As the end of the year approaches, blind date activities have set off a wave of enthusiasm in major cities. Especially those who are still single in their prime of life, they want to find their significant other at this festive time. However, in this seemingly unbridled market, the gap between reality and expectations can sometimes become a difficult chasm to bridge.
Xiao Yang, a simple and motivated science and engineering man, is 34 years old this year. Through a friend's introduction, he made an appointment with a beautiful woman, and the two met in a café. The woman's long hair is fluttering, fashionably dressed, and every movement exudes charming charm. However, when Xiao Yang asked her about her expectations for her other half, the woman's answer surprised him.
I hope to find a man who is more than 1.8 meters tall and has a monthly salary of more than 20,000 yuan, preferably with a car and a house, and who will take care of me in every way. The woman made no secret of her request. After hearing this, Xiao Yang smiled awkwardly. He knew that his conditions were far from what the woman expected, so he decided to be honest.
I'm sorry, I'm only 1.7 meters tall, my monthly salary is only more than 3,000, and I don't have a garage. It seems that we are not quite a match. Xiao Yang replied honestly. However, the woman didn't seem to listen, and eagerly grabbed Xiao Yang's arm, revealing a bit of reluctance in her tone: "Don't be in a hurry to go!" We haven't had a good talk yet! How can you be so disappointed in me? ”
Seeing the woman's anxious expression, Xiao Yang was also a little soft-hearted. He let go of the woman's hand and said with a smile: "Actually, I also have my own requirements, I hope to find a girl who is more than 1.7 meters tall, **fair-skinned and beautiful, preferably with a car and a house, and is willing to treat me sincerely." But it may not matter, the most important thing is whether we can understand and respect each other. ”
When the woman heard this, she was stunned for a moment, and then laughed. She pointed at Xiao Yang and teased: "You're also quite picky!" But you're right, mutual understanding and respect are the most important things. After saying that, she let go of her hand and let Xiao Yang leave.
After Xiao Yang left, the woman fell into deep thought. She understands that she may be too demanding, but she still believes that one day she will meet someone who will meet all her expectations. In the process, she also needs to learn to let go of her body and understand and respect each other.
As a traditional way of marriage and love, blind date still occupies an important position in modern society. However, with the change of the times and the change of people's concepts, blind dates are also facing many new challenges and changes. In this process, we need to maintain a peaceful mind, neither overly pursuing external conditions and material comforts, nor underestimating the inner qualities and personality characteristics of the other party.
For women, physical beauty is important, but it is more important to find a partner with whom you can support and cherish each other. When choosing a partner, we should not only consider the economic conditions and social status of the other person, but also pay attention to the character, character and values of the other person. Only in this way can we find happiness that is truly right for us.
For men, it can be stressful and challenging to face the high demands of women, but we should also maintain confidence and courage and express our thoughts and demands honestly. In the blind date process, we need to respect the other party's wishes and choices, and don't be too demanding. At the same time, we must also learn to accept each other's shortcomings and flaws.
In addition to individual efforts and adjustments, society should also strengthen the supervision and regulation of the blind date market. ** and social organizations can ensure the fairness, impartiality and transparency of the blind date market by formulating relevant laws, regulations and policies. At the same time, it is also possible to improve people's concept and quality level of marriage and love by carrying out marriage education and publicity activities, and promote the healthy development of the blind date market.
In short, blind date, as a traditional way of marriage and love, is still of great significance and value in modern society. However, in order to be successful and happy in the blind date market, we need to maintain a peaceful mind, respect the other person's wishes and choices, and pay attention to the other person's inner qualities and personality characteristics. Only in this way can we find our true happiness in the blind date market.
Finally, I would like to say to everyone who is on a blind date or preparing to go on a blind date: don't be too anxious and impatient, believe in your own charm and value, and keep a peaceful mind to face every blind date. At the same time, you should also learn to respect and understand the other person's choices and requirements, and not to be too demanding. I believe that in the near future, you will definitely meet the person with whom you cherish and support each other to spend the rest of your life with. I wish everyone who goes on a blind date can find their own happiness and home!
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