If you get married for the second time, you will be happy if you become this kind of person (middle-aged women).
In the second marriage, only by being a person with a "wolf heart and dog lungs" will he be happy
Middle-aged women who don't want to have children anymore must get custody of their children when they are divorced.
You must not give up your own children, but you spend energy raising other people's children in the reorganized family, and in the end others are not familiar with them, and you have not raised them.
First, for a happy second marriage, the finances must be transparent.
Because of the complex interpersonal relationships brought about by the previous marriage, the most important thing at the beginning of the second marriage is to establish a relationship of trust.
Economic transparency and negotiation are the basis for the happiness of second marriage.
Most of the second marriages fail because they are not in place, resulting in a loss of trust and making remarriage and reorganization meaningless.
Second, don't make comparisons and turn over old accounts.
In the new family, you can't have the name and deeds of your ex, and let your ex die in your mouth and heart.
The taboo of second marriage, I can't stop saying what will happen to my ex-husband, what will happen to you? Your ex-husband is so good, why did you get divorced? This is a very stupid performance.
It will only make the current person disgusted and hateful, and destroy the relationship between husband and wife.
If you really can't do it well, you can do a farewell ceremony in psychology, for example, every year Qingming burns some ingots candles for your ex-husband who is still alive.
Third, build a good relationship with the other person's children.
You must treat your child as your own, but you must have a correct attitude and respect the relationship between the child and the biological mother.
Distinguish between the priorities and priorities of parenting.
Some ex-wives love to make trouble, and as soon as the child has a problem, they will accuse the stepmother of not doing it properly, you have to make the whole family realize that the child has a biological mother, the biological mother has greater responsibilities, and the stepmother has no main obligation, so do this, your second marriage life will be much easier.
In a second-married family, both men and women should keep in mind an important principle: the reorganization of family relations is more important than all relationships.
Anyone who gets in the way of your new family relationship must learn to block and reject it.
In the emotional life of the second marriage, there is no left and right thing, and there must be a "sense of proportion".
The antonyms of left and right are chicken, dog, embattled, and dilemma.