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Everyone's life has peaks and valleys, and it will not always be smooth sailing, nor will it always be at the end of the day.
At the pinnacle, we can't afford to be complacent; In times of downturn, we can't languish either.
When we are poor, we may meet relatives and friends to help us and give us old clothes to wear, at this time, on the one hand, we should thank each other for their kindness, and on the other hand, we should refuse in a timely manner, for three reasons, which cannot be ignored.
01: More important than the old and the new, is happiness
Dressing is not only a way to hide shame, but also a way to show our personality and taste, and a way for us to make ourselves happy.
On the way to buy new clothes, we began to feel happy and happy.
It's not about vanity, it's about rewarding and recognizing yourself.
If we always wear other people's old clothes, it is bound to make this happiness disappear, and it also deepens our doubts and low self-esteem, and even denial.
People's happiness is not simply based on a piece of clothing, but it is true that they will lose their sense of happiness in the long-term depression and denial, so that the sense of self-worth is missing for a long time, and the enthusiasm for life is gradually declining.
When we get a new piece of clothing that we have been looking for for a long time, we are naturally happy, and this positive attitude will definitely stimulate us to continue to work hard and be hopeful for the future.
Whether it is positive or negative, it is an extremely strong psychological suggestion that will affect our judgment of ourselves and the path of future development.
02: More important than poverty is dignity
Wearing someone else's old clothes will save some of our expenses, but it will drain our energy and make our dignity suffer.
Moreover, let people who know each other see that even if they don't say anything on the surface, they will laugh at or despise us behind the scenes.
People always have to get through the low tide alone, and no matter how much help others have, they must stand up on their own.
Sometimes, it is more uncomfortable to accept the help of others than to endure it ourselves, because no matter how difficult it is, we also need to rely on dignity to support and continue to crawl forward.
When a person loses his dignity, it will inevitably affect our value attributes and interpersonal interactions, and this heavy crit is not a one-time blow, but a long-term and deep one.
Some lies, spoken and spoken, come true.
Tell yourself that you can get through it, tell others that you can hold on, and gradually, we will get out of the trough and usher in the dawn.
03: What is more important than throttling is open source
In life, throttling is very important, but if you want to make a leap in your hierarchy, you can't achieve it by throttling alone, and only open source can make us successful.
Even if the ideal is not to achieve financial freedom, if you want to make a breakthrough and make steady progress, you must also have rational planning and ideas.
Not wearing other people's old clothes is just pushing yourself to make yourself feel that there is no way back but to go all out.
When we feel cornered, we make positive adjustments instead of waiting for handouts.
It is precisely because we know the laziness in human nature that we do not allow ourselves to go into the dark paths and find the light of hope.
Taking the initiative to open source is an explanation to oneself, and it will eventually live up to expectations, achieve a career, and let oneself, family, and friends bloom.
Wearing other people's old clothes to solve difficulties is only a temporary solution, not a permanent solution.
Even if we are at a loss, we must not rush to the doctor, but take the initiative to find the best solution.
Even if it is embarrassing to refuse, you must be firm in your beliefs and do not blindly follow them.
When the dust settles, the people who love us will understand our perseverance and applaud our achievements.
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