Everyone has their own ideas, and there is no way we can change the minds of others, but we can stick to our own ideas. Many people have their own ideas, and we don't have to argue with strong words, because it will never be difficult for you to change other people's minds, and everyone's thoughts are formed for a certain period of time. It's like two husband and wife, they both want to change each other with their own experience, but after decades, everyone compromises. After decades of running-in, no one can change anyone, but everyone has learned to accept each other, and everyone feels that as long as they can get by.
Everyone has their own habits and opinions that they have formed for a long time, and everyone feels that their ideas are always right, so when other people's opinions are different from their own, they will feel that others have opposing opinions. In fact, most of the time we have to learn to accept other people's points of view, and we have to be able to allow others to be different from ourselves. Only in this way will we not lead to differences on some major issues because of different views, and as long as the ideological direction of the two people's congresses is the same, then there will be no major contradictions.
So when we can't change others, arguments are useless, and we can accept that different people have different opinions. When we all learn to accept each other's perspectives, then find common ground, and then move forward to the future together.