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There's a good saying in "The Ordinary World":
"If you don't bother yourself, others will never be able to bother you. ”
Life is like this, only by letting yourself live well first, can you let others live well.
It's like if we don't have any troubles so that we don't bring them to others.
If a person thinks too much and gets used to thinking too much, he is actually consuming himself step by step, or even destroying himself.
As the saying goes, "Illness comes from eating, health comes out, misfortune comes out of words, and troubles come out of thought." ”
For the rest of your life, don't think too much, otherwise you will live too tired, too bitter, and too tasteless.
Don't overthink it
Writer Lin Qingxuan once said:
"After sweeping today's fallen leaves today, tomorrow's leaves will not fall today, don't worry about tomorrow, and try to live in this moment today. ”
If a person thinks too much, he can't get any benefits.
But there are too many people, even if they pay a huge price, they are willing to think too much, and even have long been accustomed to thinking too much.
You have to understand that if you think too much, you will have more troubles, because the more you think about it, the better your memory will be.
Just like director Wong Kar-wai once said:"The biggest problem of people is that they have a good memory. ”
Once there are too many troubles, the whole person will fall into internal friction, and naturally he will not do anything valuable or meaningful in life.
In the end, not to mention his life, he also made his life a chicken feather, without any vitality and hope.
Romain Rolland once said:
"Life is troubled and confused, just because I see too closely, and I think too much. ”
People live, don't think too much, because even if you think too much, it is impossible to solve things, but will breed more problems.
As the saying goes, there is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself, and many times, even most of the time, life is actually peaceful and stable.
It's just that there are always some people who don't know how to cherish it, but they are bored with themselves, and they insist on doing something, and finally let their lives go by, with more and more troubles and more and more pain.
Don't get cranky
Life is not easy, but many people know this very well, but they can't help but meddle in their affairs, be idlers, and think how amazing they are.
In fact, by not interfering in other people's lives and not interfering in other people's cause and effect, we can respect each other and let each other go.
So, let the flowers become flowers, let the trees become trees, let yourself really go with the flow, and take precautions.
Therefore, in the face of other people's affairs, we should not think crankily, let alone think superfluously.
In the same way, even for your own affairs, you must quit the habit of cranky thinking and get rid of the instinct of cranky.
The American writer Marianna Williamson once said this:
"Dwelling on the past does not heal the wounds of the past, and only living in the present can heal the wounds of yesterday. ”
Always believe that as long as you let yourself live in the present, cherish the present, and live the present, life will be its best.
You also have to tell yourself that people's biggest problems are often not from the outside world, but from themselves.
Therefore, the biggest enemy of people in this life is themselves, and only by learning to control themselves and conquer themselves can we have a better life experience.
As Mr. Yang Jiang said, your problem is that you read too little and think too much.
So, quit the habit of thinking too much, don't let yourself think about this and that at every turn, take action, be down-to-earth, and make changes.
Then, be serious, focus, and stay the course, and you'll find yourself living healthier and stronger.
Don't go for it
Li Dazhao once said such a sentence:
"Everything must be done in a down-to-earth manner, not in fantasy, not in vain, but only with a truth-seeking attitude, do down-to-earth work.
If you study with this attitude, the truth can be understood, and if you do things with this attitude, you can achieve success. ”
In fact, it is not difficult for people to live better and have a bigger career.
The difficult thing is how to make yourself not only fantasizing, but to implement it in down-to-earth efforts, so that you can be conscientious and diligent.
Then, take out a down-to-earth spirit of struggle, wholeheartedly, without distractions to implement, struggle, and persevere.
In this way, we can truly achieve the present without being mixed, the future without worry, and the past without entanglement.
In the end, wholeheartedly, down-to-earth, and truly achieve steady and far-reaching results, the edge is revealed.