I will tell you an example from my side, an aunt, who is in her 40s this year and has never been married, but she has a wonderful life, she has a job she loves, and every year she will take a few months out to travel and go where she wants to go.
I once talked to her, she said that she may never get married in her life, she feels that she is very good alone, she buys herself insurance, pension, work likes, hobbies, no one can restrain her, very free. She also planned what she was going to do when she got old, and everyone was different.
But most people will choose to get married, after all, marriage will make the people around you think that you are a normal person, and getting married, having children and starting a family is the normal life of most people. Actually, it's nothing, if you meet someone you like, if you want to get married, don't regret it, if you don't meet someone you like, don't get married, the key is to see how you treat yourself, how you look at it, and live a wonderful lifeSometimes a person is also quite wonderful, life is wonderful, it can also be two people, the key depends on their own choice, don't regret your choice, choose the life you want!
A woman recounts her experience:I used to be a Dink, and I always felt that my husband and I were very good and didn't want to have children, which was annoying. It's my parents who are nagging in my ears every day, asking me to have a child, otherwise I will regret it when I get old, so I became a mother at the age of 36, and it has been almost 5 years in the blink of an eye, and I am already a mother of two children.
In fact, it was really annoying before the child was 3 years old, and the rhythm of my life was completely disruptedBut as the children grow up, their hearts become more and more grounded. It may be that people have a different mentality when they get older, and now I am really grateful to my parents, I always feel that life has a head, and if we don't let our husband and wife earn a mountain of gold, who will keep it.
Ordinary people with children is really manual work, not only tired and tired, my son crawled everywhere when he was a child, one did not pay attention to the windowsill, I bought the fence people do not enter at all, especially like to visit the balcony and kitchen.
When you go out to play, you have to stare indifferently, you have to bend over the whole time, and you have to hold it when you are tired of playing. Going out for a trip is like moving, bringing pots and pans, a change of clothes, laundry detergent, drying racks, diapers, ......Their own stuff is not enough in a trunk.
A young man saidWhen I was in my 20s, I also thought that it was good to get married, I was unrestrained, and I would make an appointment with three or five friends to travel on vacation, which was comfortable and free. After waiting for work, I have seen a lot of elderly patients who are lonely, I feel really desolate, I can't see the road, my hands and feet are not good, even if I have a meal, I have to ask ** to bring him, the family can also hire a nurse, and the one who has no money is even more lonely, often for breakfast, please ask the family members in the same ward to bring him a few steamed buns and a bowl of porridge, and then eat for a day, and relatives will show up when they are admitted to the hospital, and they look very sad.