As the New Year approached, people on blind dates began to get anxious. This is especially true for older and unmarried youth, who are eager to find a partner before the New Year. However, the reality is cruel, for men, to touch the hearts of women, it takes all kinds of tests, not only the test of time, but also the challenge of money.
On January 30, a man from Guizhou attended a blind date. The blind date is outstanding, but the conditions she puts forward are quite harsh. The male couldn't help but be nervous, while the woman anxiously grabbed his hand, hoping to keep it. The man is over 34 years old, he is a science and engineering man, and he is down-to-earth and hardworking. This blind date was introduced through a friend, and after he met the woman, he found that she had an extraordinary temperament and outstanding appearance. Women are dressed in simple and fashionable clothes, giving people a celebrity.
Men bluntly ask women what their ideal partner looks like. The woman replied without hesitation: I want to find someone who is more than 1.8 meters tall, has a monthly salary of more than 20,000 yuan, owns a car and a house, and treats her well. This condition made the man immediately realize that he did not meet the standard, so he did not hesitate to say that he wanted to leave. The woman hurriedly grabbed him, expressing her disappointment and desire to continue communicating.
The man honestly replied that he was 1.7 meters tall, had a monthly salary of 3,500, and had no car or house, which did not meet her requirements. The woman gently tugged at the man's cuffs and said coquettishly, "Then you don't have to go in such a hurry, we can talk!" What are you looking for? The man said seriously: "I want to find a girl under the age of 20 who is 1.8 meters tall, fair-skinned and beautiful, has a car and a house, and is willing to spend money!" The women couldn't help but laugh when they heard this, and directly accused the men of being unrealistic. The man replied, "Your request is unrealistic, isn't it?" Am I not learning from you? We really don't fit. ”
The woman smiled and suggested continuing the meal, her words revealing her displeasure with the man. She accused men of being too picky, saying that she had participated in many blind dates, but few men invited her to dinner. She felt that she was good-looking, so men should pay more for her. The man smiled and turned to leave. Subsequently, a *** netizen broke the news that they had seen a similar situation in a clothing store, and women always wanted men to give financial support, and even men had to pay for a meal.
Blind dates are meant to be about finding an emotional home, not about buying or selling. Being too demanding and materialistic will only miss out on the true fate. If you want to be happy, you should adjust your mindset and lower your requirements for your partner. In particular, it is important to avoid making unrealistic conditions, because if your own conditions do not match, why should you ask others to meet them. In addition, if you don't like the other person, you should express your attitude in time. If you blindly expect the other person to pay, then this behavior is actually seeking financial support, not true love.
In short, the first thing to look for when looking for a partner is quality and character, not material conditions. Focusing too much on money and external conditions can lead to emotional misunderstandings, which ultimately leads to the loss of true happiness for both partners.
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