clothes.

What happened? She threw away the hoe in her hand and came to her son, and carefully pulled the child's hand awayThe child's left index finger is gone.

It turned out that Zhao Yingfeng and his cousin were playing games at home, and they accidentally cut off the index finger of their left hand, and their cousin was also trembling in the corner, holding his son, Huang Junping's heart was full of grief.

At this time, Zhao Yingfeng may not have known what it meant to lose his index finger, and then he started a happy life again, but he ignored his parents' distressed and guilty expressions.

In 2009, the family was shrouded in frost, and her husband Zhao Jiuyi was diagnosed with advanced liver cancer, which means that his time is running out, and the family will collapse at any time.

Looking at her husband's diagnosis, Huang Junping quietly wiped away her tears, her husband fell, she must hold on, "Am I dying?" Zhao Jiuyi noticed his wife's evasive eyes.

You'll be fine, just pay attention to rest and you'll get better. But such comforting words pale in comparison, "I know my own body," I knowYou can find a good man to marry after I leave, but you must help our son start a family. Zhao Jiuyi said solemnly: "This is my only wish." ”

Huang Junping nodded tearfully.

After her husband's death, their orphaned and widowed lives were in trouble, and the villagers introduced her to a local bricklayer named Hu Jinfeng, who was very kind and married because of poverty.

The two didn't hold a banquet or set off firecrackers, but they just went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to register, and the family had a meal together in the evening to be considered married.

In 2010, Zhao Yingfeng has grown up to go out to work, Huang Junping and Hu Jinfeng gave birth to their youngest son Hu Yuhang, and then the two came to Yichang City to work.

Although the two are 17 years apart, they are both women and have the same bumpy fate, and they seem to have endless topicsEspecially the youngest son Hu Yuhang likes this aunt very much

With this sister's enlightenment and communication, Yin Houping gradually got out of the pain of losing her child, and what made her even happier was that in 2015, Yin Houping gave birth to another daughter.

In order to make her daughter live a good life, she worked harder to make money, and went out to set up a stall in her spare time, and Huang Junping took the initiative to help her take care of her daughter.

On the street, you can often see the scene of the sisters helping each other, and people who don't know still think they are sisters, and then the two cooperate to sell egg cakes, they help each other, and work together towards a better life.

In this way, 3 years of happy time passed, but on this day, Huang Junping said to Yin Houping with a reluctant expression: "This is the sweater I knitted for your daughter with my own hands, my husband's job has changed, and I am going back to my hometown." ”

Yin Houping was also full of reluctance: "Then can I still see you?" ”

I don't know, but we've got to keep in touch anyway. They hugged each other tightly.

After separation, they shared their lives every day, looking forward to seeing each other again one day.

One day in October 2017, Yin Houping helped her mother's family cut down trees as usual, when she suddenly heard a "ouch" sound, she collapsed, and she could no longer stand.

into a doctor's diagnosis,Yin Houping's vertebrae were broken by a fallen tree, and the second half of her life was permanently paralyzedHearing the news, Huang Junping was heartbroken, but she didn't know what she could help, so she could only express her concern by making money.

Fortunately, Yin Houping's character is strong, she was not defeated by difficulties, since she couldn't stand anymore, she made money through the Internet.

At this time, Huang Junping followed her husband to Yichang City, and she learned a little bit of the craft of making egg cakes from Yin Houping, so she set up a stall to do a small business.

The two people seem to have their own goals again, maybe their fate has long been doomed, on this day, Huang Junping was out of the stall, and suddenly the mobile phone rang, yesA message from Yin Houping: "Sister Huang, I'm going to Yichang City to receive *** in two days." ”

Thinking that he could meet his long-lost best friend again, Huang Junping happily immediately closed the stall and went to buy a lot of nutrition and tonics.

In the second half of 2019, the two sisters, who had been separated for 2 years, reunited again, and saw that although Yin Houping was paralyzed, she was still in good spirits, which made Huang Junping feel a lot more relaxed.

After a long absence, they talked a lot, reminisced about the past together, sighed about fate together, encouraged each other together, and even Huang Junping's youngest son has been surrounding Yin Houping, maybeHe also felt the camaraderie between his mother and this aunt

Yin Houping also likes this kid very much, and has been telling him stories, Huang Junping couldn't help but say with emotion"I also have an older son, so you should get along very well. ”

After saying this, she suddenly had a different feeling in her heart, the eldest son seemed to be not much younger than Yin Houping, would it be a bit abrupt to say this?

She secretly glanced at Yin Houping, for fear that she would think too much, but fortunately, Yin Houping didn't notice, just happily told Hu Yuhang a story, and the two hugged each other and laughed for a while.

Although Huang Junping's idea was just a flash of inspiration, what happened next made her change, but can her best friend and son accept it?

In August 2020, Yin Houping's husband couldn't stand taking care of a person with incontinence day and nightHe filed for divorce"I can't help you, if it goes on like this, it will ruin me, let's get a divorce, right?" ”

Perhaps Yin Houping had thought of this day a long time ago, and she agreed very readily, her husband took away her daughter, and she faced the future life alone.

In fact, she is also confused, but she doesn't want to be difficult, she is already like this, and she really shouldn't be dragging her husband down.

She also misses her daughter, but she can't take care of it herself, so it's always better to follow her fatherSince then, she has devoted herself to taking care of her accountIt's just that life has too many inconveniences.

learned of her best friend's divorce, Huang Junping ran even more diligently, she had to help Yin Houping wipe her body, wash clothes, cook, and mend her body.

She also has a family of her own, and she has to work out of the stall, so she is very busy every day, and Yin Houping will also help her take care of the children and tutor the children's writing.

As long as we are together, I will always take care of you, you can rest assured. Every time he saw Yin Houping's grateful eyes, Huang Junping would comfort her.

Sister Huang, knowing you is the luckiest thing in my life. The two hands are clasped tightly, whether it is love or friendship, they all come from the heart, which is the most sincere and pure, and they are such feelings.

At this time, Zhao Yingfeng had no job because of the collapse of the company, and at the suggestion of his stepfather, he learned to be a bricklayer, and the family lived together.

When Zhao Yingfeng grew up, he knew his flaws, his personality became more introverted, he was not good at communication, and he has not yet found a girlfriend.

I thought of my ex-husband telling myself before he died: "You must start a family for your children." "But how can fate be forced? Zhao Yingfeng also went on a blind date with a few girls, but they all died without a problem.

Maybe it was destined for him and Yin Houping's fate, and the magnetic fields of the two were quietly approaching.

On this day, Huang Junping came to chat with Yin Houping as usual, and suddenly his eldest son Zhao Yingfeng came over: "Mom, someone is looking for you." "It turned out to be a relative from his family.

Following the voice, Yin Houping saw the man standing outside the door, he was wearing a white T-shirt and black sweatpants, looking neat and neat.

And Zhao Yingfeng also noticed that this best friend often said in his mother's mouth, although she was disabled, she was smiling and looked extremely kind, which made Zhao Yingfeng's heart feel extremely warm, and he actually smiled with her unconsciously.

And all this was seen by Huang Junping, and suddenly thought of the previous thought, she also laughed with them, and the pictures of the three people were extremely coordinated.

At dinner, Huang Junping asked his son seriously: "Ying Feng, what do you think of Yin Houping?" ”

The corners of Zhao Yingfeng's mouth rose slightly: "Do you mean Aunt Yin?" She looks good, strong and optimistic. ”

You kid, what an aunt, people are only 4 years older than you. Huang Junping patted his son's arm: "Don't you don't have a girlfriend yet?" I mean you marry her. ”

originally thought that his son would oppose or think about it for a while, but he didn't expect Zhao Yingfeng to just be stunned for a moment and say, "Then what did she say?" ”

It seems that there is a drama on his son's side, and Huang Junping can't help but be overjoyedFrom best friends to mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, this is a blessing that has been cultivated for several lifetimes

She didn't fall asleep all night, thinking about how to talk to Yin Houping, but she didn't expect Yin Houping to be surprised that a mouthful of water almost squirted out: "Sister Huang, what did you say?" ”

Hurriedly took a towel to wipe off the water stains on her face: "Don't get excited, listen to me, won't we become a real family?" Don't you want to? ”

Zhao Yingfeng's energetic face suddenly appeared in Yin Houping's mind, and he suddenly blushed, and even his voice was a little blurred: "But I'm like this now, can he like it?" ”

"My silly sister, if he doesn't like me, will he tell you about it? ”

Yin Houping's face couldn't help but turn even redder.

Later, with the help of his mother, Zhao Yingfeng often came over to take care of Yin Houping, and both of them were embarrassed to pierce the net, and it seemed that there was no actual development of their relationship.

I didn't want to, but because of an accident, Zhao Yingfeng boldly confessed.

One night in April 2021, Yin Houping suddenly felt thirsty, she got up and tried hard to pour water in a wheelchair, but she didn't want to use uneven force, fell to the ground, and broke her bones again.

Huang Junping's mother and son were heartbroken when they found out, and Zhao Yingfeng was close to him 24 hours a day, sleeping outside the door at night, and getting up immediately when he heard the movement.

He also learned to wash his daughter's hair, help her wash her clothes, and cook for her. "Their feelings were sublimated at this time.

"Let's get married, so I can always be by your side, okay? ”Zhao Yingfeng looked at Yin Houping with eager eyes and asked emotionally.

In fact, Yin Houping has been thinking about this matter these days, and when she sleeps, she thinks that there is someone guarding outside, and her heart is extremely steady.

Zhao Yingfeng doesn't know romance and can't coax girls, but he will use his actions to prove himself, not to mention that with such a kind and simple mother, his heart will not be bad.

But I'm like this now, and I won't necessarily be able to have children. Yin Houping still raised the practical questions in front of her.

It doesn't matter if you're paralyzed, I'll take you to see the sunrise and sunset, the stars twinkle, and it's okay if you urinate and urinate on your clothes, I'll personally help you wash and take care of your daily life, as long as we're together, all the problems will fall apart one by one." Under Zhao Yingfeng's promise, Yin Houping finally nodded.

In October of this year, they got a marriage certificate and became a real husband and wife, Huang Junping solemnly said to his son: "She will be your wife in the future, you have to take care of her, love her, and take care of her."

After marriage, Zhao Yingfeng did what he promised, and took care of his wife as he did at the beginningHuang Junping and Yin Houping have also changed from best friends to mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and have become a real family, they have no mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts, only mutual understanding.

The reason why affection has always been praised is that it can often break through the shackles of age, wealth, illness, etc., and move towards fulfillment and happiness.

What's even happier is that they later gave birth to a daughter, "full of love and water", and it is a great happiness for people who love each other to live together, even if they pay more, it is also sweet.

Yin Houping is unlucky, but lucky. Because she has a kind heart, she reaps the ultimate happiness.

There are many, many things to go through in a person's life, and there will be smooth sailing, as well as ups and downs. No matter what, you have to believe that happiness is just around the corner ahead.

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