Jia BaoyuAs the grandson of Jiafu, he is naturally very familiar with the etiquette and rules of the family. In Daiyu's first visit to JiafuJia MuThe main reason why Baoyu pretended to be ignorant and did not express her joy and surprise at Daiyu was out of respect for etiquette. In this one with etiquette at its coreSocialEach step and link has its own strict regulations. Baoyu must act in accordance with the established procedures and order in order to be compliantSocialexpectations and requirements.
In addition, Baoyu's behavior also reflects his respect for the elders of the family. According to the rank and generation of the family, we will meet youJia MuIt is the only way to go first, and Baoyu can't be reckless to surpass the other elders to meet Daiyu. He should go first in orderJia MuSalute and only after the salute can you take further action. This rigorous attitude reflects the importance that Baoyu attaches to the family and the order of the family.
See youJia MuOn the occasion, although Baoyu was aware of Daiyu, he deliberately maintained a calm attitude. This is to make a good first impression on Daiyu. Everyone knows that first impressions can often determine how people evaluate and feel about a person. Therefore, Baoyu tries to avoid being too excited and affectionate when Daiyu first meets. If he's visitingJia MuWhen staring and paying too much attention to Daiyu, I'm afraid it will giveJia MuLeaving the impression of not knowing etiquette may also make Daiyu feel uncomfortable.
Baoyu's demeanor was cautious, his eyes were focused, and he accurately complied with the timeSocialNorms of etiquette. He always has his eyes on itJia Mu's body, not distracted by Daiyu's arrival. Such behavior reflects Baoyu's cultivation and upbringing, which makesJia MuThe impression on him is even deeper and positive.
The reason why Baoyu pretends to be ignorant is not only to follow etiquette and make a good first impression on Daiyu, but more importantly, because he has a good handPsychological qualitiesand a respectful attitude towards women.
When facing Daiyu, Baoyu did not show eagerness to see Daiyu's faceMood。He knew that Daiyu was a person who had lived in Jiafu for a long time, and he was not in a hurry to see her. Baoyu is able to control her curiosity and passion, respecting Daiyu's privacy and her own choices. This stable, deep state of mind shows Baoyu's inner qualities and noble sentiments.
Baoyu's respect for women is also one of the manifestations of his respect for Daiyu. He does not see women as playthings or objects of entertainment, but as his relatives and friends, and is full of pity for them. Baoyu has a clear boundary between his feelings and does not have any wrong thoughts about Daiyu, so he is able to maintain a calm and respectful attitude when he meets Daiyu.
When Daiyu and Baoyu first met, she also developed a strong interest and curiosity in Baoyu. Baoyu's distinctive image of the demon king of the mixed world and his special attitude towards women made Daiyu want to know more about himInner worldand the real face. This curiosity and anticipation is due to the sincerity, self-discipline and respect for women that Baoyu showed when she first met. Daiyu considers Baoyu to be a different person, and his behavior and attitude arouse her great interest and attraction. She is willing to learn more about Baoyu and try to uncover the secrets of his heart.
To sum up, Baoyu has both his and Daiyu's performance when they first metSocialEtiquette and respect for the tradition of Jiafu also uphold the respect and self-discipline for Daiyu, and also show hisPsychological qualitiesand stability. Such behavior and attitude made a deep impression on Daiyu, and generated a strong curiosity and expectation. Baoyu's way of meeting for the first time not only reflects his identity and cultivation as the grandson of Jiafu, but also shows his special feelings for Daiyu and his respect and cherishment for women.