Women flirt with you, and men should understand their minds
Man, have you ever found it difficult for women to understand? They always have all kinds of "little thoughts" that confuse you? In fact, behind these "careful thoughts" may be that she is "showing love" to you.
As expressed in Bai Juyi's poems, women are subtle and euphemistic in their treatment of love. In contrast, men prefer to be straightforward. However, this does not mean that a woman's attitude towards love is not strong.
On the contrary, they tend to wrap their love tightly in a restrained way, but their hearts are full of struggles and expectations. When they meet the object of their affection, they often can't hold back and are eager to try.
And this opportunity, once missed, may never be there again. So, if a woman is always looking for excuses to trouble you, don't get me wrong, she may be trying to get your attention in this way or convey to you that she has a good opinion of you.
If you also have a good feeling, you might as well take the initiative and maybe you can seize this opportunity.
When a woman has a crush on you, she will involuntarily approach you and get close to you, whether it is asking for your attention or pretending to be angry, because she likes you.
Women are usually reluctant to cause trouble to others, especially men. So, when she comes to you on her own initiative, don't think she's finding fault. In fact, she has a crush on you and hopes to have more opportunities to get close to you.
For example, clerk Zhou Liqun, she fell in love with her male colleague Alin, and as long as she was free, she would revolve around Alin. However, Arin doesn't seem to be sensitive to this and often appears wooden.
Alin was often called by Zhou Liqun to help carry heavier items at work, and although there were other male colleagues in the department, Zhou Liqun only called him, which made her seem like she liked Alin.
In the summer, the company will send two cases of drinks every month, although Zhou Liqun has male colleagues on the same road, she still chooses to let Alin help deliver drinks to her home, which further proves her trust and affection for Alin.
After being reminded by others, Alin finally realized that he also liked Zhou Liqun, so he took the initiative to pursue it, and eventually they became lovers. So, if you find that a woman is always coming to trouble you and pestering you, it means that she may have a special feeling for you and wants to develop a relationship.
This is a rare opportunity and must be taken advantage of. In addition, a woman who takes the initiative to chat with you and share her life may also be a sign of liking you, don't miss this signal.
When a girl puts aside her due reserve, takes the initiative to approach you, and talks about her heart in front of you, it is enough to prove that she has a deep love for you.
She uses the way she chats to attract your attention, because she likes you and can't help but want to talk to you, no matter what the topic, she is willing to listen.
Sometimes, she will take pains to find topics that you might be interested in, and although it may be far-fetched, she will also feel very happy. The most concrete proof is that even if she is busy, she will find time to send you a message, even if it is just a trivial sentence, it is enough to prove that she is paying attention to you.
This is a story shared by a male fan in a private message with me, he opened a small bookstore, and recently a girl came to the store almost every day to sit in the store, while reading a book, while chatting with him, the two chatted very speculatively, and occasionally he would buy a book for her.
The communication between them is getting deeper and deeper, and she not only takes the initiative to ask about his business, but also cares about his hometown, education level and emotional status. Sometimes, she would send messages to greet him for his three meals a day, when he was off work, and about his new books.
He was a little confused by this, so he came to me and asked me if she was interested in him. In fact, the answer is clear at a glance, she already likes him. A woman's liking is often reflected in the details of life, she takes the initiative to care about your life and work, and hopes to have more communication and interaction with you.
Only when you have an important place in her heart will she be willing to share her joys and worries, including the food she has tasted, the scenery she has admired, the songs she has listened to, and even the entanglements that have bothered her, will tell you that she has fallen in love with you.
If you feel the same way, then love will come naturally. In addition, she will take the initiative to approach you and hope to be closer to you.
Women will naturally want to be close to you if they are attracted to you, which includes shortening the physical distance between you, but also showing trust and affection for you in action.
Conversely, if a woman is cold to your feelings, she may choose to stay away from you or even turn a blind eye to you. If you notice that a woman is often approaching you on her own initiative, then she may be sending a "flirting" signal to you.
For example, she will deliberately follow you when participating in activities, reach out to you when climbing a mountain, and even lean close to you when riding in a car. In addition, she will deliberately slow down the pace of eating when she is having dinner with you, like to taste slowly with chopsticks, take a sip of tea to look at you again, and even take out the mirror from time to time to take a look at herself.
She also blushes and her heart beats when the topic of your conversation becomes intimate, which could mean that she has a crush on you. In addition, women will also attract your attention through subtle small movements and tricks, such as fiddling with your hair in front of you, as if looking in a mirror on the dresser, looking feminine and looking your best.
When a woman is emotionally attracted to you, her eyes cannot be hidden, and she will look at you in a panic, and even unconsciously throw flattery at you, expressing her deep love for you and expecting to be loved by you.
A woman who loves you deeply will always have a smile on her face and affectionate eyes when she sees you, and when you leave, she will snuggle up and turn back to wave goodbye to you.
Therefore, as a man, in the face of all kinds of women, learn to be sharp, be smarter, and discover her love for you in the details that the woman deliberately hides.
In fact, when a woman shows the above signs, you should immediately understand that if you also like her, seize the opportunity to strike while the iron is hot and win the heart of the beauty.
Only when a woman truly likes you will she want to communicate with you, share her joys and troubles, and show them to you without reservation. Wise male friends, be sure to seize this opportunity.