1. Don't always blame anyone, if you are good enough, how can you be the one who was left behind?
2. No matter what step you go up in life, there are people looking up to you at the bottom of the stairs, and there are people looking down on you. You look up and feel inferior, bow your head and be satisfied, only by looking at level can you see your true self.
3. People will never cherish three kinds of people: one is easy to get; the second is that it will never leave; The third is the one that has always been good to you. However, often these three types of people once they leave and never come back. 
Fourth, no matter how big things are today, they will be small things tomorrow, and no matter how big things this year, they will be stories next year. Be happy in everything, no one can leave this world alive in the end anyway.
Fifth, loneliness is to give you time to think about yourself, in a person's day, you have to do only one thing, to make yourself excellent.
Sixth, I hope you can become calm again, calmly face the gossip of others, calmly face the unfulfilled promises of others, calmly face the gradual distancing of the people around you, and calmly face the difficulties encountered in life. 
7. If one thing makes you ugly, don't do it. If a person makes you unlovable, leave him.
8. We sometimes look at the wrong person, not because of our eyesight, but because we are kind; We sometimes love the wrong people, not because we're stupid, but because we're emotional!
9. If you take the wrong path, remember to turn back; If you see the wrong person, you must know how to let go. The leaves are not yellow for a day; People's hearts are not cold for a day. No one is stupid, no one is stupid, looking at people with their eyes, being able to walk their eyes, and feeling with their hearts is true. 
10. Don't be afraid to do something wrong, even if it's wrong, don't be upset, life is right and wrong. What's more, there are many things, and in retrospect, it doesn't matter if it's right or wrong.
Ten. 1. Life is always a dilemma, no matter how persistent and unwilling you are, you have to learn to accept those who are no longer pure. From crying and complaining, to smiling, in the end, it was just a casual encounter.
Ten. 2. Don't complain, complaining will always only show that you are not capable. Because if you have the ability, you can change the status quo, not just put up with it. Since you can't change it, and it's not enough to walk away, then accept the reality silently. 
Ten. 3. Pessimistic people are defeated by themselves first, and then by life; Optimistic people overcome themselves first, and then they overcome life.
Ten. Fourth, capable people do not care about emotions, but only do things seriously; Incompetent people are not serious in their work, but only emotionally. Take out the temper, that's called instinct; Suppress your temper back, it's called ability!
Ten. Fifth, some pressure always has to be carried by yourself, and it becomes a complaint full of negative energy when you say it, and it is useless to seek comfort, and it only increases the troubles of others, and when you go through the difficulties and obstacles alone, you will definitely be grateful to yourself who insisted on it without saying a word. 
Ten. Sixth, the so-called life is an endless lie, an inexhaustible human heart, an inexhaustible concern, and an endless experience of ups and downs!
Ten. 7. The most uncomfortable miss is not that the other party doesn't know what you miss, but that he knows but doesn't care. Some people, no matter how nice you are to him, he will not pay attention to how insignificant you are in his life.
Ten. 8. In life, some things are just numbers, and they don't have to be too deliberate; Some people are just passers-by and don't have to be too nostalgic; Some things are just things, and you don't have to expect too much. Having a beautiful mood, a simple state of mind, and a feeling of happiness is the most beautiful even if it is not perfect. 
Ten. 9. Don't judge someone else's appearance, because he doesn't depend on you for food; Do not judge the virtues of others, for you may not be as noble as them; Don't judge other people's families, because that's none of your business.
Two. 10. There are many ways to live in this world, don't be surprised if fate pushes you to any level, don't complain. It does not deprive you of the right to happiness, and in any kind of life, you must be able to find your own happiness.
Two. 1. What makes people tired is not the long road or the endless busyness, but the decadence of the soul and the loss of hope. Only by not resenting and not being lonely can we illuminate everything like a mirror. Life is a journey that goes farther and farther, walking for a while, meeting some people, looking at a landscape, regardless of the gains and losses, and the last thing left is a kind of indifference.