We all know that social skills are not only possessed, and children also have their own social circles.
If parents can understand the various emotions and behaviors that children exhibit during their growth as they are developing social skills, and can give their children patient companionship and positive encouragement, their children's social skills will definitely improve greatly.
Cultivating children's social skills needs to start from the little things in daily life, so how can parents make their children more popular?
1. Create a harmonious and healthy family atmosphere
In the family should create a democratic, equal, cordial and harmonious atmosphere, parent-centered and child-centered families are not advisable, in order to let children have a harmonious and healthy interpersonal relationship, parents must create a harmonious and healthy family environment for children.
As the first teacher of the child, parents have a subtle influence on the child in many aspects, and the children have a strong ability to imitate, and often bring some of their parents' language, behavior, and habits into their own lives.
Family members should try to avoid arguing in front of the child, because this kind of dispute situation will not only make the child feel nervous and panicked, but also make the child unconsciously learn some negative ways of communicating, such as attacking each other with bad words, attacking each other, etc.
2. Give children the opportunity to solve problems independently
When a child encounters a problem or has a conflict with others, parents should not immediately intervene, if it is not a big problem, give the child the opportunity to try to solve the problem on their own.
Each age has their own unique way of solving problems, and it is inevitable that conflicts will arise in daily life for younger children.
And when problems arise, it is the time to improve their emotional intelligence and problem-solving skills, and parents can let them solve them independently, so don't interfere. Wait until your child really needs help, and then take action to guide your child to experience the other person's feelings.
When the child solves the conflict independently, no matter what the result of the solution is, parents should respect the result of the child's efforts.
3. Don't control your child's emotions
The nature of a child is to let go of himself, in his world there are only adults and children, parents should control their emotions, do not control their children's emotions, especially deliberate communication, will make children think that talking to strangers, how can it be so difficult. The more you push, the more difficult it will be for your child.
4. Help children get out of the circle of self-isolation
Teach your child to talk to familiar people first, then work your way up to the level of talking to strangers. Usually at home, you can virtualize a public place, there are countless listeners below, let the child speak, after a long and arduous psychological exercise, with the growth of age, the perfection of personality, social phobia can be gradually overcome.
In fact, the so-called education is to start from the details, so that children can avoid mistakes and reduce the probability of going the wrong way. In fact, the most important thing isIt is necessary to focus on the cultivation of character and character。Therefore, it is very important to cultivate children's good behavior habits in a timely manner for children's growthCultivating excellent character habitsHaving a confident and optimistic attitude, learning to control their emotions, and reasonably resolving negative emotions in life are the skills that children should learn.
There are no bad children in this world, only parents who can't teach, and parents put more effort into growing upGive the right guidance and raise excellent childrenIt's actually quite easy.
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