People live for a lifetime, and it is inevitable to encounter grievances and injuries. But what really makes us feel pain is not the grievances themselves, but our perceptions and attitudes towards them.
If we have been immersed in grievances and cannot extricate ourselves, then we will be overwhelmed by these negative emotions and lose the motivation to move forward.
Everyone has an unspeakable past, perhaps a painful memory, or a deep grievance.
We often hope that time will wash away all traces like flowing water.
But what really gets us out of the predicament is not time, but the relief and pattern in our hearts.
Relief means that we are willing to let go of the burden of the past and no longer let those old things restrict our steps.
Let go and choose not to let those negative emotions affect our lives now and in the future. Learn to let go, and life will become easier and better.
Pattern is a kind of vision, which represents our cognition and understanding of the world, and determines the angle and height of our view of problems.
The open layout allows us to see more possibilities and find the best way to solve the problem. A person with a big picture will not be troubled by the predicament in front of him, he can always stand at a higher level to examine the problem, so as to find an opportunity to break through.
If you want to truly ** inner trauma, you need to learn to let go and have the big picture.
Only by letting go of the burden of the past and facing the reality bravely can we find the path to happiness.
Learn to face up to the grievances and hurts in life and turn them into motivation to move forward. Only then can we continue to move forward on the road of life.