School bullying is never a new topic! But you know, it may be just the tip of the iceberg.
Go ahead, tell your mom and dad, tell your school, we'll be fine. Even if you go to the police, it's useless, we're all underage! When we hear someone who doesn't say something like this, do we still think it's a small problem? It's scary to think about. Not long ago, I saw a Korean drama called "Dark Glory", which was highly recommended by a very good friend of mine, a TV series with the theme of revenge on school bullying. 
is on a non-mainstream film and television **, the show has two seasons, both of which have ended, and you can watch them all at once.
I have searched the mainstream film and television apps in China, and I can confirm that there is no such resource, and it is estimated that the domestic launch is limited. Therefore, it's inconvenient to post it here**, interested friends can follow me and give me a private message, and I will push it to you. The first feeling after watching it is that South Korea really dares to shoot anything, and the reviewer also dares to do anything. The theme of this drama itself is relatively sensitive, coupled with the ups and downs of the plot, the foreshadowing undercurrent, the acting skills of the starring Song Hye Kyo and the number two are very **, which is indeed exciting. However, what shocked me the most was not the plot, but the barrage ......A barrage full of names or facts of real bullies! densely packed and densely filled the entire screen, if you don't close the barrage, you won't be able to watch the show normally. 
Each of these rolling barrages was like a torn, bloody, bright red wound, suffocating.
In fact, the names that appear on the barrage have nothing to do with any of the characters and plots of this show, and their existence is just exposing the real campus where bullying occurs. Behind every name may be a real school bullying incident, and behind every barrage there may be a darkest shadow that lingers for a lifetime. What's even more heart-wrenching is that even if it's just such a barrage, not all victims dare to write the full name of the bully directly. Maybe they are in the process of being bullied and timid, or maybe they have made the former bullies physically and mentally hurtful and powerless. 
Global data on "school bullying".
According to UNESCO statistics, there are about 24.6 billion children and adolescents experience violence and bullying in schools. Of these, about 25 per cent were bullied because of their physical appearance, 25 per cent because of their gender or sexual orientation, and 25 per cent because of their ethnicity or nationality.
The United Nations also surveyed nearly 100,000 minors in 18 countries, and the staggering data showed that nearly 67% of them said they had been victims of school bullying. More than 20 per cent of children have experienced being bullied and not going to school at all. The Organisation for Economic Co-operation and Development (OECD) surveyed 10 million 15-year-olds worldwide, and the final data shows that an average of 7% of students have been bullied. This is particularly true in Australia, where nearly 10 per cent have been beaten or pushed at school, 30 per cent have been victims of bullying, and 37 per cent of Australian principals deal with bullying at least once a week. According to a survey conducted by the Ministry of Education, Culture, Sports, Science and Technology of Japan, a total of more than 61 in 202150,000, an increase of 9 compared to 202080,000 up. Among them, the most bullying incidents occurred in primary schools, with more than 500,000 cases; There was an increase in incidents of cyberbullying through socialization, etc., with 2190,000; There were 705 cases of student suicide due to bullying. 
In the 2018-2019 school year, approximately 5.2 million students between the ages of 12 and 18 were bullied across the U.S., including race, nationality, religion, disability, gender, identity, and more than 1,500 schools reported at least one hate crime, according to U.S. News & World Report.
According to the results of the "2023 Survey on the Current Situation of School Violence" released by the Ministry of Education of South Korea, among the 3.84 million students in school from the fourth grade of elementary school to the third year of high school, 826% of students participated in the survey. According to the survey results, the number of elementary, middle, and high school students who have experienced school violence in South Korea has reached a record high in the past 10 years, and the number of verbal violence in terms of the type of school violence has reached 371% and 17 percent of physical violence3%, collective exclusion 151%。According to the UK's National Centre for Child Development Research, children who have been bullied at school face more psychological problems in adulthood, and these children are generally more likely to experience greater psychological stress before the age of 50. In 2020, a survey by Central China Normal University in China showed that the incidence of school bullying in China was 324%, of which the incidence of physical bullying is 127%, verbal bullying 174%, relationship bullying 105%, cyberbullying 68%。
Another study found that young people around 30 years old who have experienced bullying at school have three times the risk of suffering from mental illnesses such as depression compared to other normal people, and their income will be lower than others.
In addition, minors who have been bullied in schools for a long time are more likely to commit crimes in adulthood, with a crime rate that is six times higher than that of normal children, and they are also more likely to use corporal punishment and abuse against their children. Why is school bullying so common? Why is it so harmful and still banned? Food for thought. The level of horror of "school bullying".
How terrifying can the "innocent" teenagers we often think of be if they do evil? Here are a few real-life examples to shock our imagination. In 2021, a girl** shocked the world. A girl named Ashisai Hirose left the world that had always terrified her in an incredible way that was absolutely miserable enough - she froze to death. Her body was found under a thick layer of snow in a park, and she was not found in time after her death, but only when the snow melted and her feet were exposed. 
I believe that all people can't imagine what kind of pain a person has to go through to make a girl in her prime make such a big determination.
That's right! After the details were made public, it was none other than school bullying that drove the girl into a corner. Soon after Shuangcai entered middle school, she was severely bullied, and her methods were extremely bad. The bully took her ** and **, indecently discussed how to bully her in the past, and forced her to do all kinds of lewd actions in the corner of the toilet for them to watch; Threaten her and force her to appear at any time they want to insult her on the grounds of publicizing ***. In September 2019, the girl was asked by the bully to commit suicide by jumping into the river, but fortunately the river did not drown her that day, but attracted the police and her mother, but the problem was not solved. The reason why this group of bad minors lied and Shuangcai jumped into the river was because of their mother's violence. The police eventually found out the truth, but unfortunately the perpetrators were all under the age of 14, and the case was closed with a "serious warning". The girl's mother was heartbroken, so she changed schools for her, but the pain did not go away. The girl suffers from severe traumatic stress disorder and is afraid to approach the schoolyard and feels terrified even at home. No one knows if Shuangcai was bullied on campus again after jumping into the river, but the loss of her life in 2021 was the price of her own blood to tell the world that "evil" has nothing to do with age, and even sometimes, age has become a protective umbrella. 
In 2019, 10-year-old Kevin Jr. in the United States ended his life at home, and it was the school computer that gave him the school to kill him. Because this computer is full of messages from his classmates to him, along with "Die, you don't belong here!" Such vicious words. In 2021, Tina took her own life on her 15th birthday because she could no longer endure cyberbullying. Since two years ago, her classmates have repeatedly sent Tina text messages to "persuade her to commit suicide", spreading rumors on the Internet that she is a "dirty Arab." In 2020, Tina, who was in agony and failed to attempt suicide, was persuaded by the bully to keep trying, telling her, "The second attempt, you won't fail, we want you to die." ”
In October 2023, a post about a 7-year-old girl in Loudi, Hunan Province, who was bullied by multiple classmates at school, went viral and attracted widespread attention. According to the parents, during the lunch break on the 20th of that month, their daughter was bullied by more than a dozen female classmates in the same class, including physical harm and sexual bullying. According to the post, the girl cried when she came home and complained about her experience, and her parents were distressed and angry. The incident was explained by the Lengshuijiang City Joint Investigation Team at noon on October 30, and the situation was true.
In March 2023, an incident involving bullying involving multiple minors occurred in an unmanned basement in a community in Fenyang City. The group bullied an underage girl and filmed her behavior as **. On 29 June, two of the minors who had reached the age of 14 were criminally detained, while the remaining six minors under the age of 14 were merely ordered to be strictly disciplined by their parents, in accordance with the requirement that the age of criminal responsibility was not met. Seeing this, I wonder if it has stunned you? Look, there are more exaggerated forms of school bullying. South Korea has exposed a shocking school violence organization "Iljinhui", a campus organization of a similar nature composed of minors that has existed in South Korea for decades. 
They lurk on campuses in South Korea, from third-grade elementary school students to high school students, and because they are so secretive, they don't know the exact number of people in the group. According to some estimates, the number of people in this organization should be about 200,000-400,000. That's a staggering number alone, and look at the behavior of this organization.
In 2003, a group beat up a student in a middle school in Busan, resulting in death. One day in 2005, a female student in a middle school in Seoul showed off. What's more, the group often organizes "sex parties" in entire bars, auctioning off bullied schoolgirls in fixed places, calling this place a "slave pavilion". The "Ichijinkai" has a wide sphere of influence and spreads to the metropolitan area, and it is completely impossible for the bullied to solve the problem by transferring to another school, unless they go to a remote local school. This is the slapstick of children in the eyes of adults? How can childlike slapsticks develop into a gangster organization with the nature of ***? Food for thought. What exactly is "school bullying"?
School bullying refers to intentional and persistent offenses against others, directly or indirectly, that occur between students with unbalanced forces within the control of the school, causing physical or psychological harm or property damage to the victim.
It has three typical characteristics: aggressiveness; Unequal, bullies are often higher in body, status, and power than the victim; Repetition and continuity. It exists in 6 main manifestations: physical bullying, verbal bullying, relationship bullying, cyberbullying, sexual bullying, prejudice bullying.
Among these forms, cyberbullying accounts for an increasing proportion and is on the rise. Because of its anonymity and non-face-to-face nature, the Internet can infinitely amplify the evil of bullies. Those bullies often just need a keyboard and mouse to put their victims to death. Even with the most tragic consequences, there is generally no direct connection to bullying itself. According to the survey, 59% of teens in the United States have experienced cyberbullying, and the probability of bullying in other situations decreases significantly as they age, only the rate of decline in cyberbullying is slow. To make matters worse, teens who experience cyberbullying are four times more likely to commit suicide than those who have not. Their lives were ruined beyond recognition by bullies.
When we all feel full of sin when we discuss the issue of "destroying a person's life", in fact, those minors may already be familiar with these "evils".
They generally do not seek out evenly matched children to attack, but focus on the most vulnerable areas of the victims, so that they are unable to prevent them from both physical and mental blows. Bullies are generally very good at lying, and their clever disguise makes their bullying behavior look more like a normal conflict between children. In fact, ordinary conflict and bullying are not the same thing at all. Bullies tend to be very measured, and when they find out that what they are doing is not being noticed or punished accordingly, they will only get worse. Bullies are generally not aimed at things, but at people.
I once saw a victim's netizen on the Internet who said that he once told the teacher the fact that he was being bullied, but the teacher mistook it for an ordinary fight between classmates. After the teacher asked him to shake hands with the bully, it attracted more bullies.
Another victim netizen said that when he first told the school that someone was bullying him, the school's reply was to ask him to stay away from the person who bullied him. Then this netizen changed schools a total of 7 times, and gave feedback many times during the period, and the replies were basically the same.
As adults, if we hadn't encountered similar incidents and needed to face them, we might not have thought that those whispering calls for help might be the only way that this child could find at his age, and it was also the courage that the child had saved for a long time. Sadly, when victims find the courage to ask an adult for help, they are likely to receive no help and even more brutal retaliation from the bully. So, what should we do in the face of "school bullying"? ......
I'll talk about it tomorrow.
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