Let's start with an example.
There is a fresh supermarket next door to the community, and business is very good. A new waitress Xiao Su was recruited, she was new to the city, and she wanted to show herself, work actively, be conscientious and responsible, but speak straight, stiff and choked, and was repeatedly criticized by customers. Once, Xiao Su saw an aunt break off the cabbage and throw it away, and there was only a little bit left of a cabbage. She couldn't help but shout at her aunt: "You are still finished, like you, who else is this dish sold to?" I happened to meet my aunt who didn't like her, "Can you eat rotten vegetables?" So the two sides exchanged words, no one was convinced, and the quarrel gradually escalated. Suddenly, the aunt's face turned from purple to sallow, and her whole body trembled involuntarily, and she was about to have convulsions. The person next to him saw that the big thing was not good, so he quickly called the female manager of the supermarket. When the manager saw it, he was dumbfounded. Fortunately, she was experienced on the spot, so she immediately stopped drinking Xiao Su, and hurriedly hugged her aunt and said, Auntie, you can break this cabbage as much as you like, it's okay. This did not allow the situation to develop viciously. Actually, don't blame the female manager for panicking, just last month, it was also this Xiao Su, because of a fierce quarrel to prevent customers from picking vegetables, causing customers to have a heart attack on the spot**, called 120, fortunately the rescue was timely and there was no major problem. Otherwise, not only compensation and lawsuits will be enough for the supermarket to drink a pot. Afterwards, the manager did not hesitate to dismiss Xiao Su, not because she did not do a good job, but because her service attitude would bring greater risks to the supermarket. The manager would not dare to use such a person!
When I encounter a quarrel in society, I will never dare to be tough and strong, I will immediately admit it, not because I am afraid of things, but because I don't cause trouble, I don't do such stupid things. Duel with pigs, what if you win?
Don't you see, those who fight on the street fight because of a word, don't they fight and lose both? --Is it cost-effective to go to the hospital for those who lose and go to jail for those who win? Why bother?
For those who have retired, social activities are basically cleared, and they are faced with three or five people in the family all day long. After dealing with them, you will find the code of family happiness.
Knowing this, the matter is ripe. Therefore, I can do as much work as I can at home, do my best, do not compare, do not nag, and do not complain.
For her wife, she can do as much as she wants, and she doesn't expect it; Even if you don't do it, you don't blame it, it's pure Buddha-nature.
For my children, I will do whatever you ask me to do, and if I don't take the initiative to step forward, they are all so old, do they still have to serve like children?
For her daughter-in-law, she does whatever she likes, opens one eye, closes one eye, it is rare to be confused, sometimes saying more than one word, and even causing misunderstandings, she has to tolerate and tolerate others. Keep your mouth in check.
For grandchildren, you can be a little positive, after all, minors still need to be guided, and they still need to be helped, and the residual heat still needs to be played.
Dear friends, if you do this, what else will be bad? What else are you not happy about?