Many boys go numb after more blind dates, which is simply a waste of time. Every time I go on a blind date, I see each other, I eat food, and I drink tea, but the result is like going through the motions, I see the light and die. In fact, the first meeting on a blind date is very important! How do you quickly judge at the first meeting, and if there is a following? Here are three efficient blind date observation methods for friends, so that you can see whether this girl is reliable or not when you meet for the first time.
First, look at the emotional state. When a girl gets along with you face-to-face, her emotional level represents whether there is a possibility of development between you. If he is in a very low mood and sullen, and you say three words, and he will reply to you, then this girl is not here for a blind date at all, and he is not interested in you at all; If he is in a particularly high mood and comes up with a sweet mouth, then you should also be careful, because he is likely to have other purposes; Or his facial expressions let go of himself and completely disregard his image, which means that he doesn't take you into account at all and doesn't care about your opinion at all. A girl who can really continue to develop, the first time she meets you, her mood must be neither high nor low in this medium state, he will follow your words, he will be curious about you, ask you questions, and even he will be a little nervous.
Second, it depends on the topic selection. Be careful of a girl who meets you for the first time and asks about your relationship experience, but they won't ask you why they broke up or why they quarreled, because they didn't come to understand your personality at all, she just wanted to see how much money you spent on your ex-girlfriend and what gifts you gave you. A girl who comes on a blind date sincerely, she will pay attention to what you usually like, what your interests and hobbies are, because she is thinking about getting along with you in the long run, and is considering whether it is suitable for your personality.
Third, look at the way you check out. A lot of boys think that if a girl wants to follow the AA system, they are not interested in themselves at all. In fact, this is not the case at all, this has to be divided into four situations: if she can't wait to ask you how much money you just ate as soon as she finishes eating, and I will transfer it to you immediately, then she really doesn't want to have anything to do with you. If she says that you will invite you to dinner this time, and she will invite you to watch a movie, it means that she will at least not reject you. There is also a situation where after the two of you go home from all sides, she sends you a message and says: How much did you spend today? At this time, you can tentatively say, it's okay, just have fun. At this time, if he replies, then I will invite you next time, it can show that this girl, she can continue to get along with you, and she is probably a little interesting to you. If it's the kind of girl who doesn't react at all when she watches you go to the checkout, and there is no news when she goes home, then I don't need to say more, and it's okay to bother if you contact again.
Boys, remember that the most important thing in blind dates is efficiency, and if you waste too much time, it will make you miss the surprises that follow.
Finally, I recommend a book "Game Theory" to my friends, which I can read and use, and I hope it will help you in your life.