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Contemporary society emphasizes efficiency, and everything is based on "fast food culture".
We are driven by pressure from all sides and too high goals, and we have a full schedule of life and set various demands for ourselves, but we are never able to live up.
We've felt remorseful, we've been disappointed, we've been distracted by the myriad of experiences, and we don't know what to do to be more productive and less painful.
In fact, a person's top self-discipline is not to go to bed early and get up early, nor to save money, but to do everything in three words: ordinary heart.
01: Treat your ideals with a normal heart
Everyone has long-term ideals and short-term goals, which is the driving force and direction for us to move forward.
However, some people rush and hope that the luckier and harder they are, the sooner they will succeed.
This is understandable, but it is followed by frustration and anxiety, which can interfere with one's judgment, hinder one's progress, and once things do not go according to the established track, they will immediately become discouraged, doubt themselves, and cause everything to stagnate.
Aggressiveness is not true self-discipline, but persecution.
Only when you are self-motivated, you can look at the momentary gains and losses with a normal heart, and never be negative on the road of pursuing your ideals, which is the top level of self-discipline.
When we are no longer bound by any so-called dreams and no longer hit by any decadent mood, we will look at all successes and failures calmly, remain humble in success, gain experience in failure, and live according to the rules.
Enjoy the process in each experience, keep climbing, keep improving, and you will go farther and farther and fly higher.
02: Be calm and treat other people's choices
All people have the right to choose, and we can't ask others to behave according to our own standards.
Therefore, respecting other people's choices and understanding others' differences is the upbringing that each of us should have.
Keep a normal heart to look at the going and staying of others, look down on fate, and untie yourself and everyone else, so that the relationship is comfortable, and this kind of life is easy.
Always keep yourself in a peaceful state of mind to face the separation with others, and do not let yourself fall into loss, nor let yourself be lost in deep affection.
This kind of self-discipline towards fate is our way of protecting ourselves and respecting others.
The most tiring relationship in a relationship is nothing more than "it should be", where one party tries to tie up the other while the other party only wants to break free.
Be yourself, go all out when you want to give, and make decisions when facing separation, regardless of the reason, and do not argue about right or wrong.
This is the top level of self-discipline in dealing with relationships.
03: Treat the changes of the years with a normal heart
In the face of the changes of the times, we are all forced to roll in the waves, unable to change, only to adapt.
Being overly obsessed with why, why, and how to do it will only add to your troubles and will not do you any good.
Keeping a normal mind towards changes and challenges means seeing changes as inspiration, treating challenges as opportunities, cherishing the present, and not being afraid of any twists and turns.
Embracing change, adapting to different environments, and facing the ups and downs of life with a positive attitude, for such people, it is to know how to settle their hearts, seek peace of mind, and pursue a quiet state of mind.
All the past has passed, all the future has not yet come, and only urging yourself to live in the here and now is the highest level of self-discipline.
Maintaining a normal heart is a manifestation of top self-discipline.
When we have this ordinary heart, we will truly realize what it means to be quiet and good in the present world.
In this world full of unknowns and unpredictables, a normal mind can help us relax to cope with all kinds of unexpected situations, face turbulence and adjustment with a more calm and elegant attitude, there will be less anxiety, more calm, life will be easier, and we will be happier.
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