In real life, there are some people who pursue a good life, and there is nothing wrong with that. However, if a person does not consider his actual ability and blindly pursues excessive enjoyment, such a life will not be too good, but will bring a heavy burden to the family. For example, I once met a neighbor who had a meagre income of her own, but when she got married, she made many extravagant demands and put material desires first. It is believed that they must have a lot of conflicts over money after marriage, because her desires far exceed their actual income. It is difficult to change a person's material concept, so when choosing a marriage partner, we should not choose someone who is too vain and has strong material desires.
In reality, there is nothing wrong with the fact that a man earns money to support his family as a common distribution of family labor. But be careful: most people are ordinary people, and both parties need to work hard after marriage, rather than just expecting to put all the pressure and responsibility on each other. If a woman only wants to enjoy the fruits of men's labor, is unwilling to contribute, and only wants to live a luxurious life, such a family is not destined to be peaceful. I have seen some families like this, where men work very hard, working more than ten hours a day, earning more than 100,000 yuan a year, barely making ends meet. If the woman can also find a job and live a frugal life, they may have a good life. On the contrary, if he meets a wife who is inconsiderate of her husband and has some wastefulness, the man will be very miserable. TalkingIn loveIf the other person always wants to enjoy it easily and has no willingness to fight for the family, it may be a problem.
InMarriageIt is inevitable that there will be some small contradictions, which require both sides to run in. Able to run wellMarriagepeople usually have the quality of being tolerant and not caring about small things. IfMarriageThe subject is a cautious person, then this paragraphMarriageIt can be difficult. Some people will make a lot of noise when there is a slight problem at home; The slightest bit of trouble will cause you to lash out. Such days will not be happy. Living your life requires spending time with people who know how to care about others and don't care about small things. Therefore, it is best not to choose those who are too materialistic and think that they are superior to others, so as not to regret it later. At the same time, we should also be careful to avoid parents with such personalities to avoid unnecessary trouble.
Summary: Meeting these women can keep men busy. First of all, if a woman pursues material things and vanity and does not consider her actual ability, it is likely to bring a heavy burden to the family; Secondly, if a woman does not work her own and only wants to rely on a man to support her family, such a family will face many contradictions; Finally, if a woman has a snarky personality and is too calculating, it is too smallMarriageLife can also get difficult. Therefore, when choosing a marriage partner, we should pay attention to these characteristics and avoid regrets and pain.
Marriage is a major event in life, and it is very important to choose the right partner. Hopefully, this article will help men who are getting married and provide some references. Everyone's situation is different, so chooseMarriageWhen the object is based on your own specific situation, you should not blindly pursue the external glimpse and ignore the character and values of the other party. The most important thing is to respect, understand and support each other, and work together to manage the relationship well, so that you can truly achieve happinessMarriageLife.